Since the loneliest hero of ancient times, there is such a combat hero on the mainland, he won the first class merit in the self-defense counterattack against Vietnam in 1979, was awarded the title of second class combat hero by the army, and after the battle, he became an idol in the hearts of countless Chinese people, and he gained love.
However, just five years after he became a hero, he was sued in court by his wife, and the sad past of twelve families was pulled out behind him.
Today, I will take you to understand a moving story that really happened to the hero of the Vietnam War, Du Hai Shan.
One day in April 1984, a certain unit of the Kunming Military Region suddenly received a court summons stating that it hoped that Du Haishan, an officer of the ministry, would attend the court on time and accept his wife's divorce complaint. This news caused a sensation in an instant, because everyone who knew Du Haishan knew that this matter was really outrageous.
It is unbelievable that a couple who have been in love for many years suddenly want to divorce, not to mention that the woman has directly sued the military region with a paper complaint! People are speculating about what really happened between them, who is at fault in the first place? Could it be that the combat heroes they know are still unknown?
This kind of topic itself is easy to cause discussion, not to mention that Du Haishan is still a combat hero who is deeply admired by everyone, and is an example for everyone in the army to learn from, this matter is not only his family affair, but also related to the reputation and face of the army, once it is not handled well, the impact will be very bad.
The most troublesome thing is the leaders and soldiers who get along with Du Haishan day and night, they know Du Haishan's personality best, in their impression, Du Haishan as an officer is responsible and dares to take responsibility, and he is also amiable in his daily life, without any official frame, and is an extremely qualified soldier.
Almost no one had heard bad things about him, but it was true that he could be prosecuted, and the leaders of the troops did not want to interfere in Du Haishan's life, but this fact was not affecting well. The leader had no choice but to personally find Du Haishan to understand the situation, the soldiers had always been straight forward, and there were no twists and turns in the conversation between the two.
The leader directly asked Du Haishan what had happened between him and his wife, and he was going to go to court. If there is a misunderstanding in the middle, the leader is willing to help mediate; if Du Haishan really makes a life style problem, then don't blame the leader for being rude.
However, Du Haishan did not answer the leader's inquiry head-on, but only swore an oath to the leader that he had not done anything to be sorry for his family's wife and children, let alone sorry for the party and the country, and sorry for his military uniform.
It is just that there is some misunderstanding between him and his wife, he will appear in court on time to properly resolve it, these personal personal affairs do not need to be worried about by the leader, and the oath of party spirit as a guarantee is all true. The leader had always believed in Du Haishan's personality, and seeing that he was so insistent at this time, it was not good to say anything more, but repeatedly told him to resolve the family contradictions as soon as possible and not to wrongfully punish other girls.
Soon it was the day of the trial, and as the gavel in the judge's hand fell, Du Haishan's wife Li Weiping, as the plaintiff, began to state to the judge the reasons for her divorce from Du Haishan. There were too many grievances in the girl's heart, and before she could say two sentences, she began to cry, crying every sentence about Du Haishan's "disregard for home".
It turned out that since the two got married five years ago, they had been separated from each other for a long time, Li Weiping not only had to raise the children alone, but also took care of the elderly of the two families, and the chai rice oil and salt smoothed her edges and corners all day, but did not reduce her worship and love for the hero's husband.
But what her husband Du Haishan did made her extremely chilling, and Du Haishan had never taken on the responsibility of supporting her family! The jurors who were familiar with Du Haishan looked at each other and could not understand the meaning of these words, and in their impression, Du Haishan was a deputy company commander, and it was not a problem at all to support a family with a salary.
What's more, Du Haishan's poor life in the army is also obvious to everyone, presumably his salary has been sent home by him, so why should he disregard his family?
However, in the chen complaint of his wife Li Weiping, from the beginning of the marriage of the two, Du Haishan's salary sent home every time was less pitiful, at first she did not care, more money and less money is enough to spend, she believes in her husband's personality, and is also full of hope for the future of the two.
However, with the birth of the child, the family's expenses are getting bigger and bigger, and the salary sent home by Du Haishan seems to be somewhat insufficient, and the pressure on his wife is also increasing. What really makes Li Weiping dissatisfied is that Du Haishan, as a combat hero, is constantly improving his career, but the salary sent home has not risen much.
Seeing that the child was about to go to school, Li Weiping asked About Du Haishan's salary more than once, because the money he sent home was too little. However, Du Haishan was always stubborn in the face of this problem, preferring to tell some lies that could not stand up to scrutiny, rather than say where the rest of the salary went.
For this reason, the two did not quarrel less, the pressure of life made Li Weiping tired, she began to suspect that her husband had done something to apologize for the family, after all, day after day of chai rice oil and salt, let her become a yellow-faced woman. And Du Haishan is a battle hero in his prime, and he is the wishful man in the hearts of countless people.
After experiencing countless ideological struggles, the wife reluctantly filed a lawsuit with her husband, hoping to find out the truth with the help of a judge.
Li Weiping's crying made countless people moved, and they all looked at Du Haishan, hoping that he could give a reasonable explanation, and the judge was the same.
But Du Haishan was still in a state of limbo, and he looked at his wife, his eyes full of guilt, but asked the judge if he could not tell the reason, because it was his own private affair. The judge listened to this and paid it back? The judge told Du Haishan that if he could not come up with any reasonable explanation, the court would rule in favor of his wife and agree to Li Weiping's divorce proceedings against Du Haishan.
Seeing that his beloved wife was about to leave him, Du Haishan finally compromised and made public the secret that had been buried in his heart for many years, and it turned out that the reason why he failed to fulfill his due responsibility to the family stemmed from the battle that made him a hero five years ago.
In 1979, Vietnam repeatedly provoked and provoked troubles without a bottom line, and in desperation, we decided to fight back in self-defense, and Du Haishan, who was still the deputy squad leader of a certain unit of the 129th Division at the time, also led his own squad to the southwest frontier front.
For Du Haishan, the counterattack battle was far more brutal than he imagined, and under the pull of the two warring sides, the battlefield was transferred to the Langshan area, and both the enemy and us were gathering in Langshan in a race against time, after the Battle of Langshan was officially launched.
Du Haishan's squad received orders to insert as sharp knives into the Enemy-occupied Lang Son Building, an important fortification occupied by the Vietnamese army, with an unusually strong fortification on the outside, and the fire points on the various floors inside were extremely secretive, equipped with various light and heavy weapons.
Du Haishan's class, with him is also the twelfth person, the strength of the two sides is very different, want to take down the building is not easy, Du Haishan and the squad leader know the weight of responsibility on their shoulders, but still resolutely take the burden.
Their plan to wait for the large army to start the general offensive, take advantage of the chaos to rush into the fortifications outside the building with explosives packages and blow them up, this plan is not perfect, but there is no other way at the moment.
After nightfall, the squad leader informed everyone of the mission, stressing that this might be their last battle, and he asked the soldiers if they were afraid? The warriors shouted without hesitation: Don't be afraid! The squad leader thought for a moment and then suggested: In this battle, no matter who died, the surviving brothers must fulfill their obligation to support their families.
The soldiers agreed one after another, but there were tears in their eyes, they were obviously still a group of children in their teens and twenties, but at this moment they were willing to give up everything for the motherland! This is the Chinese soldiers, all good!
At five o'clock in the morning of the next day, the sound of the charge, which represented the beginning of the general offensive, resounded through the battlefield, and the squad leader took the lead and rushed toward the enemy's defense line with the explosive package, and the enemy, after a brief panic, quickly began to pour fire on our side.
Due to missing the best fighter, the first round of charge lasted only fifteen minutes before it failed, and Du Haishan's sharp knife squad was also sacrificed more than half, and the squad leader was furious and shouted two fighters nearby, and once again rushed to the enemy fortifications.
But the enemy was condescending, watching their every move, and after a series of gunshots, the squad leader and the two fighters fell in a pool of blood, heroically sacrificed, and the sharp knife squad was left with only Du Haishan and the other two fighters.
Seeing his brothers fall one after another, Du Haishan shouted to avenge the squad leader! With the other two warriors creeping toward the enemy fortifications, their eyes flashing with tears but incomparably determined, with a roar from Du Haishan, the three of them jumped up and first threw three grenades at the enemy troops, and then quickly ran to the bottom of the fortifications.
They had no time to hesitate, much less time to think about the way back, so they could only light the explosive package as quickly as possible, and then pick up their weapons and rush towards the Langshan Building. With a loud noise, the enemy's fortifications were successfully destroyed, and Du Haishan's three people were also pushed out by the air waves generated by the explosion, and Du Haishan passed out on the spot.
When he opened his eyes again, he was already in the hospital, and like most of the wounded and unconscious soldiers, Du Haishan could not care about the physical pain, and hurriedly asked how the battle was, whether their task was completed, and what was the situation of his comrades.
The good news was that they had successfully completed the arduous task assigned by their superiors and opened the way for the follow-up troops; the bad news was that the remaining 11 fighters of the Sharp Knife Squad had all died, and only Du Haishan had survived. Such an ending was too cruel for him, and this man who was as strong as steel finally couldn't help but cry out in pain.
At this time, he remembered the words of the squad leader to tell everyone, taking care of the families of the 11 brothers, became Du Haishan's insistence in this life, although the brothers have sacrificed, but for Du Haishan, they have always accompanied him, as long as the oath of that day is not forgotten by him, the brothers will not leave him.
It was also from this time that Du Haishan began to divide his bonus and salary into 12 parts, sending them to the families of 11 brothers, leaving only one copy for himself to send home.
After the end of the self-defense counterattack war, Du Haishan was awarded the first class merit for the capture of the Langshan Building, and was awarded the second-class combat hero by the army, and at the same time, as a hero representative, he gave a speech and report nationwide, and for a long time, Du Haisheng was an idol and example for the youth of the whole country, and also the light that guided countless young people to aspire to join the army and serve the country.
Among them, a female college student from Shandong University, after hearing about Du Haishan's heroic deeds, bravely found Du Haishan and took the initiative to pursue him, she is Du Haishan's current wife Li Weiping.
The two started as friends, and after a period of mutual understanding and running-in, they entered the palace of marriage amid the blessings of everyone. And Du Haishan was also arranged to enter the military academy for further study, and after graduation, he was promoted to deputy company commander, which can be described as a double harvest of career love.
Although life is sweet and sweet, Du Haishan knows the dedication and loneliness hidden behind the title of hero.
Du Haishan never told anyone about helping 11 heroic comrades-in-arms to support his family, including his wife Li Weiping, for his own promise, he chose to owe his family, he knew that he was sorry for his wife, but he did not even have the opportunity to say a word of apology.
He still divides his salary into 12 parts every month, sends it to the family of his comrades who died on time, and only one part is left for his wife, which has never stopped for five years, even if he is promoted and raised, he is also the family of his comrade-in-arms. Poor Du Haishan's wife, Li Weiping, raised the child alone, but also took care of the elderly on both sides, and carried all the burdens of life on his own, even if Du Haishan had all kinds of apologies, he could only hide it in his heart, because he did not want to involve others.
So much so that the wife was suspicious and filed a complaint to the military district to divorce him.
The secret that Du Haishan had buried in his heart for five years was finally dug up, and the entire court instantly burst into thunderous applause, just for this iron-blooded man who kept his promise.
Du Haishan solemnly apologized to his wife, but he did not expect to be forgiven by his wife, Li Weiping's efforts over the years he saw in his eyes, he owed too much, he only hoped that his wife could understand himself.
He firmly believed that this matter was a life-and-death vow between him and his comrades-in-arms, had nothing to do with others, did not need to involve others, and if it were not for his wife's divorce from him, he would not have told this oath to others under any circumstances.
Li Weiping, who learned the reason, was already in tears, and it turned out that the hero she loved deeply had never changed, but she did not wait for her to say anything. Du Haishan suddenly bowed deeply to her, thanked her for her hard work over the years, and expressed respect for her wishes and willingness to sign the divorce agreement.
The misunderstanding has been solved, Li Weiping hurriedly called for a halt, asking for the withdrawal of divorce proceedings, this divorce storm is finally over, after this incident, the husband and wife are as good as ever, more loving. Li Weiping also expressed his support for her husband and would help him share the responsibility of taking care of the families of his comrades-in-arms.
After the local department learned of Du Haisheng's deeds, it also sent warmth to them and reported Du Haisheng's family situation, hoping to make the story usher in a more happy ending. Du Haisheng was originally an idol role model for countless teenagers, and his deeds of sacrificing himself quickly spread throughout the country.
With the help of everyone, caring people from all walks of life have donated money and materials, hoping to help Du Haishan reduce the burden on his body, so that his family can live a happy life of their own as soon as possible, in just three months, this donation has raised more than 800,000 yuan.
However, to everyone's surprise, Du Haishan donated this donation to the Hope Project in the name of everyone, and his answer was even more simple, and he felt that keeping his promise was not a reason for him to seek benefits for himself!
The next generation of the motherland needs this donation far more than he does, and he can also be regarded as borrowing flowers to offer Buddha.
More importantly, in Du Haishan's view, those comrades who sacrificed their comrades are more worthy of the title of heroes than he is, and he is just an ordinary person who continues to live with the will of the heroes, and it is his responsibility to help his comrades-in-arms support their families, and he should not trouble others.
For us, whether it is a warrior who sacrificed heroically or returned triumphantly, he is the most admirable person and a well-deserved hero, and it is precisely because of the existence of these heroes that China can be as prosperous and strong as it is today.
China has never lacked such heroes, and there are many more that we must learn and remember.
"First Class Hero Divorce Storm, Accidentally Involving 12 Families, The Wife at the Court Scene Tears Like Rain!" 》