In the winter of 1965, a man wandered alone in a park late at night, and after a moment of silence, he made the craziest decision of his life. He got up and jumped into the lake to end his life. The man's name is Li Hao, which may be unfamiliar to us, but in the past, he was a household movie star.
Li Hao's father is China's "father of documentaries" Li Minwei, perhaps you are still strangers, but if Li Minwei is Li Zi's grandfather, Li Hao is Li Zi's uncle, then you should understand.
The year Li Hao committed suicide, he was only 37 years old, this age was a great time in his life, but at such an age, he hurriedly ended his precious life in this way, so what did he experience in his life?
A bumpy life
Li Hao was born in a large family with strong economic strength, his grandfather was a wealthy businessman in Zhanjiang, and his father was a famous screenwriter and director, so it can be said that from birth, he was destined to be different from others. During the Republic of China, when the gap between rich and poor was extremely large, many people were displaced, but Li Hao did not suffer any hardships.
When he was a child, Li Hao, combining the advantages of his father and mother, looked extremely handsome and cute, coupled with a very lively personality, more likable. When he was three years old, his father, Lai Min-wai, began to carefully cultivate him, and when he found that the young Lai Hao had a high talent in acting, he focused on guiding and educating him in his acting skills.
When Li Hao was four years old, under the arrangement of his father, he participated in the first movie in his life, which was "Goddess", which caused a sensation in society after it was broadcast. Among them, mainly because the heroine is the famous movie actress Ruan Lingyu, Li Hao plays her son, under the blessing of Ruan Lingyu, the cute Li Hao in the lens also once became a popular child star at that time.
In this movie, Ruan Lingyu likes this "son" Li Hao very much, and outside of the movie, she also likes this cute little guy full of spirit. Soon after, the two of them also participated in another "City Night" together, with the recognition of the goddess Ruan Lingyu, coupled with his origin and talent, the future is unlimited.
However, just when they all thought that the future could shine brightly, the War of Resistance Against Japan broke out and the fate of all people changed. In 1937, with the defeat of the Battle of Songhu and the fall of Shanghai, Lai Minwei took his family to Hong Kong for refuge. In that era, wars were raging and everyone was worried about their fate.
At that time, 9-year-old Li Hao saw such a scene for the first time, the war was constant, the people who fled everywhere, the buildings and streets that were bombarded by artillery fire, and he was accustomed to a peaceful and stable life, and an indescribable strange emotion arose in his heart.
The family fled all the way to Hong Kong, in Hong Kong, because of the family's solid income, Li Hao's life is still much more stable than ordinary people. With the passage of time, Li Hao also grew up slowly.
Looking at the turbulent country, Li Hao's heart surged with blood, and he began to actively participate in the patriotic movement, calling on people to collect donations for the soldiers on the front line of the War of Resistance Against Japan, in addition to this, he also created a lot of patriotic poems to encourage people.
Later, with the victory of the War of Resistance Against Japan, the whole of China cheered, Li Hao also smoothly went to high school, and was also admitted to Lingnan University, and a few years after graduation, he returned to the mainland and successfully entered the Beijing Film Studio.
He had thought he could finally realize his previous dream, but the reality was cruel, and in the years on the mainland, he did not have many opportunities to participate in acting activities.
The reason for this has a great relationship with Li Hao's identity, because some people in his family live in the United States or Taiwan, so it is difficult for Li Hao to get the opportunity to develop. However, this road does not work, so take other roads, Li Hao after some thinking, began to transform into a drama actor.
Tragic marriage
Because of his handsome appearance and superb acting skills, he soon became a well-known actor in the drama industry. His life is back on track. Later, at the age of 25, he entered into marriage. At that time, in the eyes of his family, the two of them were simply a model couple, but in Li Hao's view, this was not the case.
Because Li Hao often comes into contact with other young and beautiful actresses in the process of acting, his wife is suspicious of him and is always worried that he will cheat, which makes Li Hao feel very distressed, he loves and cherishes his acting career very much, he once thought that he could concentrate on his career after marriage, but he did not think of his wife and did not support his dream at all.
Li Hao did not understand why his once gentle wife had now become like this, why she could not understand him and could not live well with him, and his wife did not understand why Li Hao could not find a normal job, why she had to act, and the contradictions between them could not be reconciled.
As Li Hao's popularity rises, his fans are more and more, and his wife's behavior is becoming more and more unreasonable, she is always worried that she will lose him, in order to control him, she forbid Li Hao to talk to any woman, even if Li Hao reassures her again and again, she still does not believe it.
In such a marriage, Li Hao has been suffering from great torture, this kind of torture, not only mentally, Li Hao's life, but also by his wife's control, his money has been managed by his wife, and the money he usually goes out to buy is not enough to buy a bottle of water. The sweet and beautiful love affair that was once their youth gradually disappeared under such torture.
In the end, Li Hao, who could not bear it, proposed a divorce to his wife, but his wife did not agree, and she told Li Hao that if he divorced, he would be ruined. Li Hao was completely desperate about this, and he wrote to tell his mother that he was extremely miserable in this relationship, and he had no courage to bear this pain for a long time.
In 1965, Li Hao, who was already deeply aware of the darkness of life, met his wife because of the letter from fans, and went to the leader, facing the suspicious eyes of everyone, Li Hao was disheartened. One night, there was a slight rain in the sky, and Li Hao stayed outside for a long time, until it was very late, and he returned home.
However, because of the late return, his wife was very angry, she shut Li Hao out of the door, did not allow him to enter the house, Li Hao did not have any emotion, and then he went to the park, on the park bench, he thought about a lot of things, and finally, he got up, jumped into the lake, and ended his life.
epilogue
His life, which should have had unlimited possibilities, eventually, because of this marriage, went into darkness. A good relationship can make people warm and happy, but a bad relationship is the beginning of pain and misfortune, for Li Hao, that era, there is no choice, but for us today, we must have the courage and determination to make a decision.
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