Don't wait until the end of your life to understand what is most important in a person's life

Eating a trench does not necessarily lead to a wisdom, only after eating a certain number of grabs, people will pay attention to some details, slight attention, because the fall is painful enough, maybe this is the price of growth.

It's just that some truths, in daily life, are difficult to see and understand, and may need to be known when they reach the end of life.

1. Leave home with your parents

Zhang Jue is the only child in the family, and his parents have been strict with him since he was a child, basically everything needs him to obey, which makes Zhang Jue very disgusted.

It was just that at that time, he still needed to rely on his parents to live, so he did not dare to express his thoughts, and after being refuted again and again, he simply hid all his thoughts in his heart.

Until graduating from college, Zhang Jue wanted to go to a second-tier city to develop, but his parents wanted him to return to his hometown, this time Zhang Jue no longer tolerated, and then several quarrels broke out between them.

Later, his parents told Zhang Jue in a huff that if he insisted on doing so, then he would not come back in the future, and Zhang Jue also held his breath in his heart, and if he did not come back, he would not come back, and now that he had grown up, he could support himself.

With the ten thousand yuan earned from part-time work in college, Zhang Jue embarked on an unknown journey, and since this time, his parents have never contacted him, and Zhang Jue has not called home.

In less than a month, Zhang Jue rented a house and found a job, although the salary was not much, but she could barely survive.

Relying on the experience saved in the previous part-time job, and his willingness to endure hardships and hard work, in less than half a year, Zhang Jue has attracted the attention of the boss in the company.

But this is not what Zhang Jue wants, his goal is to start his own business, so after three years in the company, he came out to start a business with friends.

By this time, he hadn't been home for three years, but he would occasionally make a phone call or two with home, but mostly to his mother.

2. The father was suddenly involved in a car accident

In the fifth year of Zhang Jue's business, the business finally improved, everything looked better and better, and he also had a beloved person at that time.

In the past few years, although Zhang Jue's contact with his family is still not much, but the relationship has eased a lot, every New Year's Festival will also go back to see, but his father still does not have a good face, Zhang Jue does not care, think he just wants face, anyway, from childhood to adulthood.

But just some time ago on the Qingming Festival, at the end of the holiday, Zhang Jue was ready to leave for the company, to the high-speed rail station but found that the ID card forgot to take, after receiving the phone, his mother asked him not to worry, said to send him over immediately.

But seeing that it was about to leave, or did not see her figure, just when Zhang Jue was angry and frustrated to call her mother, but found that her mobile phone could not be called, then the police called, Zhang Jue knew that the original parents had encountered a car accident on the way to come.

Zhang Jue immediately rushed to the hospital, the car accident was more serious, the mother in addition to some skin trauma, the leg crushing fracture, while the father injured the head, need to do surgery immediately.

After a while, the doctor gave Zhang Jue a critical illness notice, and in an instant, Zhang Jue's head became empty, and his eyes could not see clearly, but according to the doctor's prompts, like a robot, he signed the corresponding place.

This day was extremely long for Zhang Jue, even longer than his entire life in the past, and when he heard the doctor come out of the operating room and say sorry, Zhang Jue almost did not stand.

3) Nothing is more important than parents

What it is like to have a son who wants to raise and not to be close, Zhang Jue has deeply realized, thinking of the past few years, he and his father have been competing, Zhang Jue has slapped himself several times.

He always thought that the time after that was still very long, his parents had time to accompany him, but he did not think about it, but the accident was so sudden, he said that he would come, and without saying hello, he would take the closest person away from him.

His father may be strong, barbaric, and unreasonable, but he also loves himself and has been silently guarding his side, thinking of this, Zhang Jue's tears fell like rain.

But Zhang Jue can not fall, because there is still a mother to take care of, in the future she can rely on the only person, only herself, looking at the mother still lying on the hospital bed, Zhang Jue finally understood that the most important thing in this life is her parents.

We can have a rich and colorful life, and there is a vast world waiting for us to explore, but for parents, they are only us, and their world is only us.

Perhaps the most important people or things for each person will be different, but parents must be among them, they are the people who give birth to us, the people who give us life, they do their best to give us everything, and what can we give back?

Family affection can illuminate people's lives, so that the way forward is paved with flowers, it is a firm belief, a persistent instinct, even if penniless, family affection still exists.

If there is anyone in this world who can love us unconditionally, it must be the parents, so no matter how busy, please don't ignore them, and don't let the grief of the child who wants to be raised and can't wait to happen again.