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In the Augmentation of the Sages, it is said, "The grace of dripping water should be repaid by the spring." ”
In this life, everyone has encountered difficulties, and it is inevitable that they will seek help from others.
When someone is kind to you, in fact, we often say "Well, I'll invite you to dinner another day" as a reward.
But often many people just talk, but selectively regret, although others will not mention to you to eat, but do not take the initiative to invite people to eat, human feelings will be owed.
Sometimes, even if you have finished eating, you feel that you don't owe anything, so there is no interaction, and your feelings become cold.
Therefore, people who are kind to you, in fact, please eat is not the best way to repay, a person to help you, not because of obligations, but because of human feelings, repay human feelings, do not blindly invite each other to eat, remember these three ways of repaying kindness, in order to make the relationship better and better, so that love continues to flow, continuous circulation.
1, when the other party encounters the need for help, we must try our best to help, which is a very good way to repay the favor.
Life often says that when you are helped by others, you must also try your best to help others, which is the exchange of etiquette.
People are mutual, and only by helping each other can we build better relationships.
Gratitude is a virtue, but also two-way, give people roses, hand left incense, can help each other at the same time, can also feel the other party's acceptance, gratitude is not blindly invite people to eat on the line, but to send charcoal to people in the snow.
When you encounter difficult and tricky things in your life, others actively help you, and even willing to use your small savings to save you, you must know how to be grateful, not everyone can help you in this way, everyone has difficulties, but the people who can help you are your benefactors and your nobles.
Sanmao said, "Sending charcoal in the snow is expensive in really sending charcoal, not verbal consolation, charcoal is not expensive, and there are really not many people who give it." ”
When people are in the most difficult time, it is actually the easiest to see the world is cold, but someone can be willing to help you, pull you a hand, we must always remember this kindness.
Suffering sees the truth, human feelings are mutual, and crossing people is crossing oneself.
When you survive and survive the difficulties, life is slowly getting better, and others have encountered difficulties and found you, we can not ignore, let alone perfunctory, but also actively help, this is the best way to repay the favor.
2, to know how to pass on kindness and grace, build a bridge of gratitude transmission, so that more people get grace.
When you feel helped by others, you are nourished by this warmth, and it is because the kindness of others illuminates us.
In fact, people who give kindness and help others are not trying to ask for returns, but hope that everyone can pass on kindness and make the world warmer.
Often we walk on the road and encounter difficulties, but well-meaning people are not willing to leave a name to help us, in fact, it is a small act of kindness for them, and it does not need anything in return.
However, we still have to learn to be grateful, and the best way to repay gratitude is to keep ourselves kind, but also to pass on kindness, but also to let your kindness illuminate others and give back to society.
Only when you know how to give some light to others, the road of life can be wider and wider.
Kindness is a kind of reincarnation, and when you receive kindness from others, we must also pass on this kindness so that we can cross the river of others.
Only when we light the lights of each other's way forward can we make the night no longer lonely.
3, the best way to repay others is to make yourself more excellent and worthy of others' efforts to yourself.
Ancients: It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish.
In fact, when you are confused, some people point out some bright paths for you, which is also a favor to you, and even some people have become mentors on your life path and changed the trajectory of your life.
The reason why we can achieve our current selves, many times, is often because we have met some noble people, at some turning points in life, they have helped themselves, so our best way to repay the favor is to become a better person, to be worthy of their high hopes.
There used to be a person in the village who always loved to make trouble, mixed with some rotten people, and then before his parents left, they told him not to be so mixed up anymore, and no one took care of you like this anymore, and his parents told him to go to their friend, Uncle Liang, when he encountered something before leaving.
Later, he was really desperate, and went to find Uncle Liang, because he was only a teenager, had no education, no culture, but had a good physique, Uncle Liang found a relationship and let him go in as a soldier, this step was also an important turning point that changed the trajectory of his life.
Later, with his own talent and hard work, he became a special soldier, and he also understood a lot, looking back, thanks to finding Uncle Liang, he had his current self.
In fact, when you have a grateful heart, the good fortune in fate will take care of you.
Gratitude is a lifelong thing, but also the most important practice in life, know how to remember the kindness of others, crossing people is crossing oneself, crossing oneself is also crossing oneself.
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