Chief Writer: Old Demon
In a relationship, many times the feeling of hot and cold will always make people feel uneasy. Some people's hot and cold may mean that they don't love you so much, and you are not the most important existence for them, so they will not consider your feelings.
There are also some people who are hot and cold, but it is not as simple as you think, and sometimes the reason why they keep you away is because they are the insecure people in their hearts, so they want to attract your attention, or they want to make you pay more attention to them and love them a little.
And Taurus may be such a type of person, their personality itself is more silent, more introverted, when getting along with people, does not belong to the active type of people, but will try to reduce their sense of existence, try to marginalize themselves, stay in their own world do not want to be disturbed, do not want to step into the world of others.
In the face of feelings, Taurus has always been a relatively silent person, even if he is aware of his heart, even if he meets someone he likes. They will also choose to hide this heartbeat in their hearts instead of showing it.
Because at this time, Taurus is not sure enough about such a feeling, so they are afraid of being rejected after saying it, afraid that you will cut off all possibilities between two people, rather than take the initiative, they are more willing to choose silence. At the very least, it leaves a little leeway for the relationship between two people.
So in the relationship, what is the reason why Taurus is hot and cold?
1, I have no sense of security
Taurus is hot and cold not because they don't love you enough. But at this time, they are not sure whether they are the person you love the most in your heart, and they are not sure whether they are the only ones of you.
So such an uncertainty will bring them a feeling of insecurity, and will make them feel that they are worried in this relationship. So at this time, they will keep a certain distance from you so that you can notice your presence.
2, may feel that you need personal space
At the beginning of the relationship, Taurus actually did not know how to get along with their lovers, so in such a process, they have actually been groping and learning.
And if they have a hot and cold attitude towards you, at this time, it is probably that they feel that you are a person who needs personal space and personal time, and they are not very good at disturbing you excessively, and maintaining a certain distance should be what you need. In fact, from this point of view, they are also considering the problem from the perspective.
3, did not see the future in this relationship.
Taurus treats the matter of feelings, in fact, there are some more traditional ideas in their bones. Such an attitude of playing and playing has never been something they will have in the face of feelings.
Because when these two people start a relationship, they will start planning for the future. But if they are hot and cold when they face you. That time may indicate that in such a relationship, in you, they do not see the future of two people.
Therefore, I did not dare to stride forward, afraid that I would end up being the one who was hurt. People of this zodiac sign still have a strong sense of self-protection.
So when you fall in love with this zodiac sign, you must also know how to consider their feelings. They don't care about giving, they don't care about gain or loss. But you also have to make them feel their true heart, give them enough security, and the relationship can last longer.