Have you ever found:
We talk about stories from old memories,
Even if it hurts,
Now when I bring it up again, I am full of gratitude,
So many old things,
When you can laugh and say it,
It's not really about contributing to others.
It's more about healing yourself.
Our book
Anfen's May Day holiday is actually so long,
can't travel,
Book club friends have become the most anticipated thing.
Miao girl has long been enthusiastic to help me think of a theme
Mainly she had always wanted to come.
This time it finally got its wish,
In fact, I also want to know why she wants to talk to so many people about "companionship".
Do you want to complain about how low the quality of my companionship with her is?
alas! My heart is weak!
……
Of course
There is no upper limit to our "companionship",
There will always be unconfidence in such "paying",
Are we not doing enough?
The flowers of "Hour of Light" make me feel gentle!
For parents, brothers, children, friends, themselves, pets...
All kinds of companion stories are told,
Before us,
One by one, the great drama of life is staged.
I am very happy
Those hurts, regrets, and of course there is beauty,
At this point,
It has become the time we miss the most,
Nourishing everyone's heart,
Let's move on,
Be brave and move forward.
This is the most "hour light" for children, and I have once again become the "child king"
Miao has recommended Buckman's books to me countless times,
It is said that there are too many sufferings in the world and people who are still optimistic and kind.
From "Grandma's Apology Letter"
To "A Man Named Ovie Decides to Die"
To "The First Time in My Life"...
sometimes
I was also amazed at the sensitivity and delicacy of this child,
I was also surprised that she could write such a text,
Her inner world was far more vast than I had imagined.
She wrote this "Dear Sawyer",
In the tone of an Alzheimer's patient,
To the wife who is far away in heaven,
Those last few sentences brought me to tears:
I forget every day,
I say goodbye to a deceased person every day.
My square is shrinking every day,
I only remember love,
But I forgot who to love...
Sorry, my Sawyer!
If you see a stupid old man in heaven one day with a balloon in his hand,
I'm sorry!
That's most likely your husband who has forgotten all of it,
You must come to me,
Because I came with the balloon in my hand,
Must be looking for you...
[Tears] [Tears] [Tears]
In tears in his eyes,
I saw my little seedlings,
She was glowing. [Hug]
Hemiao is sharing her own "Dear Soya"
May you be Sawyer.
A few key points to share with you:
One is
Your companionship must be based on the needs of the other party,
Otherwise, you are unwelcome.
The second is
The way we spend time is not necessarily the way the other person likes.
The third is
Don't touch yourself in a relationship.
In this way, your efforts will become a burden on others.
Fourth, yes
Giving and giving must be in the present moment,
Don't wait until you lose it.
Five is
Life is limited,
We're going to do a meter wide,
Ten thousand meters deep thing.
Live out the breadth and thickness of life with a limited amount of time.
Six is
Be with all your heart, don't worry about gains and losses.
The wonderful moments of "Hour of Light", they are all so awesome!
Editing is a painful and happy process.
Pain is because of trade-offs,
Happiness is because it is possible to review all the good that they bring.
Companionship is not easy,
Cherish everyone who tirelessly appears around you,
Because they're just willing to walk with you as much as possible,
Walk a little longer.