Two days ago, I saw such a small video, the child's grades dropped, from the top five to the bottom three. Her parents kept scolding her and enrolling her in many cram schools, but to no avail. Parents are very puzzled as to why their children have become like this. When I went to the hospital to check the cause, the doctor actually said that it was caused by learning difficulties. Today we will talk about this situation.
First, the reasons for the decline in academic performance
1. The method is not right
Usually still only care about doing problems or playing, do not think about the authenticity and root of the problem, I hope that students should try their best to think, solve more than one problem, pay attention to variant training, strengthen computing ability, analysis ability.
2 Interest is not high
Children only care about the Internet during the holidays, rarely read and study, have no interest in learning, and only have a playful mentality. Cultivating an interest in learning is more important.
3. Don't listen to class
The class time is very short, only 45 minutes, and the teachers are still busy with discipline, delaying part of the time and sacrificing some of the valuable time of the students. Improving classroom efficiency is key to improving academic performance.
4. Copying other people's homework is serious
Usually the homework is reserved for the knowledge points of the day, students should complete it independently, but some students do not use their own brains, copy other people's ready-made answers, save time and effort, time is long, and the grades are accurately reduced.
5. The psychological pressure is too great
This source and parents, many parents put their own strong desires to their children, their own unfulfilled ideals, causing strong psychological pressure on children, although harder than before, but the results have not been breakthrough, learning more and more inadequate.
6. The teacher's sarcasm
The teacher's critical education is the lubricant for the child's growth. However, if the teacher criticizes the lawlessness, it will cause the children to lose interest and motivation to learn. Teachers need to treat students with kindness, find their shining points, and encouragement and praise are inexhaustible motivation for students to move forward.
7. Do not focus on discussion after class
I don't want to talk about learning at all in my spare time. In fact, in the time after class, students should gather together, discuss and exchange learning experiences, learn from each other's strengths, learn from each other, and their grades will definitely improve.
Second, measures to help children's grades rise
To help my child improve their academic performance, I thought of a few measures. Parents can take a look at it first, and if they think I'm right, they can try these methods I said.
1. Communicate with your child
The score is not the most important, what is important is the timely communication with the child.
2. Improve your child's learning methods
Learning pays attention to the learning method, if the child will only blindly rote memorization, it will certainly not learn the real knowledge.
3. Improve your child's learning habits
Children do not take the initiative to learn at home, have been playing mobile phones and computers, are susceptible to external interference, and need to be reminded by their parents to start learning. Such a lack of self-discipline is also a reason that affects children's grades.
4. Don't be too demanding of your child
Hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is the wish of every parent, but there are imperfections in everyone. Many parents pay too much attention to their children, and their expectations and requirements for their children are irrational love for their children.
5. Help children form the right learning mentality
Parents' reactions to their children's grades determine their children's learning attitudes. Many parents are easily entangled in the points that their children have lost, and it is not necessary to torture why their children lose points. Scores are only a side reflection of ability.
6. Let your child be with classmates with good grades
It's not that you can't play with "bad kids", but it's appropriate to stay away from kids who have some bad habits, because after being with kids who have this bad habit for a long time, those bad habits are easy to learn by yourself. So let's try to keep your children with children with good study habits as much as possible.
7. Give your child tuition appropriately
Personally, I am not particularly in favor of giving children all kinds of revision classes, especially the so-called cram classes of various holidays. You can see for yourself how many of the grades of the children who go to the cram school are improving their grades because of the cram schools.
8. Arrange your own time reasonably
It is said that it is necessary to combine work and leisure, so parents must give their children a certain amount of independent time. Let him do something himself. You can also let him arrange his own time first, and the parents will look back and then optimize the child's time.
Let's stop here today and continue tomorrow! If there is any question, welcome to leave a message, I will reply one by one.