Want to deal with relationships and feelings, there are two very important to pay attention to, one is the heart, the other is distance, but how to grasp the heart and the sense of distance, this is not an easy task, after all, feelings and relationships are not something we can unilaterally decide, especially when you meet some people who can not be understood with common sense, feelings and relationship things will only make you more helpless, but as long as you are willing to think, there will always be ways.
Be Yourself The Most Practical (Gemini-Shooter)
Gemini, Sagittarius, these two zodiac signs are always criticized, especially in the matter of flowers is a mess, there is a very interesting phenomenon about this matter, regardless of whether the people around you know about the signs, or how much do you know, but as long as you ask them "What sign is the most expensive?" The Twins and shooters immediately appeared...
Or that the constellation you hear the most about the flower heart around you is basically Gemini and Sagittarius, and this answer is simply too unified, which is the same as the bun is white and the hair is black.
At this point, you basically think of the question "Is what people say true, and is there really a relationship between the heart and the horoscope?" ”
From an objective point of view, the flower heart has nothing to do with the true heart of the constellation, or more bluntly:"
Desires "are all the same to man
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The difference is that some people can control and constrain it, some people can't do it, or some people simply don't do it, don't constrain.
In terms of conventional principles, the traditional education, moral guidance, and so on that we receive are many of these cognitions about restraining and controlling "desires", such as the moral consciousness, conscience consciousness, goodness consciousness, and so on.
So if this is the case, why are the Twins and shooters being labeled with a flower heart?
There is a reason for this, not so much that the Gemini and the shooter spend their hearts, but rather:
They don't know how to be better in love, in relationships, or don't know how to deal with "the feelings and relationships that the other person needs."
Their spending in love is restlessness or evasion, and it is irresponsible to stand in the perspective of others, but from their own point of view, they do not know how to deal with this kind of thing.
Gemini and Sagittarius excel at superficial relationships, or ordinary, superficial, not so close relationships, in which they are popular and comfortable themselves.
As for why they are good at this, it is because their personality causes them to "not drill" into deep, close enough relationships and relationships.
For example, Gemini, in the vast majority of Gemini thinking and life, what they think the most and have the greatest impact on them is the current things, and they will not think so far, because the current kinds of things limit this thing.
If you say to Gemini at this time, "You think about it from afar," then Gemini will tell you, "Why do you think so much?" None of them are comfortable at the moment. ”
To put it simpler, the things Gemini think are often very simple, either to follow the interest, or to follow the relaxed and happy, or to follow what they want and do.
Then in addition to these, the rest of the things in Gemini are called trouble, they are called uncomfortable, so they have to skip these things, or just run away.
For example, when you are not very close to each other, your state is "upward" or natural, and at this time, you are not called trouble in the eyes of Gemini, so they are happy to talk to you about something and play something.
But if because of that you feel that your relationship can go deeper, you're sorely mistaken.
In fact, as long as Gemini does not take the initiative to establish any relationship with you, then your initiative does not need to be a few times to make Gemini feel uncomfortable, especially when you tell Gemini what boyfriend and girlfriend should do about this kind of thing.
In Gemini's view, you haven't reached that point yet, because they don't think as much as you do.
Of course, it is not excluded here that Gemini confirms the relationship with you, but even so."
The most important thing in Gemini's heart is still their own feelings, and they will only be affected by this.
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So you talk about it, gemini is uncomfortable, then escape, gemini feel bound, then escape, then, in this case, how deep is your love?
In your opinion, Gemini is very difficult for you to accept and understand, while in Gemini's view, they only feel uncomfortable, so they don't want to talk about anything.
Something interesting happened."
Does Gemini have an emotional component in your relationship?
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Sagittarius is slightly different from Gemini in that it is a fire sign, so:
In terms of the expression of "desire" and the behavior that is influenced by "desire", the shooter is hotter or more difficult to control.
For example, some sagittarius are influenced by "desire" and deliberately contact a certain person, and the difference between sagittarius men and women is more balanced in this regard than the male and female differences in other zodiac signs.
Sagittarius' requirements for love are actually not as "tall" or unattainable as many people think.
In fact, the shooter needs a person who "looks good for himself".
This standard is not harsh no matter how you look at it, but it is harsh here in the shooter, because the shooter who can look good is generally outside the "safe distance", and the second is the person who "does not take him as a person".
Their requirements are actually idealized, after all, no one is perfect, even handsome boys have bad looks, and even beautiful girls have not been beautiful.
Sagittarius love problems often occur in the middle of getting along, and this stage is the stage that is most likely to make Sagittarius "tired".
This stage is also the time when they are most likely to find that "the other party is not pleasing to the eye", so at this time, the shooter has no motivation.
Break up with people, this is not what people do, don't break up with people, you don't want to talk about it, you don't have any ideas and motivation.
So what to do? It is precisely at this time that they are evaded or dragged and criticized.
At the end of the day, shooters and Gemini are "unable to get in" in their closer relationships and relationships, and they can't convince themselves or control themselves to do something they resist.
But for feelings, the depth and profundity of the relationship need to be established in the run-in period after this enthusiasm subsides.
Therefore, although their personalities are extremely popular, they are also quite easy to hurt, as for how to get along with them, you don't have to worry, it is enough to be yourself.
Don't be "biased" by their state and words and deeds, otherwise the person who is uncomfortable, unrequited, and bitter can only be yourself.