In 2008, Pan Yueming and Dong Jie received a marriage license.
Ended a 3-year long-distance love run.
After marriage, the crystallization of their love, the son came to this world.
But no one expected that after having children, their husband and wife's feelings did not increase but decreased.
The relationship even got into a stalemate and eventually divorced in 2012.
At that time, this divorce was well known, but what everyone did not expect was.
Shortly after the divorce, Dong Jie found the media and exposed Pan Yueming's various crimes in marriage, pushing him to the cusp of the storm.
Pan Yueming was thus exposed by various networks, and various insults almost buried his career as an actor.
Despite the fierce public opinion, Pan Yueming still did not come forward to explain.
At that time, he had not yet come out of the shadow of divorce, and he could not understand why his wife was doing this.
Until the appearance of a person, the bottom changed the trend of public opinion, and also made Pan Yueming completely hate Dong Jie.
01
Pan Yueming was born in 1974 in Xicheng District, Beijing.
Like most people, the family was very privileged, the father was a civil servant and the mother was an intellectual.
Influenced by his mother, Pan Yueming showed an amazing interest in art from an early age.
In middle school, he was favored by Beijing Television and served as the host of "Colorful Light".
He became a prominent figure in the school, and he was also a reporter for the school's reporter station, writing many scripts.
It can be said that many people have watched him grow up step by step.
It was also that year that the crew of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" came to the school to cast.
Upon learning of this news, Pan Yueming successfully won the role of "Wu Jing Emperor Sun Xiu".
With this drama, Pan Yueming made a name for himself.
After the fire, he made a cameo appearance in "Thirteen Days of Holiday".
Since then, he has embarked on the road of an actor and was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
If he hadn't met Dong Jie, presumably he wouldn't have had so many waves in the second half of his life.
02
Dong Jie is six years younger than Pan Yueming and was born in 1980 in Dalian, Liaoning Province.
When Dong Jie first embarked on the road of acting, Pan Yueming was already a new star in the circle.
The first time the two worked together was in "The Red Dress", and when they first met, Pan Yueming was still a little disappointed, because Dong Jie was not as good-looking as rumored.
In the play, they play a couple.
In reality, as the days of getting along longer and longer, Pan Yueming became more and more addicted to Dong Jie.
Unable to bear this kind of suffering, after the filming of this drama, Pan Yueming showed love to Dong Jie.
In everyone's eyes, they are a pair of golden children, if they miss each other, it is a pity.
At that time, Pan Yueming only had her in his eyes, which showed how deep his love for Dong Jie was
It is no exaggeration to say, "Except Dong Jie, he does not marry anyone", pan Yueming did indeed do it.
After 3 years of falling in love, both parties have the idea of starting a family.
With the consent of the parents of both sides, the wedding was held in a low-key manner, and no insiders were invited, only relatives and friends were invited.
In the second year after marriage, the son Dingding was born, and the family of three lived happily.
In order to take care of her son, Dong Jie chose to retire and no longer act.
However, fate loves to tease those who love each other.
In the same year that his son was born, Pan Yueming was in a car accident and suffered major trauma to his lungs.
When I got the notice, my first instinct was to ask them to bring me pictures of my wife and children, and I wanted to remember what they looked like.
This is what Pan Yueming said personally, and he was still thinking about his wife for the first time after the car accident.
03
After Pan Yueming was injured, he had no income because he could not act.
The heavy responsibility of raising a family was entrusted to his wife, and Dong Jie stood up and chose to come back to raise the family.
But no one expected that it was because of the comeback that she and Pan Yueming's marriage was completely changed and their feelings broke down.
After choosing a comeback, Dong Jie received an invitation from the production team of "Please Forgive Me".
It was also in this drama that she met Wang Dazhi.
Subsequently, in "Ten Years of Love", the two even rubbed out the spark of love.
At first, Pan Yueming did not realize that when Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi Qingqing and I were qingqing, he was still recuperating.
Despite the scandal they had later, Pan Yueming still believed his wife.
At that time, he had absolute trust in Dong Jie.
04
But the reality is that Dong Jie has failed him.
In 2012, Dong Jie filed for divorce, and after the divorce, She announced Pan Yueming's various crimes.
For a time, Pan Yueming was pushed to the cusp of the storm, the filmed movies were withdrawn, the recorded TV series, and the deleted scenes.
These charges almost cut off his path as an actor.
Then Wang Dazhi posted on social platforms, almost portraying Dong Jie as the victim.
But although public opinion is fierce, Pan Yueming has never come out to explain the specific reasons for the divorce.
After a simple statement, there was no more news.
I thought things would settle down.
Unexpectedly, Zhuo Wei, the first paparazzi in the entertainment industry, appeared.
Maybe I can't watch Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi's singing and harmony.
He released a video of Dong Jie cheating on Wang Dazhi, completely changing the direction of public opinion.
In the video, Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi seem to be happy about the divorce and kiss each other.
05
Seeing the video, everything came out and people finally understood.
All this is Dong Jie's conspiracy, she has long been derailed.
In order to make himself a victim of marriage, he poured dirty water on Pan Yueming.
It was not until Zhuo Wei's appearance that Pan Yueming was returned to his innocence.
And Pan Yueming did not choose to remarry, nor did he spread any gossip, perhaps he had not yet come out of the events of that year.
It is worth mentioning.
Since the divorce, Dong Jie has resolutely prevented Pan Yueming from seeing her son.
When Pan Yueming thinks of his child, he can only look at his son's photo, but despite this, every year on his son's birthday, Pan Yueming will send a message of blessing on time.
For Pan Yueming, this is his only spiritual sustenance, although they rarely meet, but the relationship between their father and son is quite good.
In Pan Yueming's heart, the top of his son is also the pride of his life.
Throughout the first half of Pan Yueming's life, he really loved Dong Jie, but what he hated most was Dong Jie.
Interestingly, having been divorced for ten years, Pan Yueming seems to have fulfilled his promise, "No one but Dong Jie will marry."
In recent years, his career has also gotten better and better. On the other hand, Dong Jie is now less famous than a third-line actor.
For Dong Jie's derailment, I can't understand one thing, Pan Yueming's appearance or other aspects, far beyond Wang Dazhi. Why did Dong Jie make that choice?