Gong Li, who debuted as a "girl", is a well-known strong woman and an "immortal goddess" on the big screen.
In the face of love, Gong Li has her own different understanding at different ages in life: "From desperately pursuing love, not related to the shackles of marriage, to satisfying each other's preferences, to spending the rest of their lives hand in hand." ”
Gong Li, who has been in the entertainment industry for half a lifetime, went around and turned around when she was 53 years old, and once again met her lover Michelle, who made her heartwarming.
Michelle and Gong Li belong to a half-way couple, they are 17 years apart in age, so Gong Li once chose to escape, hoping that the two will continue to enjoy the life of "only love, not marriage".
In order to dispel Gong Li's concerns, Michelle did one thing and successfully hugged the beauty.
"Although I am 70 years old, I am a 50-year-old body, a 40-year-old mentality, and I am fully capable of giving you happiness." 」
Michelle took her own physical examination report and told Gong Li that she longed to have a result with her, according to the doctor, usually pay attention to diet health, strengthen exercise, at least live to 90 years old is not a problem.
In 2019, the 54-year-old Gong Li agreed to michelle's marriage proposal at the age of 71, and the two registered their marriage abroad, and Gong Li became his fourth wife.
While the outside world wishes Gong Li to find happiness, it also makes her and Zhang Yimou's former relationship become difficult in the hearts of many netizens.
Looking back at Gong Li's past emotional experience, you may find out why she chose Michelle, who is "infinitely red at sunset".
Now gong Li, who is gradually fading out of the screen, how is her life after marriage?
01 lived together with Zhang Yimou for eight years without marriage
Gong Li has been an extroverted girl since she was a child, she can sing and dance, and hopes to become a singer one day.
Gong Li's parents can see the talent of their daughter, in order to give her more opportunities to perform, Gong Li participated in many art team activities under the arrangement of her parents.
Until the age of 14, Gong Li accidentally became a group actor in the crew, which completely changed the trajectory of her life.
Gong Li, who appeared on camera for the first time, received unanimous praise from the staff present, and praised her for having a sense of lens.
It is this experience that makes Gong Li want to become a real actor.
In order to be admitted to the school of his choice, Gong Li, who originally had no advantage in cultural achievements, studied every day with "head hanging beam cone thorn stock".
The two failed college entrance examinations made Gong Li's heart fall to the bottom, and what is more unfortunate is that she is only 11 points away from the admission score line.
After the exam, Gong Li's reluctance allowed her to contact the teacher of the Chinese opera many times to describe her pursuit of art and her yearning for university.
Gong Li, who had originally been rejected, received a special admission from the hospital under the struggle of the teacher.
The moment Gong Li stepped into the door of Chinese opera, her legendary life began.
Gong Li, who is known as one of the "Five Golden Flowers of Chinese Opera", after completing her studies in school, she put more energy into the road of running the crew to accumulate experience in filming.
At the same time, Zhang Yimou also successfully crossed over from a domestic front-line photographer to become an actor.
Zhang Yimou, who debuted as a male protagonist, has his own unique understanding of acting, and at the age of 35, he directly won the title of film emperor.
The casting of the work "Red Sorghum" allowed the fledgling Gong Li to successfully win the heroine, and also began to achieve mutual achievements with Zhang Yimou.
As a director, Zhang Yimou must control the progress of the whole scene, and in order to present the most perfect shot, he often brings the leading actors together in private for meetings.
Everyone enthusiastically discussed the plot and analyzed the real changes in the hearts of the characters, gong Li, as the soul of the whole play, she was not willing to admit defeat, and she was afraid of missing every communication.
At the end of each shooting, Gong Li will be the first time to communicate with the actors who play the opposite role.
Subsequently, Gong Li will find Zhang Yimou to express her ideas, and follow the advice of her predecessors in time to give the role to the soul.
Gong Li's grasp of the role and her seriousness about the actor, Zhang Yimou looked at it in his eyes.
The two gradually developed different feelings during the filming, "I adore you like a hero, and you spoil me like a child." ”
In Gong Li's eyes, Zhang Yimou's talent is like a steady stream of spring water, inexhaustible and inexhaustible.
In Zhang Yimou's view, Gong Li is a rare talent in this industry, she is agile and talented.
The two together is a match made in heaven, for Gong Li, Zhang Yimou abandoned his former wife at the peak of his career.
The young Gong Li, under the leadership of Zhang Yimou, became famous overnight, won numerous awards, and successfully stood on a bigger stage.
Not to be outdone, Zhang Yimou also successfully made his name in the directing industry, and Shunshi and Gong Li began a 15-year cooperation.
Gong Li, the "Girl of Mou", has since become the heroine of Zhang Yimou's royal use, and they often go out in public.
For love, Gong Li endured all the insults of the outside world, and she was willing to accompany Zhang Yimou and enjoy the hourly light that belonged to the two of them.
However, under the proof of time, Gong Li slowly discovered that all this was his wishful thinking, and Zhang Yimou never thought of marrying her.
Zhang Yimou is well aware of Gong Li's ambitions in her acting career, and she is only suitable to be her lover, not suitable for marriage.
Gong Li gave all her youth to Zhang Yimou, but did not wait for Zhang Yimou's marriage proposal.
Marriage is that people in the city want to go out, people outside the city want to go in, hovering at the age of three characters, Gong Li longs to have a stable dependence and security.
Gong Li couldn't help but ask Zhang Yimou: When do you plan to marry her?
However, what he got was the answer that Zhang Yimou had already thought about in his heart: "Marriage is a piece of paper, what use do you want it?" ”
It is this kind of answer that makes Gong Li completely dead-hearted, she loves unreservedly, and she also loses completely.
02 Turned around and married a wealthy businessman and began a 14-year married life
People always have to pay some price to understand some truths, Gong Li guards her wounded heart, and still does not regret the man she met when she was young.
The year after Gong Li broke up with Zhang Yimou, she married a wealthy businessman Huang Hexiang.
Huang Hexiang is a well-known "tobacco tycoon" outside the circle, and under the introduction of friends, he met Gong Li, whose feelings are in a low period.
Huang Hexiang and Zhang Yimou are also successful people, and in Huang Hexiang's body, Gong Li seems to see Zhang Yimou's shadow.
During that time, Huang Hexiang provided Gong Li with a lot of help in life and work, and also brought Gong Li a lot of spiritual support.
Huang Hexiang's care for Gong Li can be described as meticulous, and he understands that after gong Li was injured, what he needed most was the guarantee of a stable marriage.
Huang Hexiang, who responded to everything, helped Gong Li step by step out of the shadow of lost love, and he gave Gong Li the tenderness and romance of this life.
After marriage, Gong Li also gradually slowed down the pace of her career, and she began to enjoy such a luxurious life.
In the 3 years after marriage, Gong Li and Huang Hexiang were very affectionate, respected each other as guests, and were the appearance of love in the eyes of their friends.
But as they grow older, Huang Hexiang hopes that Hexiang and Gong Li can have a crystallization of love and have a care for each other in the future.
Gong Li refused this request, saying that she was still young and did not want to have children so early.
After Huang Hexiang learned of Gong Li's idea, he was no longer reluctant and never mentioned the request for children again.
Until Huang Hexiang's company, due to poor management, was once rumored by the media to go bankrupt.
Subsequently, Gong Li, who has been in the film for a long time, returned to the screen, hoping to help her husband tide over the difficulties through his own efforts.
Just as the so-called "husband and wife are originally the same forest bird, the great disaster is about to fly separately", Gong Li's help is precisely the foreshadowing for their divorce.
When Gong Li was filming a film with Sun Honglei, because of the drama, the two often had a scandal.
At that time, Sun Honglei had a girlfriend, but he ruthlessly abandoned the woman who helped him become famous and turned to Gong Li's arms.
Huang Hexiang could not accept Gong Li's "empathy and farewell", and they ended their marriage after private consultation.
In the face of outside skepticism, Huang Hexiang once publicly defended Gong Li: "China's film industry needs people like Gong Li, and everyone has more support." ”
Gong Li, who did not have the shackles of marriage, also ended his relationship with Sun Honglei not long after, and his life once again returned to calm.
03 Marrying Michelle is the best choice for the rest of your life
In the roundabout time, Gong Li has never given up her yearning and pursuit of love, and she has also learned from her failures.
But Gong Li is still the woman who dared to love and hate, her charm is innate, and her attitude depends on your attitude.
When Gong Li was shooting advertisements abroad, through the introduction of friends, she met the musician Michelle.
Also at the top of the industry, Michelle praised Gong Li for the first time, saying that she was a legend in China.
Michelle's contributions to music were recognized by the World Astronomical Organization for naming an asteroid after him.
Michelle once had 3 failed marriages, his first wife was an outsider, and it is said that the two belong to the green plum bamboo horse, which is the best mark of youth.
Her second wife, a Berlin film queen, helped Michelle in her career and held a 20-year marriage.
In the stage of the formation of life values and marriage concepts, each other's achievements and mutual tempering, but in the end, there is no escape from marriage.
The third wife is also a film queen, the two have been married for 5 years, it is reported that because of their different future development concepts, they chose to separate.
Until the appearance of Gong Li, Michelle's eyes lit up, after all, he has a "shadow harvester", and he can't miss this opportunity that makes his heart move.
Michelle spent her whole life in romance, and "men to death are teenagers" are vividly reflected in Michelle's body.
Ever since Michelle had Gong Li's contact information, he had never disappeared into Gong Li's world.
The first rays of sunlight in the morning and the last rays of the sunset in the evening are transmitted to Gong Li, who is far away in a foreign country, under Michelle's lens.
In order to pursue the heart of the goddess, Michelle did everything in her power to let Gong Li understand herself more fully.
During Gong Li's filming, Michelle made a surprise appearance, came to the crew to visit the class intimately, and used Chinese to communicate with Gong Li throughout the whole process, letting her know that she had a heart that loved China.
Because of the needs of the characters in Gong Li's play, she must be proficient in 5 Chinese, and then under the guidance of Michelle, Gong Li quickly mastered the mystery.
Michelle himself speaks more than ten languages and is honored to have the opportunity to teach one-on-one.
During the visit, Michelle found that Gong Li's work was very intense, and she was often accidentally bruised and bruised during filming.
In order to let Gong Li have a better sleeping environment, Michelle specially prepared a scent that is conducive to sleep, and a large bag of ointment.
Michelle's move deeply touched Gong Li's heart, and she was slowly moved.
In addition to Michelle's sincerity to Gong Li, there is also the approval of his mother-in-law, who approves of her daughter's love despite the large age gap.
After 2 years of dating Michelle, Gong Li once again chose to enter the palace of marriage.
Unlike in the past, Gong Li faded the arrogance of her youth, she carried out everything in a low-key manner, there was no luxurious ceremony, but it made her feel very warm.
On the red carpet of the film festival, Michelle appeared with his wife, and they instantly became the focus of the audience.
"Gong Li has allowed people all over the world to witness the greatness of Chinese cinema, and I am proud to have such a wife." Michelle did not hide her admiration and praise for Gong Li.
Perhaps it is such an equal husband and wife relationship, and the attitude of being good at discovering the advantages of each other, which makes this halfway couple more possibilities.
Gong Li is such a person, always has the courage to start over, and the experience of daring to trial and error, she is always being herself.
And the existence of Michelle just satisfies Gong Li to be a woman who is forever nourished by love.