Ototake Yoko
"YiWu Yang Kuang's five bodies are satisfied, and the lower body is more satisfied."
In March 2016, Japanese national inspirational idol Ototake Yokozumi was derailed in a marriage. In his fifteen-year married life, he has cheated on 50 people.
The wife Renmei is only a humble apology in the face of her husband's overwhelming scandal.
"It's my fault because I can't meet my husband's sexual needs and let him steal food outside."
When Renmei responded to the media, she was in addition to guilt and tiredness. Deep inside, there is also a relief like a relief.
Finally, their "deformed" marriage came to an end...
Along with the "broken" marriage, there is also the inspirational idol personality carefully created by Ototake Yoko. The Japanese people also saw clearly the "mutilated" personality under his mutilated body.
Yotsutake Ototake was born in 1976 in Tokyo, Japan.
Ototake Yoko
The doctors and nurses in the operating room were shocked to see the newborn baby. Because he is "incomplete."
It is an extremely rare form of "congenital limb-cutting syndrome," also known as "seal limbism." Patients are born with a lack of hands and feet, the lungs are underdeveloped, and even spontaneous breathing is very difficult.
Therefore, it is difficult for a fetus suffering from this disease to be born, and even if it is born, the chance of survival is very small.
Ototake's father was heartbroken and worried about his wife's emotional breakdown. He and the medical staff jointly "acted" to trick his wife and children into temporarily fostering in a nursery box.
Ototake Yoko and friends
But even if he "obstructed" his wife from seeing his son in every way, he had to tell the truth after a month of delay.
I thought I would see my wife crying with tears in her heart, but I didn't expect her to be unusually calm. Just staring quietly at the swaddled baby.
He was so different from the other children, but in the eyes of his mother, these differences could not be compared to the deep blood.
She gently held Xiao Yiwu Yangkuang in her arms, just like all women who had just become mothers. Proudly and joyfully announcing to those around him: "This is my cutest little one."
This is probably the first sincere and regretless love of Ototake Yoko after he came to this world. He was undoubtedly unlucky, but fortunate to have a "great" mother.
Under the careful care of his mother, Ototake Survived smoothly.
Ototake Yoko
She knows how to educate her children, and in the growth path of Ototake Yangkuang, she does not blindly care for him as a disabled child. Instead, let him go to school, exercise, play games like other children of the same age...
When Ototake Hiroaki did this, his mother would always accompany him.
"You are no different from other children, and if your mother believes that others can do it, you can definitely do it successfully."
Under the companionship and encouragement of his mother day after day, Ototake Yoko is no longer afraid to face the strange eyes of the people around him. He firmly believed that although he was born with flaws, he was destined to achieve extraordinary things.
"Not having limbs is just a feature of my body, and I can do things that able-bodied people can't do."
Tianxingjian, a gentleman who strives for self-improvement. Ototake grows up confidently and healthy, and bravely pursues his ideals.
In 1996, Yoshihiro Ototake was admitted to Waseda University, a well-known university in Japan, and during his time at the school, he used his practical actions to promote various public welfare activities.
Ototake Yoko
Under his leadership, the activities of "barrier-free space" and "barrier-free mind" have been effectively carried out.
More and more people pay attention to this excellent and optimistic disabled college student, and his positive attitude has infected countless suffering people in the same difficult situation.
At that time, Ototake Yoko was like a beam of light, "illuminating" the darkness and confusion of other disabled people in life, and also "warming" the body and mind of other healthy people.
In October 1998, Ototake compiled more than 20 years of life with disabilities into a book. A book called "The Five Bodies Are Not Satisfied" was officially published.
The "five bodies" refer to the head and limbs, which are the human body structures necessary for human beings to perceive the world and carry out life. However, Yiwu Yangkuang suddenly lacked the "four bodies", and only the head "one body" remained.
Ototake Yoko
In the past twenty years, he has mastered the basic ability to take care of himself in life by virtue of his only "oneness". I also learned to write, climb mountains, swim, play ball, run...
Those difficult and painful surgical experiences and journeys to study were all presented into words by him in an optimistic tone.
The endless power exuded between the lines, which brought shock and touch to countless people. Overnight, this "Five Bodies Are Not Satisfied" swept to the top of Japan's major best-seller lists.
At the same time, it also "won" major awards such as Japan's "Yomiuri Shimbun", "Asahi Shimbun", "Mainichi Shimbun", and "Japan's Best Book of the Year".
It successfully set a record for the single printing of 500,000 copies in Japanese history, and even became the Japanese version of "If You Give Me Three Days of Light".
Ototake Yoko
The explosion of books has allowed more and more people to understand and contact the protagonist Ototake Yoko. He has gained tens of thousands of fans and become an inspirational idol for the Japanese people!
After becoming famous, Owu Yangkuang did not live up to the expectations of the public, continued to engage in public welfare activities and education, and fought for more social rights and interests for the disabled.
"Since there are things that people with disabilities can't do, there should also be things that only people with disabilities can do." Heaven gave me such a body in order to enable me to accomplish this mission. ”
On September 21, 1999, a magnitude 7.6 earthquake struck Taiwan. The earthquake caused more than 2.5 million injuries or deaths, with significant economic and life losses.
In order to appease the vast number of people affected by the disaster, the local government has actively carried out the construction of post-disaster facilities to ensure the basic livelihood of the people.
Ototake Yoko
In addition to the construction of living facilities, it is more important to build the hearts of the disaster victims. Let them regain confidence in their lives.
To this end, the Taiwan government organized a symposium on "accepting the imperfections of life and showing the sunshine of life." Ototake Yoko was among the invitees.
He stood on the podium, without limbs, "revealing" his disability to the world. Without opening his mouth, he conveyed infinite strength and confidence.
Ototake Yoshikumi used his practical experience to prove to the affected people that disability is not terrible, and we must learn to accept our imperfections in order to regain hope in life.
Sure enough, with his encouragement, the people's confidence was high. He also successfully "harvested" a wave of attention and praise in Taiwan.
Subsequently, Ototake Yangkuang published books such as "The Gift of Ototake" and "Residual Image". Through a variety of inspirational stories and experiences, we will transmit positive energy to the society.
Ototake Yoko
In 2000, Yotsutake received the Tokyo Metropolitan Culture Honor Award. Become a well-deserved and new generation of youth inspirational idols in Japan.
In March 2007, Ototake Yangkuang successfully passed the "Primary School Education Class II Certificate". He joined Sugi-ku, Tokyo, and became a glorious "people's teacher".
The "mutilated" body of Otomu Yangkuang seems to contain unlimited energy and energy. On the sports field, there is his figure kicking and jumping, and in class he is swinging his way...
He proved to everyone within his power that he was living well and getting better and better!
While his career is thriving step by step, Ototake Yoko also encounters a beautiful love.
Although physically flawed, confident people themselves "shine." Renmei remembers the first time she saw Yoshihiro Ototake.
It was at a school lecture, and Otomu Yangkuo only had a section of his upper torso as a support. But he "sat" very straight in his wheelchair, and his face was full of confident and decent smiles.
Long before this, Renmei had been admiring this master brother for a long time. Now that I see the real person, I realize that he is more "eye-catching" than rumored.
She was inevitably attracted by the warm and positive attitude of Ototake Yangkuo, and the bud of love was inadvertently "planted".
Ototake Yoko
Ototake Also noticed this gentle, kind, and good-looking elementary school girl. As contact increased, the two people naturally fell in love.
The beauty of love moisturizes the "haze" in the bottom of Owu Yang kuang's heart. This made him more and more confident and yearning for life, so he was extremely grateful to god for the "gifts" given to his lovers.
After three years of sweet dating, the two wanted to enter the palace of marriage.
But Otobu Yangkuang hesitated, and they really loved each other. However, the mutilation of his body is also real, and when Renmei marries him, she has to consider the actual problems after marriage.
Ototake reminds Renmi, "Although I can go to the toilet, I can't wipe my ass myself, and you have to help me clean up every time, so doesn't it matter?" ”
In addition, he had no way to eat, dress, walk normally... Once Renmei marries him, she must take on the responsibility of taking care of all his daily affairs.
Ototake Hiroshi tries to use reality to "scare off" Renmei, but the girl is in love and can't help herself. In addition to love, she also has a deep admiration for Ototake Yoko.
Ototake Yoko
Therefore, even in the face of Ototake Yangkuang's physical mutilation and inability to take care of herself, she was still unwilling to easily retreat.
The girl, who had never experienced any human suffering, assured him with a look of innocence and solemnity.
"Don't be afraid, in fact, I have also had a dog." So I will be able to take good care of you in every detail and thoughtfully. ”
In 2001, the 22-year-old Renmei resolutely married Ototake Yoko in spite of her family's opposition.
In her best years of youth, she stepped into a marriage that was destined to be full of hardships and took on the "second half of her life" of another person.
Even though Renmei had long been fully prepared psychologically, what happened later was still greatly beyond the overdue and left her with indelible pain.
Ototake Yoko
Japan is already very popular in "machismo", and the traditional concept of "male outside, female inside" is deeply rooted in society.
As long as you get married, no matter what the woman's origin, education, career... They all have to "return" to the family and become housewives of their husbands and godsons.
The situation of Ototake Yoko is destined to make Renmi harder than other housewives.
After the two married, Renmei quit her job. Take care of your husband's daily life in every detail, from eating and dressing, to going to the toilet, opening and closing the door...
Renmei must ensure a high degree of mental concentration every day and always listen to her husband's "call". With the birth of several children, Renmei's already heavy "workload" has doubled.
She's like a clockwork alarm clock, running non-stop all year round. She didn't have much time to dress herself up and go out for recreation. He has completely lost his personal life, and even his identity is only his wife and mother.
Photo of Otomu Hirokushi cheating
Truly became the woman "behind" Otobu Yoko.
In the face of Renmei's efforts, Ototake Yangkuang was touched. So when he was interviewed, he publicly expressed his love to his wife more than once.
"Renmei changed my life, Renmei is a bright light in my life, Renmei is stronger than me and brings me endless comfort..."
Whenever she heard her husband's love, Renmei was comforted in her heart, at least her efforts were not meaningless.
If they are married, they need to sacrifice their own egos in exchange for harmony and stability. Na Renmei thought that she was willing to sacrifice.
But after more than ten years of hard work, she will also feel tired and feel wronged. And her husband's subsequent infidelity made her efforts ridiculous and sad.
Renmei's high-intensity "nanny-style" life after marriage made her physically and mentally exhausted. Therefore, in dealing with the other needs of the husband, it is somewhat inadequate.
Ototake Yoko
Ototake's mentality gradually changed, and as his money reputation and social status continued to rise, so did his desires.
There are many women around him who worship him like his wife Renmei, and even more will give him a hug. Faced with the favor of other women, Ototake Yangkuang wavered.
Perhaps because of the mutilation of the body, the woman's pursuit greatly satisfies the "emptiness" in his heart. He forgot his vows to his wife and indulged in the "world of flowers" outside.
After learning that her husband has cheated on her, Renmei is in pain.
But she has been in a disadvantageous position for a long time in marriage. For Otomu Yoko, he has already developed a "servility", and obedience and patience have become instinctive.
Even she can't help but reflect on herself, thinking that she is focusing on taking care of her family. Letting the husband not be satisfied will lead to infidelity.
Reports of Ototake's derailment
Therefore, she did not dare to complain about her husband, and she did not dare to complain. You can only let your husband linger and keep cheating.
Without his wife's restraint, Ototake Became More and More Rampant. Began to frequently go in and out of nightclubs, cheating secretaries, nurses, nightclub ladies...
Faced with her husband's betrayal again and again, Renmei has become numb. She did not feel the slightest warmth and love in this marriage, only deep tiredness.
So when he learned that Ototake Yangkuo was not home at ten o'clock in the evening, Renmei simply let him spend the night outside, so that it would be easier for both of them.
I have to say that their marriage has come to this point, and it can already be said that it exists in name only.
Ototake Hiroshi began to completely "let go of himself", not only frequently changing "girlfriends", but also introducing the female secretary to the media on social occasions many times as his girlfriend.
With his unrestrained wandering skeleton, the media quickly gathered all kinds of evidence of Ototake's derailment.
Ototake Yoko
In March 2016, the news of "Otomu Yoko's Marital Infidelity" appeared on the front page headlines of major Japanese media and continued to dominate the list.
According to the report, Ototake Yangkuang often stays home at night, frequently enters and exits nightclubs, and has had at least 5 improper relationships with women.
Many Japanese fans do not believe that Ototake Hiroshi would have such a scandal, but after a detailed investigation, it was discovered.
Not only is the above information true, but it is also confirmed that the number of people who cheated on Owu Yangkuang is not only five, but fifty.
At this point, Otomu Yoko's idol personality completely "collapsed". Even the "perfect marriage" between him and Renmei, which was once admired by outsiders, has become a joke.
Renmei took the blame for Ototake in front of the media, and she knew that the outside world must be confused.
But she seemed to have been looking forward to this day for a long time.
Ototake Yoko
This marriage has exhausted her physically and mentally, and she has been letting go, just to find opportunities for "relief".
Today, they have painstakingly maintained a marriage of fifteen years, ending it in the most embarrassing and humiliating way.
After divorcing Renmei, Ototake Yangkuang is still wandering in the flowers and getting to know all kinds of confidants with red faces. He also lives an optimistic life, with a positive image of positivity.
But the people's evaluation of him has already plummeted, from the national idol to the scorn of thousands of people, everything can only be blamed on himself.