one. This spring is all over, and I still can't get out of other people's emotional stories. That being the case, let's carry love through to the end. Just now in the super talk to see a sister is very troubled, in a word: she wants to break up, but thinking of each other's good and unwilling to get it. Moreover, she herself is more likely to be soft-hearted. She didn't know how to be good, and if she continued like this, she would still quarrel every day. She was tired and in so much pain that she was dying and coming back to life. I told her directly: You are not a good fit. Another enthusiastic sister said: It is better to demolish a temple than destroy a marriage. The following omits the N word.
two. I am not an emotional counselor, the main reasons are: First, I have limited patience, and others can't listen to that meaning over and over again. Second, I speak directly and want to solve the problem – but there are people who know what to do. It is nothing more than finding someone to talk to and listening to the advice of others. All in all, I can't accept wasting time and not solving the problem. Like this "breakup" annoyance, it will not appear in me. This sister, her procrastination will continue for some time. Unless there is a noticeable change in the other party, there will be no miracle. She also knows that her weakness is soft-heartedness, so "breakup" can never be said?
three. Whoever is holding hands doesn't think about breaking up. Everyone is happy, who hopes that the future will be painful. In a calm situation, if you still feel that there is a problem with the two people getting along - you have to solve it first, and it is best to solve it effectively. Is the solution ineffective, "breaking up" still a problem? Women are nostalgic for the past, thinking that this is a familiar man and have had unforgettable memories with him. However, any familiarity begins with strangeness, and you give another person a chance. You have N years of good times with him. Such hesitation and hesitation must not be the ideal way to break up.
shop. Coincidentally, I just saw the topic of "breaking up" again, in "Brilliant Forward", Rainie Yang was asked: "What is the ideal way to break up in your mind?" Rainie Yang replied happily: "I think we must be fast and accurate!" The guests all pricked up their ears to smell it, and Rainie Yang continued: "Let's first clearly say why we want to separate." And you are very decisive, you will not break the thread. In fact, at that moment, the other party must be very sad; or the recipient will feel very sad. But in fact, their healing period may be a little shorter. Decisively point out that that is your attitude. But how to speak, that does require skill.
five. Once upon a time, I also tried to be broken up. It was still the student days, and I thought others would like me. However, the other party told me directly: "We are not suitable." "Of course I want to know why, this can also be completely dead hearted." I'm also worried that the other person will give an ambiguous excuse, which is more embarrassing. Thank you, the other party said: "I want to go back to the county after graduation, you need to stay in the city." "I'm not going to follow each other out of here for love." The other party also has family reasons and has a reason to go back. Well, the green mountains do not change, and the green water flows for a long time. That's all for us! (Text/Drifting Yu tong)
END。 Do you think that breaking up quickly and fiercely is also a kind of happiness for others and for yourself? Put it down, it's easier and easier. Remember, in "Daming Palace Words", Wu Zetian told me: If you don't know how to say it, it is best to tell the truth. The same is true for breaking up, please tell the other person directly about your decision. Do you want Wang Gu to talk about him? You don't have to.
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