Why do some people have good popularity? Because they know how to get along, they can communicate with people, and every word they say is not harmful.
One person will say, the other will listen, and two people will walk very close, just like one person. When things are encountered, they will not hide them, and they will discuss and solve them together.
Such a person will have many sincere friends around him, and he will also meet people who really love themselves and are willing to accompany themselves to old age. In this life, there are several friends who have nothing to say, and there is a lover, enough.
The things that are done make people resentful, and the words that are spoken affect the mood of others, this kind of person, no one wants to get close, everyone wants to be farther away, a little farther. Can't help, can't bring happiness, has no value at all, and wants to make others dig out their hearts and lungs, which is an unlikely thing.
Many things are right to completely enter a person's heart, but if you do the wrong thing, you no longer have a place. If you want a man to accompany you to old age, don't make such jokes, otherwise you will break up sooner or later.
"If you earn so much, can you afford to raise me?"
Who wants to earn a lot less than others? They don't want to earn less, they all want to make more money. Not long after entering the society, it is normal that the salary is low, because there is no experience, and many things do not know how to deal with it.
A job, done for a long time, with enough experience, the treatment will be better and better. When a person is working hard, he is most afraid of hearing words such as "you are really wasteful, you are not as good as who is who", and every time he hears it, his heart hurts.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to grow old with a man and wanting a man to work hard, but don't provoke him, don't say those unpleasant words. You just want him to work hard, but he thinks a lot, thinks you don't love him, thinks you can't look at him.
What men need most is encouragement and support, if you don't want to break up, don't say those hurtful words. More praise, he will be more confident, will be more hardworking, regardless of success or failure, he will always love you deeply.
"Without you, I can live well too"
Can we all live the same life without anyone? Yes, whoever doesn't have anyone, it's all right. This is the reason, but words cannot be said like this, whether it is quarrels or jokes, do not say them.
Men and women think differently, you say it out, feel nothing, after he hears it, he doesn't necessarily feel nothing. The things that shouldn't be said must rot in your stomach, even if you want to say them again.
Get along with men, don't make men feel like you can't live without him, and don't let men feel like you're going to leave him. You don't say, he doesn't want that much, will always love you, will always hold you in the palm of his hand.
"Don't come to me, I don't have time to pay attention to you."
Women like to be tired with men, but if they don't see it for too long, women are more or less unhappy and will say some "angry words". Obviously I want men to appear, but I say I don't need you, obviously I want to hold men, but say don't come near me, men don't know that women are saying the opposite, the heart hurts, and there is no good attitude towards women.
What kind of words can be said, you should know, what kind of words should be said less, you must also know, and only when you know, will you not say everything, so that you will not pierce people's hearts. It has not hurt people's hearts, every word spoken is very warm, and your feelings will be better and better.
He is busy and has no time to accompany you, you have to understand, he is resting, did not go to you, you have to have a good chat with him. Make it clear that the two talents will not have misunderstandings, so that they will not go farther and farther.
It only takes a few seconds to say a word, and the person who hears it will think for a long time. Before you speak, be sure to think about it with your brain, and don't say a word about what you say is not good for you.
"Whoever you like, you go with whomever you want"
Men and others close, you are very unhappy, you do not think about it, just said a sentence "who you like, you go with whom". This sentence is to push the man outward, and after he hears it, your feelings will fade.
To let a man know that it's wrong for him to do so, just say it directly, instead of turning a corner. He knows he's done something wrong, he'll apologize to you, and he'll be doubly good to you.
With men, know which jokes can be made and which jokes can't be made, so that you don't lose the person who loves you the most. Girl, don't do stupid things anymore, otherwise you don't know how to lose each other.
summary:
Between couples, you can make some jokes, but don't make any jokes. Jokes that should be made, how to make jokes, jokes that should not be made, don't open again, no matter how much you want to open, you must be on the board.
The other party proposed to break up, your heart is not so sad, and when the other party leaves, you cry while chasing. Don't want to let the other person leave, want to be with the other party all the time, you have to think more about the other party.
Having each other in their hearts, learning to think in empathy, and their position in each other's hearts is becoming more and more important. No one can do without anyone, they will get the certificate, and they will live together.