When Tang Jing first found out that there was a cat between Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling, he was actually very entangled in whether to tell Luo Zijun.
Tang Jing was very angry at Chen Junsheng's behavior, but He Han said that the most pitiful person at this time should be Chen Junsheng.
Tang Jing said angrily, "He's pitiful?! Hateful, damnable, perishable. It was too late for him to get excited and welcome the new. ”
As a result, He Han said: "The excitement was when I was just in love with Ling Ling, and now I really want him to choose one of the two and take responsibility, he is eager to disappear from this earth immediately." ”
Tang Jing asked He Han if Chen Junsheng would really divorce Luo Zijun, and He Han said that it was mostly Ling Ling's soft and hard treatment.
He said: "The deep inside of a man's heart is to hope that his wife will always be a wife, and a lover will always be a lover, like two planets that will always remain at a distance of thirty thousand light years, and will never intersect." ”
He Han said the true thoughts of most men, and he also saw that Chen Junsheng's divorce from Luo Zijun was mostly the result of Ling Ling's soft and hard efforts, and he had to admire his strength, and it was true that men knew men best.
He Han was right, in fact, Chen Junsheng did not have to divorce, and the reason why he was able to make such a big determination to divorce was largely because of Ling Ling's means.
Now that I looked at it again, I realized how big a game Ling Ling had played in order to get Chen Junsheng, and this woman's heart was something that ten Luo Zijun could not fight at the beginning.
The first step: Chen Junsheng works overtime, Ling Ling is gentle and accompanied, and selflessly does the interpretation of flowers
At the beginning, in order to make Luo Zijun more aware of where she lost, He Han took her to Tang Jing's company Bianti to experience the current working state of foreign companies.
After dinner, back at the company office, He Han let Luo Zijun sit in front of Tang Jing's desk and said something to her: "You just sit here, put yourself in the position of feeling, if you are busy during the day, at night, it is still a mountain of work in front of your eyes, this night, I am afraid you will not be able to sleep." And the next morning, there will be a big wave of work waiting for you, how will you feel? If at this time, someone is willing to stay and help you a little, or even if you can't help, just stay and accompany you, and then bring some hot tea and supper. If it were you, would you fall in love with him? ”
After He Han said this, Luo Zijun understood how Chen Junsheng fell in love with Ling Ling.
It is the silent companionship that He Han said in his mouth, sending some warmth from time to time, and often quietly listening to Chen Junsheng's distress and listening to his pressure.
In this way, Chen Junsheng fell into the gentle trap designed by Ling Ling step by step.
Although the means are very poor, they are very useful for men, especially if he is only a small project manager like Chen Junsheng, and he is the only one in the family who works to make money, and his wife does not understand his hard work.
Ling Ling's long-term companionship, and from time to time to send some stomach medicine and supper, and Ling Ling's data to him, but also let him reduce a lot of pressure, save a lot of time, such a powerful assistant, gentle and considerate, but also have a good feeling for themselves, and is a married lady, maybe there is no responsibility burden.
Therefore, in order to thank Ling Ling, Chen Junsheng often sent Ling Ling home from work during that time, and also picked her up at work.
Ling Ling will not refuse, she is glad that it is too late, in the car often Chen Junsheng will talk to her in the car late at night.
At this time, Ling Ling was also calm, facing Chen Junsheng's complaint that his wife did not understand and was not gentle, Ling Ling also said: "You have been together for ten years, with her, there is now Chen Junsheng." ”
Such words made men feel that Ling Ling was a gentle and understanding woman, and the more empathetic Ling Ling showed during that time, the more Chen Junsheng would fall into the gentle countryside designed by Ling Ling.
Only when the prey is completely trapped in the trap, can it be shot again, so the gentleness and companionship during that time are All Ling Ling wants Chen Junsheng to rely on her and have feelings for her, and she also knows that Chen Junsheng is not a bad person, he is a soft-hearted person, and Chen Junsheng's marriage is not happy, which makes her more confident in her prey.
During that time, Ling Ling's gentleness deceived Chen Junsheng, but she could not deceive Tang Jing, who was also a woman.
Although Tang Jing realized that there was a cat between Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling, she did not expect that her discovery was still too late, and at that time Ling Ling had already taken the second step.
Step 2: Take the initiative to divorce, take the initiative, and say that you love him and have nothing to do with him
That day, Tang Jing met Chen Junsheng in the garage and was about to reach out to comfort Ling Ling, but Tang Jing went relatively early, and Chen Junsheng was interrupted by Tang Jing before he could make the next move.
At that time, Chen Junsheng's explanation was that Ling Ling was his colleague, in a bad mood, he just wanted to comfort her, and Chen Junsheng was absent-minded when he took the elevator, at that time Tang Jing did not perceive any problems between the two, until later she recalled the details to understand that there was a problem between the two, and angrily ran to the stars to ask Chen Junsheng if he was cheating.
Why did Chen Junsheng comfort Ling Ling that morning?
The reason is simple, because this is the second step that Ling Ling has already begun to implement herself.
She said to Chen Junsheng: "Blame myself, I have to like you, I don't blame you." ”
This sentence is preconceived, directly showing his heart, creating his own affectionate image, and making Chen Junsheng feel guilty.
At this time, Chen Junsheng said: "You know that I will divorce, give me some time, I need to prepare, you have to prepare there." ”
In fact, when Chen Junsheng said this sentence, he was also trying to delay time, and he was still unwilling to divorce in his heart, after all, both people had family children, and he knew that Ling Ling's husband did not agree to divorce.
As a result, Ling Ling said, "He has already agreed." ”
Chen Junsheng was very surprised, because according to his understanding, Ling Ling's husband did not agree to divorce, in fact, Ling Ling had been lying to him, Ling Ling and her husband had been separated for a long time, the marriage between the two existed in name only, and Ling Ling and her husband divorced is very simple.
The reason why Ling Ling told Chen Junsheng that her husband did not agree was to show how much she gave up in order to love him in the later stage, so that Chen Junsheng felt more guilty, after all, she was divorced for him, and she was still out of the house, she did not want anything, just took her son away, such a move made Chen Junsheng more surprised.
At this time, Chen Junsheng wondered why Ling Ling did not consult with him, and as a result, Ling Ling said to him affectionately at this time: "Junsheng, liking you is my own business, it has nothing to do with you, and I just saw Mrs. Chen, looking very happy, I can't see how bad her husband is to her." ”
This sentence is really clever, the front points out his deep feelings, for Chen Junsheng to divorce, clean out of the house, and the second half of the sentence also points out that Chen Junsheng is actually very happy in marriage, Luo Zijun's appearance can not see Chen Junsheng's attitude of wanting a divorce.
The reason why she chose the showdown that morning was because there was Luo Zijun on the ride that morning, and from the perspective of Luo Zijun's state, Chen Junsheng did not reveal a little divorce, so that morning Ling Ling chose a showdown and forced Chen Junsheng to do so.
After listening to Ling Ling's affectionate confession and a little complaint, Chen Junsheng said that he would talk to Luo Zijun about divorce as soon as possible.
At this time, Ling Ling became affectionate again, she said: "I left him because we really can't get by." I told you that this matter did not force you to mean, can not say that you set it yourself, anyway, it will not affect my love for you. ”
After listening to this passage, Chen Junsheng's heart softened, and he wanted to comfort and hug Ling Ling, just when Tang Jing appeared and interrupted the ambiguity between them.
I have to say that Ling Ling's words are really powerful, there is a little bit of persecution and dissatisfaction in the front, and then immediately said affectionately that he loved her and did not ask for anything in return, although he looked very understanding, but in fact, Chen Junsheng would have a great burden in his heart, after all, in the face of such an affectionate woman, a good person like Chen Junsheng is easy to shake.
And Ling Ling is looking at Chen Junsheng this point, will choose Chen Junsheng among so many people, because he is not only strong in economic strength, helpful to his career, more importantly, he is not a cold-blooded man, it is easier to control, and he will not end up with a person's wealth in the future.
Step Three: Buy people's hearts, pretend to be in a weak position, and force Chen Junsheng to make a choice
Of course, this step was not enough for Chen Junsheng to make up his mind to have a showdown with Luo Zijun.
Because although Chen Junsheng has feelings for Ling Ling, he also has feelings for Luo Zijun, who has been married for more than ten years, so Ling Ling must force Chen Junsheng once again.
Later, a lot of rumors about Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling in the company, in fact, there will be rumors, but the rumors are so strong, there must be Ling Ling's push.
Then Tang Jing told Luo Zijun that Chen Junsheng had cheated, that was Ling Ling, but Luo Zijun did not believe that it was Ling Ling, and ran to the company to make a big fuss, she thought it was Sang Zhuo, at that time, ling Ling was also present, at that time she almost wanted to go out, wanted to tell Luo Zijun that that person was actually not Sang Zhuo, but her.
But he was interrupted by Chen Junsheng. Afterwards, Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling chatted alone in the restaurant, this time Ling Ling began to push Chen Junsheng, because at this time she wanted Chen Junsheng to make a choice, and it was to choose her, she put herself in a weak position, and whispered to Chen Junsheng:
"So many people are looking at me, I kind of want to go out. Junsheng, I have changed my mind, I want to return you to Luo Zijun. In fact, you have not been ready for divorce, I know this matter is very difficult for a man, I can understand, in fact, the two of us together, I am quite guilty. Especially after meeting Luo Zijun that day, on the one hand, I felt sorry for her; on the other hand, I really couldn't stand her sharing with me as a good friend how a third party had done a thousand things. And the looks in other people's eyes, I've had enough. ”
Ling Ling's words seem to be a step backwards, but in fact, it is to retreat into advance, she is forcing Chen Junsheng to make a choice, the more pitiful she behaves, the more she does not care, the more Chen Junsheng will feel guilty, the more chaotic.
And she and Luo Zijun knew, it was she and Chen Junsheng who hid Luo Zijun together, and now in turn it became Luo Zijun torturing her, which was really powerful, making Chen Junsheng more distressed.
Finally, she said, "Junsheng, live well, live a good life." Don't worry about me, I don't hate you at all, and I'm so thankful to you that you've been particularly nice to me during our time together. Aside from the working relationship, we don't want to connect anymore. ”
After saying this, Ling Ling left, and the phone could not be called, WeChat was blocked, and the person was not in the company after taking leave, Chen Junsheng did not even have the opportunity to explain, which would only make Chen Junsheng feel sorry for her.
And Chen Junsheng went to Ling Ling's office to find her, and a colleague came to Chen Junsheng and said: "General Manager Chen, Sister Ling just took leave and left." ”
And in the face of Chen Junsheng's arrival and Ling Ling's small things, the office suddenly rumored, I have to say that Ling Ling is powerful, so if Chen Junsheng is not responsible for her, the reputation in the company will also be affected.
Last time, in fact, Chen Junsheng almost had a showdown with Luo Zijun, but Luo Zijun bought a set of sand to send to Chen Junsheng, and in the face of Luo Zijun's gentleness, Chen Junsheng's heart softened at that time, and there would be Ling Ling's play missing later, allowing Chen Junsheng to make a decision.
Moreover, during the period when Ling Ling disappeared, there were more and more rumors in the company.
The more gossip, the more Ling Ling does not appear, Chen Junsheng will be more chaotic, and because Ling Ling is not there, the work of the people below is not handed over, resulting in a time Chen Junsheng is not satisfied, and at this time and Ling Ling's little sister who wants to be good runs over to Chen Junsheng and says: "Chen Zong, Ling Sister divorced for you, you are not fulfilling your promises, when you two were good together, many people did not look at it, you said how pitiful this woman is, when you encounter such a thing, everyone says that women are not good than men, How many people do you say that this Ling Ling sister is going to come back and wait to see the joke? ”
Coincidentally, Ling Ling came back at this time, and the work did not fall at all, and after meticulously handing in the work data that Chen Junsheng wanted, she did not say anything and left.
And later Ling Ling in the office was also inquired by others, she treated her coldly, let others have no good eyes for her, deliberately embarrassed her, but at this time Chen Junsheng saw it, he scolded the person, and the result was that people said: "It's not your wife." ”
At this time, Chen Jun was angry, but directly went home to have a showdown with Luo Zijun, Ling Ling's last step was completed, it was really cruel, she put herself in a situation of gossip and being bullied, so that Chen Junsheng thought that she had been greatly wronged because of him, and she was even more pitiful than his wife.
In the end, Chen Junsheng will make up his mind to have a showdown with Luo Zijun, and the two divorce.
Think about Ling Ling in fact in order to force Chen Junsheng to divorce is a lot of thought, from the beginning of overtime to accompany this game of chess is in her control, to the later soft and hard and hard to make Chen Junsheng humiliated but completely showdown with Luo Zijun, in fact, at this time Chen Junsheng loves her or not, it doesn't matter, because as long as Chen Junsheng divorces Luo Zijun, she wins.
Because if Chen Junsheng wants to stay in this industry, the best way to break the rumor is to marry her.
In the end, Chen Junsheng also paid the price for his behavior of falling into a gentle township, in fact, Chen Junsheng already had a trace of regret at the moment of the subsequent divorce, but Ling Ling's persecution made him feel guilty, thinking that he had to give her an explanation, otherwise Ling Ling would not live.