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Li Dazhao, one of the main founders of the Communist Party of China, once said: We must work in a down-to-earth manner in everything, not in the fantasies, not in the voice of the false, but with the attitude of seeking truth to do down-to-earth work. If you study with this attitude, the truth can be understood, and if you do things with this attitude, you can do your work.
He Yu in the play, because he was framed by the leader and lost his job, his name also entered the blacklist of the entire fund industry, and in the same time period, the boyfriend who had been in a relationship for 10 years broke up with himself due to the intervention of a green tea girl.
In the case of career and feelings are not smooth, the double lost youth He Yu did not idle and idle, sitting and waiting, she chose to take the initiative to attack.
Start by taking a trip and get ready to say goodbye to the past.
After returning, she did not slacken off and began to look for a job online, and there was no HR to contact her, so she created her own opportunities and went to various companies to sell herself.
After the fruitless search, she began to analyze the self-media industry, produce reports, invest in Xiaoyu to make short videos to make money, after the loss of 50,000 yuan of investment, she ate a meal to make up for energy, and then spent 20,000 yuan to report a CFA chartered financial elite training class to improve herself.
Former colleagues said that she regarded herself as high, so He Yu sold insurance part-time to support herself.
Whatever the outcome, she has been on the move.
If you are just in a daze for a long time, nibbling your nails there, it won't be long before you fall into fear and regret.
Why do people have insomnia, I think it is that at night people are more emotional, have more time to focus on their own hearts, so the imagination begins to enrich, but at the same time, if you go to the cinema to watch movies, to eat supper, this time the attention is on other things, completely forget the self.
In the Treatise on Happiness, it is said that idleness is the mother of all evil and the mother of all virtues.
So the strong are almost all doing all kinds of things, and rarely idle thinking about it.
Ski champion, our frog princess Gu Ailing, she is either skiing, studying, or sleeping, I have never seen her idle and bored in the documentary.
The strong live in the world, not in their own hearts.
The more fulfilling our lives are, the less anxious we are.
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He Yu can always take the initiative to seize the opportunity in the ups and downs of the situation and face the difficulties.
After experiencing the failure of short video investment, she found that she was not suitable for the self-media industry, so she was ready to return to her old bank's financial industry, and also applied for an elite class to study, while selling insurance part-time, studying during the day, while putting down vanity and face, setting up a stall with Xiaoyu at night, sometimes the business was deserted, she sat on the stall to read and study.
During the day, in order to sell insurance, He Yu did everything in his power, first Jin Jinwu, who was soft and hard to make a property, wanted to get high-quality customer information from him, and also went to the construction site of the real estate and used various ways to sell insurance.
Always work and discover business opportunities anytime, anywhere.
He Yu took the business of The same community Chen Zong as the goal, in order to get a chance to chat with Mr. Chen, went to Mr. Chen's company to wait for the rabbit, during this period with all the people in the company to build a good relationship, to help them do what they can.
Mr. Chen warned He Yu that opportunism could not be successful, even if it was a part-time job, he had to take it seriously, so He Yu studied the relevant knowledge of insurance overnight.
Clinging to women is the best life.
Her sincerity touched Mr. Chen, who finally decided to buy insurance, cast a sympathetic order for He Yu's unfortunate encounter, and introduced He Yu to the company for an interview.
He Yu, who succeeded in the interview, stopped selling insurance and decided to do his old business wholeheartedly.
Every action is decided by He Yu herself, she never forced herself, as long as she decides well, she will open up and always be full of energy.
All athletes are automatically suffering, one minute on stage, ten years off stage, all successful artists are behind their own efforts.
No one likes forced labor, and the work we voluntarily choose is a pleasure for us. There are many people who just stay in this company for a salary, cope with jobs they don't like, so they will be physically and mentally exhausted, every day is so tired, so sleepy, so hungry, the happiest time of the day is to leave work.
We all want to act, but we don't want to be forced to act. No one wants misfortune; no one likes to be forced by unavoidable force. But as long as we volunteer to suffer, we will be happy in no time.
To do it, rather than passively accept it, is the nature of happiness.
If work is voluntary, it is the best; if work is voluntary, then it is the worst.
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There's a fantastic experiment where you can try it, and it's easier to directly control someone else's emotions than it is to control our own.
An angry man came up to me, as if ready to fight with me, but if I showed kindness, then quickly let him relax. When two people are approaching like two dark clouds, one of them must smile, and it is recommended that you be the one who smiles first.
The crowd is surging and no one can tell who is who, and it is a rare fate to meet in the vast sea of people, so it should be cherished. Only by treating others kindly can we better know each other and turn acquaintances into acquaintances.
Jin Jinwu's money was all set in the fund, temporarily could not be taken out, at that time the down payment for the purchase of the house was not enough, so the debt was owed, temporarily unable to repay, resulting in the bank to go to the door to collect debts, He Yu took out money to lend to Jin Jinwu to solve the urgent need.
Jin Jinwu went to work during the day and delivered takeaways at night, and He Yu looked very distressed, so he often asked him to come to his house for dinner.
When I went to the company where Mr. Chen worked for the interview, I knew that I was particularly anxious, but when I saw the newcomer who had just come out of society and nervously introduced herself during the interview, she took the initiative to lend a helping hand, tell him his experience, encourage him to resume well, and let him relax and not be nervous.
He Yu looks shrewd and capable on the surface, but in fact, she is a person who gets wet herself and has to give umbrellas to others.
Seeing the construction workers working the construction site, she believes that the workers need an accident insurance as protection, because the construction site may be dangerous at any time.
The workers are not generous, and it is very difficult to bear a high amount of insurance, so He Yu applied with the company leaders, sacrificed his own commission, and sought price concessions for these workers.
Venus once said: Be kind to others in good times, and be kind to yourself in adversity.
He Yu never wronged himself, whether materially or spiritually.
With green tea involved in herself and Song Zelin, she will declare sovereignty, save feelings, even if she was later broken up, she never denied herself, she will not punish herself with the mistakes of others, she always believes that she is a special existence.
After the breakup, the trip with friends to go away is also to make up for the regret of not being able to go to Wuzhen with her boyfriend.
When waiting for the car, waiting for the plane, waiting for the subway, there will always be people complaining: what time is not yet. In my head, I have been urging myself, urging the train, and urging the time.
To be kind to yourself is to be more patient when you want to complain.
Don't rush the train, because it will go forward on its own and will always come; don't rush the time, because everything is the best arrangement, and it will give you the answer.
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