This song is actually written by Tang Lei in memory of a good friend's girlfriend, she died unexpectedly because of a car accident, the friend was very sad, Tang Lei had a feeling and sent, using lilac flowers to express sadness, but also want to remind everyone to cherish the people in front of them, cherish everything you have now,
It had nothing to do with Tang Lei himself, nor did it happen to him. ”
It is not false that a young girl died in a car accident, but it has nothing to do with Tang Lei.
"Those are all made up on the Internet, in fact, Tang Lei and the girl do not know, have not seen, even do not know her name, and then she did die unexpectedly, he also regrets to know her in this way."
The fact is that Tang Lei has a very good friend named Lei Jing when he was young, Lei Jing and his girlfriend are university alumni, studying in the Chinese Department, but the girlfriend is his sister who is one year older than him, but because this girl not only has very good grades, but also has a cheerful personality and looks beautiful, so Lei Jing quickly heard about her.
Coincidentally, at that time, Lei Jing participated in the school newspaper reporter club in the school, and it happened that this outstanding student sister was also there, and Lei Jing was moved the moment he saw her.
He felt that this girl was young and beautiful and had a very deep connotation, and was also very popular in the school club, like the stars holding the moon, so he decided to fight for himself.
Later, after unremitting efforts, Lei Jing finally embraced the beauty, the two people were very affectionate, almost every day together in class, go to the library together, out of the double is very sweet, is the school's famous golden boy and jade girl.
Lei Jing thought that such a life would last a lifetime, and they also planned to get married after graduating from college, but Tian's jealous face, on the way home from a vacation in his girlfriend, a sudden car accident took the life of this proud daughter of heaven, spending the same age, she died after rescue.
Since then, Lei Jing has lived in the dark every day, and an originally lively and active teenager has begun to become taciturn, and he washes his face with tears every day, wondering why he did not protect his girlfriend.
Later, Lei Jing, who was deeply in pain, wrote a song in honor of his beloved girlfriend: "My pain is so deep, your appearance is so true, but with the passage of time, you have been deeply burned into my soul." ”
Therefore, looking at his friend's daily loss of soul and liver and intestines, Tang Lei was very unbearable, although he did not know this girl who died of incense, he felt sorry for this young life, and also understood that life was fragile, but love was priceless.
During that time, Tang Lei had been with Lei Jing, and while he was trying to enlighten Lei Jing, he listened to Lei Jing read the song he had written, and later, Tang Lei suddenly had an idea.
"He really wanted to share his girlfriend's story, and I felt that this thought was particularly heavy and precious, so I wanted to write a song and share it to tell everyone to cherish life and cherish the people in front of them."
That is to say, with this original intention, Tang Lei expressed his nostalgia for the deceased with the title of "Lilac Flower".
"We will encounter too many people and things in our lives, and we will also encounter too many memories and feelings that are difficult to give up, and I wrote this song including its story, which is actually just a microcosm of our long life, death does not mean the end, but forgetting, it is really over." 」
In Tang Lei's heart, the painful nostalgia of a good friend is the most precious thing in the world, and it is also the basis for the infinite continuation of this feeling.
Although the girl's life is terminated, in Lei Jing's heart she has always been there, and their love will continue in each other's hearts, which is the true meaning of time and life.
I believe that this is also the appearance of love, goodness and beauty in Tang Lei's heart.
Even after twenty years, Lei Jing would visit the "Lilac Girl" every year, carrying a bouquet of her favorite lilac flowers in his hand.
In front of the modern tombstone, there is no condition to "bloom full of lilacs" as in the song, because it is not allowed to be planted, but the flowers that Lei Jing insists on sending can still bloom all over the mountains.
It is said that time is the best elixir to heal pain, but in the end, it depends on what kind of pain it is, and some pains will only accumulate deeper and deeper with the passage of time, such as Lei Jing's thoughts.