There are many reasons for marital discord, and external temptations and inner instability can lead to emotional breakdown. Temptations from the outside can be avoided, but inner thoughts are hard to change.
From Li Xiaolu to Hou Peichen, they were influenced by some of their mother's thoughts from a young age, and eventually their feelings were not smooth and their marriage was bumpy.
1. Li Xiaolu - Mother Zhang Weixin
The couples in the circle whose divorce is well known to the whole people are Wang Baoqiang and Ma Rong, and the other couple is Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang. Overnight, Jia Nailiang became a "big wronged species", "doing hair" became synonymous with Li Xiaolu, Ma Su became an "intermediary", and a rapper was banned.
Many people say that Li Xiaolu is a typical good card to play, and it is true. Her family is very good, her grandfather is the director of bayi studio, her father Li Danning is the director of bayi factory, and her mother is an actor and entrepreneur.
Born in an acting family, Li Xiaolu's starting point is very high, and she debuted with the Golden Horse Award for "Sky Bath", when she was only 17 years old. You know, even Zhang Ziyi was 34 years old to receive this honor.
But after "Struggle", Li Xiaolu never acted in a decent work again, but indulged in plastic surgery and moved his face, and his reputation collapsed a lot. Fortunately, she has a considerate husband and a lovely daughter, and the audience likes this "model family".
Later, everyone knows that Li Xiaolu empathized with a rapper and divorced Jia Nailiang. After the divorce, Li Xiaolu was "banned" by the mainstream, indulged in the Korean girl group all day, took her daughter Tianxin to learn to dance, and aspired to be a female love bean.
Many people say that Li Xiaolu is not blessed in the blessing, but in fact, from her marriage to divorce, it is inseparable from the influence of her mother Zhang Weixin.
Li Xiaolu debuted very early, rich in love history, and had a love affair with Li Chen, Han Geng, Pu Bajia, etc., and finally met Jia Nailiang. Jia Nailiang fell in love with Li Xiaolu at first sight, and in order to attract her attention, Jia Nailiang was full of tricks and said that he almost took his life.
It is said that Jia Nailiang chased Li Xiaolu for more than a year, and Li Xiaolu did not accept it, but Jia Nailiang's persistence touched Li Xiaolu's parents, especially his mother Zhang Weixin. Zhang Weixin believes that it is more important to love her daughter than her daughter. Under her persuasion, Li Xiaolu finally accepted Jia Nailiang.
Zhang Weixin is very doting on her daughter Li Xiaolu, and trained her daughter to be a child star very early, and later she stopped working in business, also in order to escort her daughter. Therefore, she does not care whether it is right or wrong, only to see whether the son-in-law is obedient to her daughter.
After Li Xiaolu's affair was exposed, Zhang Weixin did not reflect on the harm her daughter's move to the family, but instead accused Jia Nailiang of breaking his word and not giving Li Xiaolu five chances in the marriage as previously said. He also said that he supported his daughter's divorce and bravely pursued happiness.
Jia Nailiang did say this, but Li Xiaolu was at fault first, not only hurt Jia Nailiang, but also hurt his daughter Tianxin, and Zhang Weixin's heart was also too biased. This remark caused the dissatisfaction of many netizens, and then Zhang Weixin's "black history" was also pulled out.
First there were rumors that Zhang Weixin's career was done by a rich man surnamed Lin, and then Yang Erche Nam exposed that Zhang Weixin robbed her boyfriend 20 years ago, and also commented that Zhang Weixin and Li Xiaolu were "if there is a daughter, there must be a mother".
Li Danning and Zhang Weixin's husband and wife relationship is also very delicate, they are not divorced, but they do not live together, only every New Year's Festival will eat together under the guidance of Li Xiaolu, and the two rarely appear together in public.
The marriage of Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang was made by Zhang Weixin, but it can also be said that she lost to Zhang Weixin, because she cultivated her daughter to be too selfish and disregard the family's character.
2. Hou Peichen - Mother Lin Yueyun
To this day, Kunling and Jay Chou's three children are about to be born, and there are still people who regret that Hou Patzen did not go to the end with Jay Chou. Even Kunling himself "connotated" Hou Peichen from time to time to show his status as "Mrs. Zhou".
It is rumored that because Zhou's mother did not accept Hou Patzen, and Jay Chou listened to her mother's words, the two broke up. Why Zhou Mu was so dissatisfied with Hou Peichen, perhaps related to her mother Lin Yueyun.
Lin Yueyun is not an ordinary person, she pried away the husbands of two girlfriends, first pregnant with Guo Chunmei's husband Hou Shihong's child Hou Peichen, and then running to Cai Guizhao's husband Qiu Jiaxiong with a pregnant belly.
Lin Yueyun was very beautiful when she was young, talented and good-looking, and her personality was very pleasing, and the people who chased her were endless. But Lin Yueyun is reluctant to pay attention to them, and she has a crush on the famous producer and the husband of her girlfriend Guo Chunmei - Hou Shihong.
Hou Shihong is not a good person, he and Lin Yueyun hit it off, and when Lin Yueyun was pregnant with Hou Peichen, Guo Chunmei found out the feelings between the two. Hou Shihong proposed a divorce, but Guo Chunmei refused to agree, and said that he would never cheapen Lin Yueyun.
Lin Yueyun's means are clever, she does not cry or make trouble, nor does she force Hou Shihong to divorce, but makes Hou Shihong more attentive to her. However, Lin Yueyun is not indispensable to him, Hou Shihong took her to get acquainted with Qiu Jiaxiong and Cai Guizhao, and Lin Yueyun soon became a good girlfriend with Cai Guizhao.
Even if she was pregnant, Lin Yueyun was not less attractive, and she quickly attracted Qiu Jiaxiong. After she gave birth to Hou Peichen, Hou Shihong still did not successfully divorce, and Lin Yueyun gave up the Hou family and ran to Qiu Jiaxiong with Hou Peichen.
After Cai Guizhao knew, he directly choked Lin Yueyun: I will not divorce in this life, you will always be a woman outside. But she could not stand the double betrayal of her friend and husband, and finally did not ask about foreign affairs and began to worship the Buddha.
Although Lin Yueyun did not get the name of "Mrs. Qiu", she took Hou Peichen and Qiu Jiaxiong to live together for more than 30 years, Hou Peichen recognized Qiu Jiaxiong as his father, and Qiu Jiaxiong was responsible for the cost from childhood, and at Hou Peichen's wedding, Qiu Jiaxiong also attended the ceremony as a father.
After Hou Peichen got married, Qiu Jiaxiong's body was not as good as a day, in order not to drag Lin Yueyun, he distributed a huge amount of property to Lin Yueyun, and then returned to Cai Guizhao to ask her to take care of her, and as a result, Lin Yueyun did not even attend his funeral.
Hou Patzen and Huang Baijun met for three months and quickly lived together, the two were married for 10 years, gave birth to 2 children, but they have not been optimistic about the outside world, or because of Lin Yueyun.
When the three people were on the show, Lin Yueyun and her daughter staged a "robbery" drama, and both of them competed to give Huang Baijun a massage.
When the three of them went out shopping, Lin Yueyun and her son-in-law had ten fingers interlocked, but Hou Peichen walked outside, like an assistant carrying a bag for them.
To tell the truth, Lin Yueyun' love for Hou Peichen as a mother is beyond reproach, but it is really difficult to judge whether these things she did were good or bad for her daughter.
3. Guo Meimei - Mother Guo Dengfeng
Guo Meimei is not a star, but she is more famous than many stars. In 2011, Guo Meimei single-handedly "ruined" the credibility of the Red Cross and was sentenced to five years for gambling in 2014.
After being released from prison, Guo Meimei declared that she was with the original prison guards. Last year, she was sentenced to two and a half years for selling illegal diet pills. Seriously, to maintain such a high-intensity "entering the palace" frequency, Guo Meimei is also a talent.
Why her short 30 years of life can be so "wonderful", naturally it is indispensable to the influence of her mother Guo Dengfeng.
Guo Dengfeng came from an ordinary but pretentious background, and after marrying Guo Meimei's father, the couple did not hesitate to earn money. After her husband went to prison, Guo Dengfeng quickly divorced him and began to "cultivate" his daughter, hoping that her daughter could marry into the rich and ascend to heaven with the chicken dog.
In order to make his daughter famous, Guo Dengfeng also sent her to the North Film Training Class, hoping to be discovered by star scouts, but guo Meimei did not achieve it after graduation. Later, Guo Dengfeng introduced his daughter to Wang Jun, a regular visitor to his bathing room, that is, Guo Meimei's "dry father".
Although Wang Jun is a circle larger than Guo Meimei, he is generous and often sends out luxury car brand bags, and Guo Meimei's mother and daughter also like to show off their wealth in the car.
After Guo Meimei "fired", someone checked Wang Jun's finances and found that his money came from the wrong way, and finally Wang Jun was detained for investigation. After coming out, Wang Jun dumped Guo Meimei.
Later, Guo Meimei had two foreign boyfriends, and she was much stronger than Wang Jun in terms of appearance, but she had no money. This is not the "good son-in-law" that Guo Dengfeng is looking for, so Guo Meimei and her boyfriend opened a casino privately and were eventually arrested.
Guo Meimei was imprisoned at the age of 24, serving a 5-year sentence, and less than 2 years after her release, she was imprisoned again, and will serve two and a half years in prison, and at the age of 30, she was imprisoned twice, sad and lamentable.
Her feelings started from Wang Jun, not really sincere, after the first release from prison, she also found a "girlfriend", but the hype is greater than true love, she was really killed by her mother in this life.
From Li Xiaolu to Guo Meimei, they all confirmed the old saying: dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes, rat sons can punch holes, and the impact of family education on a person can really not be ignored.