Speaking of Deng Cuiwen, everyone is most impressed by her is the nine girls in "Yihai Haoqing". This role was also once called "the ceiling of the big heroine" by netizens.
The reason why she can create such a classic character is because Deng Cuiwen's private personality has many similarities with the Nine Girls. The nine girls in the play are flamboyant and domineering, and they are not inferior to men in all aspects, and they do not need the protection of others at all, and Deng Cuiwen in real life is also such a character!
Although he is more than 50 years old, he still does what he likes. A closer look at Deng Cuiwen's social platform will reveal that her daily life is particularly colorful and full of vitality, and she feels a sense of age in her body!
When asked, "Will you still be urged to marry now?" Deng Cuiwen responded domineeringly: "There should be no one who dares to urge me!" ”
Deng Cuiwen also said on the show: "I never care what others say, I will only be myself." Because I live for myself, why should I listen to what others say! ”
In the public perception, when a woman reaches the age when she should get married, she should get married and have children step by step. But for Deng Cuiwen, marriage is not the only option. She's more of a dessert, but not a necessity! If one person cannot be happy, then there is no ability to make one more person happy.
Especially for women, don't think about relying on others to bring you happiness, and pin your hopes on others. If that's the case, then you're going to be disappointed!
Yang Yuying also said the same thing in the show, Yang Yuying once said frankly in the show: "Love and marriage should be placed at the end of the order of life, when you are a teenager, love is everything." But at this age, love marriage is nothing more than a cherry on the cake, only an embellishment. ”
I have to say that Deng Cuiwen and Yang Yuying's concept of marriage is really too similar, maybe this is an independent woman in the new era! For them, they have a house, a car, and the ability to settle down, so whether they get married or not means much to them!
At the age of more than 50 years, when other women have already retired with grandchildren, Deng Cuiwen resolutely chose to drift north and started her own new life!
Deng Cuiwen said that she never envied others' children and grandchildren, but was very satisfied with her current situation. At this age, I can still work my career and travel in my spare time. Therefore, Deng Cuiwen did not feel lonely at all, but felt that there were still many things in her life that she wanted to do and try to learn and play.
Because she doesn't have to plan marriage and have children, her life is not limited by time. When others are chasing fame and fortune, she goes to study, and when she reaches the marriageable age, she begins to fight for her career, people retire with grandchildren, and Deng Cuiwen starts a new life. For her, age does not make her anxious, what kind of mentality she lives in, that is, how old!
As she grew older, Deng Cuiwen liked life more and more, no matter what she did, she was alone! Compared with loneliness, she is more afraid that there will be many restrictions when asking out people, after all, everyone may not necessarily feel the same!
Throughout the interview, one of the words Deng Cuiwen talked about the most was "boundaries". In her opinion, the boundaries of interaction between people are very important, so don't easily touch the bottom line of others. Deng Cuiwen revealed that she turns off her mobile phone every night before going to bed, just don't want her time alone to be disturbed by the outside world!
In fact, fans familiar with Deng Cuiwen should know that she suffered a financial crisis when she was 30 years old. All the money he had worked so hard to earn was gone, and he had to slowly repay the debt to the bank. In order to pay off her debts, Deng Cuiwen has worked as a radio DJ, an online DJ, a voice actor, a dancer, a lottery and so on!
In order to be able to compress her own costs to zero, Deng Cuiwen did not use agents and assistants, and went to various crews alone to talk about work. After listening to Deng Cuiwen's bumpy experience, many netizens have said: She is the Ninth Girl herself!
Speaking of her past bitter experience, Deng Cuiwen did not complain, but was very grateful. It is because of those previous experiences that her lines and voice control movements are better. Especially in "The Desire of the Golden Branch", Rufei's lines are really very charming!
Many people may think that she is "not hot to play with fire", but Deng Cuiwen does not mind at all.
In her view, acting is to devote herself to the role wholeheartedly, and not seeing the shadow of the actor himself is a successful role. And for those stars who don't play hot, it is really too big to put themselves too big, rather than go to reality shows and variety shows!
As Deng Cuiwen said: A person's life is nothing more than experiencing the scenery along the way, knowing yourself, and getting happiness and love satisfaction. There are several decades in life, and the most important thing is to live happily.