On the stage of the "China Dream Show" in December 2013, a shocking dance shocked all the audiences present. The performer of this dance is named Deng Xuefeng. Her opening performance quickly attracted everyone's attention. At the end of the song, she picked up the microphone and told her intentions.
Deng Xuefeng
She was an abandoned baby, but she was lucky enough to meet her adoptive father, who loved her. However, the adoptive father's health is not good, and recently his condition has become more and more serious. The family's financial conditions have always been very poor, and the family does not have the money to go to the hospital to do a medical examination for the adoptive father. She wanted to ask everyone to help her fulfill her wish and give her adoptive father a full body examination.
Deng Xuefeng is a child abandoned by his biological parents, but he is also a child held in the palm of his hand by his adoptive father Deng Heping. In order to provide her with reading, Deng Heping exhausted his body. She had nothing to repay, and could only study desperately. She was admitted to the medical school of Hunan Normal University and was guaranteed to graduate school with the first professional result.
I thought that I would be bitter, but Deng Heping's body was crushed by life. This unrelated father-daughter relationship touched everyone present. Deng Heping and Deng Xuefeng, what kind of touching and profound story do they have? Can Deng Xuefeng's wish come true? What about her now? I will tell you this family story.
Deng Xuefeng and his adoptive father
Abandoned babies are picked up and brought home, and father and daughter depend on each other for their lives
"Xue Feng, Daddy is only you." Daddy's mom and dad, don't want dad anymore. This painful sentence spoken by his father will be remembered by Deng Xuefeng for the rest of his life. It was one night after Grandpa Deng Xuefeng's death, and Her father held her and said the words. In her eyes, the father who was strong and mighty had such a fragile time.
Deng Xuefeng's father, named Deng Heping, lives in Zhong County, Hunan. He was an honest peasant man, but he could not marry his wife because the burden on the family was too heavy. Before meeting Deng Xuefeng, his parents, brother and sister were all Deng Heping had.
Yes, you read that right. Deng Heping and Deng Xuefeng, a father and daughter, met each other because of fate. It was the winter of 1990, and the bachelor Deng Heping rushed to the market to buy things. It was cold that day and the snow kept falling. Deng Heping's way home was also blocked by snow. There was no way, he could only wait for the snow to melt on the side of the road.
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Perhaps by God's deliberate arrangement, Deng Heping heard a faint baby crying. He carefully approached to see that there was a small baby lying in the corner of the road. The baby's clothes were not thick, and her little face was frozen purple. This look made Deng Heping feel terrible. He quickly picked up the child and warmed him with his own body temperature.
Apparently, the child was abandoned by his own parents. If he didn't pay attention, the child might freeze to death here. However, the situation at home really did not allow him to take a child back. Deng Heping's parents were ill, and his brother had problems with intelligence. The only healthy sister, there is no labor force. Deng Heping was the only support of this family, and he was about to be unable to hold on.
Finally, Deng Heping gritted his teeth and wrapped the baby girl tightly in his arms. Then one foot deep and one foot shallow, walking hard in the direction of home.
Deng Xuefeng and his adoptive father
When he got home, he silently took the little baby out. When the parents saw this, they also knew what Deng Heping meant. Deng Heping's mother said: "Saving a person's life is immeasurable." We understand you, let's raise this little baby. Deng Heping looked at his parents in surprise, not expecting their support.
He named this little baby girl Deng Xuefeng, which means phoenix born in the snow. Judging by his few cultural qualities, this name was already taken out by him. The family liked Deng Xuefeng very much and gave her a lot of love. For her life, Deng Heping did not hide it.
However, Deng Xuefeng felt that it didn't matter. Since she can become her father's daughter, it means that she and this family are related. Later, grandma died of illness, and grandpa hanged himself. My uncle's illness worsened, and my aunt left home. In this family, only she and her father are left to rely on each other.
Overcome inferiority complex and realize the dream of studying medicine
The children of the poor have long been in charge, and it is Deng Xuefeng who is talking about it. Dad had to go out to work, and the family's housework had to be done by Deng Xuefeng. Before the stove was high, she was able to stand on a small stool and cook for her father. Winter is so cold, Deng Xuefeng still has to wash clothes for himself and his father. One winter down, her hands would be frozen countless times.
Later, after going to school, Deng Xuefeng was even busier. She wants to share more of the housework for her father, and she also wants to study hard. She began to learn from the teacher to make time planning tables and use every minute of herself to the extreme. The result of such efforts is that Deng Xuefeng's results have always been among the best. She is the pride of the teacher, but also the pride of the father.
However, the more sensible Deng Xuefeng became, the more Deng Heping felt sorry for his daughter. He often said: "I blame my father for not being able to give you a good life." We don't have money to eat well, and we don't have money to buy you beautiful dresses. Be Daddy's daughter, really wronged you. ”
Deng Xuefeng (third from right)
Whenever this happened, Deng Xuefeng would always pat his father's head with his own small hand. She is not wronged, not at all wronged. Being a father's daughter is already her greatest blessing. If it wasn't for her father, she would have died in the ice and snow.
In the third year of junior high school, Deng Xuefeng received her father's first valuable gift. It was a pair of thick plush gloves that used Dad's half a month's salary. Deng Xuefeng was distressed about the electricity bill and always liked to read outside the house. In the cold of winter, her hand holding the book would always be frozen. Deng Heping looked at the pain, so he gritted his teeth and bought this pair of gloves.
Deng Xuefeng loved it and loved the gloves more than himself. She was reluctant to wear more, and only when it was too cold to take it out and wear it. That pair of gloves even accompanied her to college. For her, the glove is the embodiment of deep paternal love.
Deng Xuefeng
The well-behaved Deng Xuefeng was admitted to the best high school in the county. However, after entering high school, she developed an inferiority complex that she had never had before. The students here are all excellent, and there are people who are stronger than themselves. And they also have beautiful and rich stationery, well-informed. But for myself, because my family was poor, I had never seen anything. The most basic food and clothing, she can only save again and again.
Over time, Deng Xuefeng became a little lonely. She rarely interacts with her teachers and classmates, and her grades have declined. Fortunately, she is a smart child, and when she realizes that something is wrong, she adjusts her situation in time. She said to herself, "Now is not the time to think about it, the only task should be to read well." Only when you read it out, can you not feel inferior in the future. Only by finding a good job can Dad not work so hard. ”
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In 2010, Deng Xuefeng was in his third year of high school. Before the college entrance examination, Deng Heping asked her what major she wanted to take.
"I've thought for a long time that I want to study medicine. As for the school, I haven't thought about it yet. ”
"Studying medicine? I heard that studying medicine is very hard, why do you want to study medicine? ”
"Because of Daddy, because of Grandma, because of Uncle." Dad has been in poor health all these years, and you can't hide from me. Grandma, she also left us because she was sick. My uncle's illness has not improved. If I do medicine well, I can solve these problems. At the very least, I can save a lot of families on the verge of breaking up. For me, it's a very meaningful thing. ”
After thinking about it, Deng Xuefeng was admitted to the medical school of Hunan Normal University. After entering the university, she continued to work hard as ever.
Hunan Normal University
Professional first research, enthusiastic public welfare undertakings
Deng Xuefeng's academic performance has always been very good, and the position of professional first is sitting firmly. Her mentor also appreciated her and allowed her to join important subject groups to learn from her experience. To study medicine, you have to study for five years, and in these five years, Deng Xuefeng has never slackened off for a moment. Every year on the list of national inspirational scholarships, there is Deng Xuefeng's name. The school also opened a green channel for her outstanding student, waiving her tuition fees. With her excellent grades, she relieved her father of the burden.
Not only that, Deng Xuefeng has a lot of honors on him. She is an excellent student, an excellent member of the Communist Youth League, an excellent cadre, a pacesetter in learning... After graduating, she also received the title of outstanding college graduate.
Deng Xuefeng's whereabouts after graduation are also clear. She was successfully guaranteed to be a graduate student with the first professional result and will go to Chongqing Medical University to pursue a master's degree in the Department of Endocrinology. She was the most educated person in Daddy's village, and she finally became Daddy's pride.
Deng Xuefeng (first from left)
During graduate school, Deng Xuefeng began to pay attention to public welfare undertakings. Although his life is difficult, he only has 120 yuan a month in living expenses. But Deng Xuefeng still wanted to do his best to help more and more difficult people. She joined the school's volunteer service team and became a vice captain.
As long as he has time, Deng Xuefeng will go to volunteer teaching. Using her knowledge to bring hope to the children made her clearly feel her own value. Wherever there are difficulties, she will also be the first to participate in the assistance operation. Every time Dad knew she was involved in disaster relief, he was very worried about her safety.
For Deng Xuefeng at this time, the academic performance is not all. She clearly understood the meaning of the four words of benevolence of the healer. To be a qualified doctor, you must first become a kind person. That's why she's enthusiastic about public welfare, so she's going to be unwavering in the direction she believes.
Deng Xuefeng
Of course, she hadn't forgotten about raising a family. She felt that she had grown up and had a responsibility to support her family with her father. So she will use all her free time to work part-time, and she will send most of her part-time salary home. Every time dad asked her to take care of herself, but she was still the same.
Classmates said that Deng Xuefeng's graduate school career was not exciting enough. She didn't enjoy life and didn't appreciate more of the campus. She has so much time to schedule herself that her life feels incredibly boring. But Deng Xuefeng felt that her life was full and meaningful now.
The father concealed his illness and applied for withdrawal from school for care
2012 was a nightmare year for Deng Xuefeng. At the end of the year, Deng Heping was exhausted. At first, Deng Heping only thought that he was too tired and his physical fitness declined, and he did not pay attention to it. He thought, just carry it. After all, going to the doctor costs a lot of money. Now that Deng Xuefeng is studying and asking for money, he can't spend money at home.
He already had an old disease of bronchitis, and recently he was probably too tired to get sicker. When he was sick, Deng Heping also received a call from Deng Xuefeng. Through the earpiece, Deng Xuefeng seemed to sense that something was wrong with Deng Heping. But before she could ask carefully, Deng Heping mixed up. With such a fork, Deng Xuefeng forgot to ask questions.
Deng Heping had been hiding from Deng Xuefeng like this until he finally couldn't hide it. On that day, Deng Heping fainted on the construction site and was taken to the hospital. Deng Xuefeng, who received the notification call, knew that his father was ill. She hurried home and found her father in the hospital room with red eyes.
"How did your child come back?" Are things busy at school? I'm not a big deal, you hurry back. ”
"It's not a big deal? You're all in the hospital, how big is this! Why didn't you tell me that Dad didn't think I was still responsible for taking care of you? ”
"You're a college student with so many things to do. I'm an old man who knows how to take care of myself. You don't need you here, you hurry up and give me back." ”
"No, I've already taken a good leave of absence from my teacher. After talking to the doctor later, I decided what to do next. ”
The doctor told Deng Xuefeng that Deng Heping's physical condition was not optimistic. At the thought that he might miss the precious time spent with his father, Deng Xuefeng was heartbroken. She hid from her father and handed the school a withdrawal application. The family situation is special, and the school has no reason not to approve. However, Deng Heping was angry and half dead by his daughter's act of cutting first and then playing later.
Deng Xuefeng spent a whole year caring for her adoptive father. At first, Deng Heping did not lie to his daughter. He was still angry, and his daughter was angry with himself. The angry daughter dares to do such a thing as dropping out of school without consulting with herself, and the angry daughter has become a burden to her daughter.
Deng Xuefeng sensed his father's emotions and said to him: "A person's emotions will directly affect his physical condition. Dad, if you're upset about the time I spend on you, keep you more optimistic. Only when the mood is good, the body will be good. Your health is good, and my decision to withdraw from school is valuable. ”
"I said I studied medicine for you. If you can't even take care of you, then what's the point of me studying hard at school? ”
Deng Heping said that he could not be a daughter with sharp teeth, so he had to compromise. However, he also felt that his daughter was right, and he should actively cooperate with his physical and mental state.
The biggest problem in front of them now is the problem of money. The conditions at home are not good, and a patient is more like a bottomless pit. Every day, they have to spend money in the hospital. Deng Heping was admitted to the hospital and could no longer afford to earn money at home. He was very anxious, and Deng Xuefeng followed him anxiously.
With the help of the school, Deng Xuefeng contacted the column group of the "China Dream Show". Her conditions were perfect, and she quickly passed the screening of the column group.
On the day of the recording, she was nervous. With red eyes on the microphone, she told her father and herself to her audience friends and witnesses. In the end, she only said: "My greatest wish is that my father can do a full-body physical examination." ”
All of you present were moved. With 300 votes unanimously passed, Deng Xuefeng's wish could be realized. The sponsoring enterprise donated 100,000 yuan, and the witness officer Hong Jiantao personally donated 10,000 yuan. There were also charity funds in the follow-up, and Deng Xuefeng did not accept them. Because for her, the kindness released by everyone is enough.
Implement the benevolence of doctors and realize self-worth
With the help of all sectors of society, Deng Heping was given a chance to have a full body examination. His illness was also treated relatively thoroughly. For everyone's help, Deng Xuefeng ming sensed five. She could only swear to herself in her heart that she must pass on everyone's love for her.
Later, Deng Xuefeng became an endocrinologist at Shunde Hospital of Southern Medical University. She is an attentive person who is always the first to discover the real needs of patients. At the same time, she has no shortage of humanistic care. She can always be sensitive to the emotions of patients and families. While exporting professional skills, she is also exporting her love.
Once, the endocrinology department received a patient. The patient is an elderly man who lives alone. She has no children and her living conditions are not good. She had been ill for a long time and had been dragging herself without coming to the hospital. Now the neighbors found the problem and forcibly sent it to the hospital. Even after enduring the pain of illness, the old man was still begging the doctor to let her go back. At the end of the day, the elderly can't afford medical bills.
The old man's experience made Deng Xuefeng think of his father. Empathizing with the weight of the word, it really weighs. She paid out of her own pocket and solved the problem of the first hospitalization fee for the elderly. Subsequently, she also applied for a special medical fund for the department of endocrinology for the elderly. The old man almost knelt down to her in gratitude, and she quickly picked up the old man and told her that it was what she should have done.
In addition to the fixed work of the hospital, Deng Xuefeng is also actively involved in the public welfare undertaking of medical assistance. She signed up for the Charity Medical Team to provide voluntary medical care to the elderly in the community. When doing these things, Deng Xuefeng truly felt his own value.
She received a lot of love from her father, and she grew into a talent in love. Now, she is willing to share the energy of this love. She hopes that more people can be surrounded by love and can feel the hope and power of love.
epilogue
A father and daughter who are not related by blood have composed the most touching melody of family affection in the world. Perhaps it was destined by heaven that Deng Xuefeng should become deng Heping's daughter. Her arrival added more color to Deng Heping's lonely life. Deng Heping also used selfless love to water Deng Xuefeng's growth along the way. Because of her father, she stood in the direction of her life. For the sake of her father, she was willing to leave school to accompany her. The most simple wish for a full-body physical examination tells the most sincere feelings of the Father and Daughter of the Deng family.
Not all family ties need the pull of blood relations. Heart-to-heart closeness is the real secret to maintaining feelings. Even if there is no blood relationship, warm getting along can make people feel the power of family affection. And this strength can support a person to keep moving forward. Lucky people use childhood to heal a lifetime. Because he got enough love, he had enough courage to fight against all the wind, frost, snow and rain.