"Emotional intelligence" is definitely a hot word that we hang on our lips. A person who is praised for his "high emotional intelligence" is quite affirmative. Tonight, I will share some textbook high emotional intelligence performances to see how people with high emotional intelligence exude personality charm, and at the same time use it as self-examination, "learning the scriptures", and cultivating.
01 There is a high emotional intelligence,
Easily solve the "problem of the century" ↓↓
@Purple cabbage
The husband asked the daughter, do you prefer dad or mom? The daughter said to her father, I like him more!
The husband asked why, and the daughter replied, because dad likes mom!
There seems to be no more standard answer, my daughter is 2 years old.
02 There is a high emotional intelligence,
Start with the clever "round field" -
@One by one
Yesterday, two colleagues collided.
As soon as I entered the door, a colleague quipped, "Hey, you two wear the same clothes, it's hard to say..." Before I finished speaking, I swallowed it myself, because the shirt was a man and a woman, married, and this joke was very inappropriate.
Just when everyone was embarrassed, another colleague spoke, "Is it difficult for the boss to buy tooling for everyone, I have to ask him, why don't you let me try it first!" ”
03 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Don't blame anything, point it out in good faith.
@Luo Tian Da Pickle
I went to the breakfast shop in front of the school with my table to buy soy milk, because we had been talking, forgot to pay, and at the moment of carrying the soy milk, the uncle who sold the rice said, "Have I ever asked you for money?" "We both found out that we hadn't paid yet, so we immediately paid for it. Even a small thing can see the uncle's high emotional intelligence and avoid our embarrassment.
04 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Win "Pretty".
@My Computer
A university debate tournament, the opposite side of the girl, our side of a group of big masters, before the start of the game, the host asked our captain, do you have the confidence to beat the opposite side?
Saying "no" is certainly not OK, our captain said, "There must be, because in general wisdom and beauty cannot coexist, otherwise heaven will be too unfair to us ordinary people." ”
05 There is a high emotional intelligence,
Don't say"You don't even know this".
@Punch
Since I was a child, I have hated to ask others questions, because some of my classmates have disliked "you don't even know this", leaving me to go away is not to sit or listen to the other party to finish a problem.
Later, I was particularly touched to see this conversation, and I was really relieved!
"My husband and I have different backgrounds in education, the amount of knowledge is very different, he knows so much more than I know, and I always marvel: 'You are so good, even this is known.'" He said, 'I just knew it a little earlier than you, and now you don't know either.' ’”
"People who have a much denser density of knowledge and information than you are willing to lean down and communicate with you, respect you, encourage you, guide you, this is gentleness." 」 Really, hopefully the gentle "leaning over" is a little more, a little more.
06 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Do not add to the blockage, add "sweetness".
@ Count limes
A colleague said, "Why aren't all the strawberries I bought sweet?" I was just about to blurt out "Bad character," and another colleague said, "Because your life is sweet enough."
07 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Don't fight evil.
Someone asked Yu Guangzhong, "So-and-so looks for your stubble on different occasions every day, and you never respond, why?" ”
Yu Guangzhong replied, "He scolded me every day, indicating that his life could not be without me." And I never take care of it, proving that my life can be without him."
08 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Be courteous to them, and reciprocate them.
@GERRIT
Say something small.
There is a rule in the army that when passing by the sentry, the sentry should salute the officer, and the officer needs to return the salute.
One day, it was our class's turn to stand guard. A division commander, riding a bicycle, with a bag hanging from the handlebars. When I passed the guard post, I saluted him, and he immediately jumped off the bicycle, which was planted at one end because the bag was too heavy, and he supported the bicycle with difficulty with one hand, and the other hand followed the salute.
At that time, I was very touched, I have seen many newly graduated cadets who do not return the salute, I have seen many company commanders and deputy company commanders who are too lazy to return the salute, and in him, what I see is respect for people. It must not be an accident that this division commander can become a division commander.
09 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Take your feelings to heart.
@ Semi-salted duck eggs
When I was a child, my family was poor, so I would only know how to bury my head in reading, and I never mind eating and wearing. For three years of junior high school, I wore a school uniform, and my pants were torn and then mended, and at that time, I was long, and my pants were too short to be unwanted.
Once, during the summer vacation, I went to play at the same table, stayed overnight, and then changed my clothes and pants, and my mother at the same table took them to wash. At noon the next day, the table mate said he wanted to buy clothes, and then his dad drove us around the mall and bought two pairs of pants. When I came home in the evening, the same table took out two pairs of pants and said, "This one seems to be too long, and you can't return it, or you can wear it." His mother also said next to him, "Yes, you are tall, and you should fit well in your clothes." "Then I took my pants home. Those were the two new pairs of pants I had "only two" in my three years of junior high school.
Years later, I learned that they were there to take care of my feelings...
10 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Turn "trivial" into poetry and romance.
This is a sweet story shared by Shan Shannnn, a reader of Night Reading:
Mom said that she had white hair, and asked her father to help her pull out all her white hair, but dad said, "White hair can't be pulled out, this is called white head and old age." ”
11 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Serious reply, not perfunctory.
@Xiao D° did you memorize the word today?
I myself feel that the small details of seriously replying to other people's messages also show a person's emotional intelligence. If you missed it or were busy at the time, you can apologize afterwards. Because only after being ignored and perfunctory can you realize more and more how warm those who are willing to respond to you sincerely and stop for you are. To put it bluntly, seriously replying to a message is also taking one thing and one person seriously.
12 There is a kind of high emotional intelligence called,
Get along with people, regardless of affinity, treat each other with courtesy.
@Si Si Xiao Lu
In fact, to be honest, the attitude towards the family can better see the true character of a person. Some people are outside, behaving left and right, and the etiquette is in place, but as soon as they push open the door, they can't even talk to their families well.
Politeness to outsiders may only be a kind of smoothness and sophistication in the world. Because I am not familiar with it, I dare not do it casually; because I am not close, my heart is fortified. After eliminating the sense of distance, whether you respect the people who are close to you, especially the family members who get along day and night, whether you are pleasant, that is to see the "true face" of a person.
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