One day in 1991, Dao Lang had just become a father and was still immersed in the joy of being a father.
At this time, his wife Yang Na was planning to leave.
40 days after giving birth to her daughter, Yang Na did not bring anything and quietly left home.
Before leaving, he left a 24-word note: "I'm sorry, you can't give me the life I want." I'm gone, don't look for me, you won't find it either. ”
Dao Lang did not realize the seriousness of the matter, he thought that his wife might have something, so he left.
But what he didn't expect was that he hadn't found Yang Na for three months.
When I arrived at Yang Na's unit, I learned that she had already gone through the formalities of leaving her job.
Later, Yang Na called to inform Dao Lang that she had sued for divorce and hoped that Dao Lang could cooperate.
Dao Lang knew that it turned out that Yang Na had really decided to leave him.
Dao Lang had two marriages, the first marriage was more than thirty years ago, Dao Lang met Yang Na.
When he was young, Dao Lang also had a hard time, when he had nothing but dreams and youth.
He likes to sing, but the road to music is not easy, and the family does not have so much money to support him.
In order to be able to sing, Dao Lang went out to work, and he went to work as a waiter in a restaurant, washing dishes, and moving things.
He did all dirty work, and the salary was not very much, but he chose to insist on it in order to dream.
In addition to working in restaurants, he also works as a waiter in a dance hall.
At that time, Dao Lang was only sixteen years old, full of enthusiasm, and he was learning to sing while working as a waiter in a dance hall.
Although his singing skills have not improved significantly, he has also learned many instruments.
There were many young people like him in the dance hall, who had dreamed of fighting swords to go to the end of the world and see the prosperity of the world.
Dao Lang and his friends hit it off, and everyone immediately formed a small band.
The band often performs small performances, but because it is not very famous, it does not have an audience.
No audience meant no source of income, and soon the band disbanded.
When the band was first formed, the members dreamed of having a concert and dreaming of becoming popular.
But how easy is it to be a band?
The ideal is very full, the reality is very bone, and the microphone and instrument in the hand are not enough to support their daily expenses.
Dao Lang's first attempt failed, but he gained love.
After parting ways with the band members, he met his first wife, Yang Na.
Yang Na and Dao Lang met in the dance hall, and although Yang Na was divorced, she was as beautiful as a flower.
She is tall and slender, beautiful and delicate in appearance, and has many suitors.
Dao Lang was not the most handsome or the richest among her many suitors, but he was the most sincere.
At that time she had just experienced a failed marriage and had lost faith in both love and marriage.
So I often go to the dance hall to buy drunk, so as to numb myself.
Dao Lang's appearance was like a warm ray of sunlight, shining into the most gloomy place in Yang Na's heart.
Probably because he likes music, Dao Lang has a very romantic cell.
He would take Yang Na with him to see the stars, and he would also go hiking together at night, waiting for the sunrise to fall.
This life of wind and snow makes Yang Na feel warm, so the feelings of the two are also natural.
However, Daolang's father and mother did not support the relationship, and even wanted to break up the two people.
In those days, people's thinking was very feudal and conservative.
For Dao Lang's parents, their son is still a young man, how can he marry a second-married woman?
Later, Yang Na became pregnant, and Dao Lang's parents saw that the raw rice had been cooked to maturity, so they chose to accept it.
Soon Dao Lang and Yang Na married, Dao Lang immersed in joy, fantasizing about a happy life with his wife.
At first, Yang Na was also very happy, but then she began to be anxious.
Yang Na lived a free life before marriage, and she was more generous in spending money.
But marriage is different from love, and there are many places where you need to spend money after marriage.
After marriage, there is only chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, but love can be wind and snow.
Gradually, Yang Na began to get tired of such a life.
At that time, Dao Lang did not have much money, and the two people's lives were still relatively poor.
Coupled with the fact that Yang Na was pregnant and had no way to go to work, the family's income was not high, and she had the idea of leaving.
In the later stages of pregnancy, Yang Na became more and more worried and anxious, but the careless Daolang did not realize it.
Yang Na gave birth to a lovely daughter for Dao Lang, and Dao Lang was very happy and excited.
For him, new life means a fresh beginning, and he is full of energy.
But Yang Na was secretly planning one thing - running away from home.
Forty days after giving birth to her daughter, Yang Na finally put into action, and she chose not to say goodbye.
Yang Na didn't take anything away, even the daughter she had just given birth to, she could leave behind.
She only left a note telling Daolang that he couldn't give him what he wanted, and hoped that Daolang wouldn't go to her.
Poor couples mourn, no money is difficult to walk, even if they love before marriage.
The chores after marriage will also consume all these loves.
Later, Dao Lang learned that Yang Na was disgusted that she had no money and could not give her the life she wanted.
In order to leave Daolang, Yang Na even directly sued for divorce, and Daolang had to agree.
The marriage did not last long, there was no way, Dao Lang had to raise his daughter alone.
After Yang Na left, Dao Lang was very depressed for a long time.
First, he had feelings for Yang Na, and he was naturally very sad in the face of his wife's abandonment.
Second, as a man, he was rejected because he had no money, and his self-esteem was frustrated.
In order to be able to break through the world, he traveled to more than ten cities and wandered to various places.
He also wrote many songs during this period, such as the song "Punishment for Impulse".
In 1994, he finally met his second wife, Zhu Mei.
Unlike Yang Na, who hates poverty and loves the rich, Zhu Mei is a down-to-earth and stable woman.
She and Dao Lang are very fond of music, and the two are lovers, confidants and fellow travelers.
Zhu Mei and Dao Lang meet in a tavern, and the two wandering singers see each other as they were.
Dao Lang once confessed that he had a failed marriage and a daughter.
He said he was a failed man who couldn't make a lot of money and couldn't keep his wife.
But Jumei comforted him, and did not mind that he had divorced and had a child.
After the two people got married, Dao lang's career still did not develop.
Zhu Mei has been silently supporting him, telling him not to give up on his dreams.
After the birth of her second daughter, Zhu Mei gave up her career and concentrated on teaching her husband and children at home.
For the eldest daughter born to Daolang and his ex-wife, Zhu Mei regarded it as her own.
Zhu Mei sacrificed a lot for the family, and Dao Lang saw it in his eyes and remembered it in his heart.
Because there is no money, two people marry naked, without a car or a house.
And Dao Lang lost a lot of money because he insisted on releasing an album.
No one wanted to buy his albums at all, and he ended up selling just over two thousand copies with no revenue at all.
But even so, Dao Lang was still not discouraged.
He silently vowed that he must get ahead and let his wife and daughter live a good life.
Perhaps it was his persistence that finally touched the heavens, and in 2002, Dao Lang's "The First Snow of 2002" was released.
As soon as the song was launched, it became popular, and his vicissitudes of singing echoed in the streets and alleys.
Looking back on the experience of writing this song, Dao Lang also felt incredible.
He was walking down the street when he heard a passerby say, "The first snow of 2002 is coming."
Dao Lang was very emotional, remembering his experience for so many years.
Inspired by the snow, he created this song.
Since then, Dao Lang has launched "West Sea Love Song" and "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing" as if he had opened the second vein of Ren Dou.
Dao Lang's voice is vicissitudes, there is a feeling of weathering, and many people who work hard for life are very resonant.
Although his songs are simple, they sing the most authentic state of life.
After becoming popular, he was finally able to give his wife and daughter a good life.
There are rumors that Yang Na secretly came back to find Daolang after learning that Daolang became popular, but she was refused.
Zhu Mei accompanied Dao Lang for so many years, watching him go from being nameless to becoming popular all over the country.
Dao Lang not only has love for his wife, but also gratitude, how can he still forgive Yang Na?
After Dao Lang became popular, he had countless fans, and he opened a concert, and the venue was full.
For Dao Lang, his dream has come true, so in 2012, he slowly faded out of the circle.
Although Dao Lang rarely releases new songs, his old songs are classics and are often taken out by listeners to reminisce.
And he and Zhu Mei did their best to raise their two daughters and watch them go to school and start a family.
In their spare time, the two of them often walked and traveled together, and also attended various events and banquets together.
Zhu Mei was a down-to-earth woman, and she did not abandon him because of Daolang's poverty.
Therefore, Dao lang is grateful for her efforts and uses the rest of his life to accompany her.
And Yang Na? He left a 24-character note and left without a word.
After so many years, even my daughter did not ask, how cruel is it?
Her note even unveiled the fig leaf of marriage, making Daolang miserable.
Husband and wife were originally the same forest birds, and they flew separately in the face of great trouble. For Yang Na's departure, we can understand.
It is normal for a woman who is married and has children and is not willing to live a poor life.
But emotionally, many people can't accept her behavior.
Even after daolang developed, she still wanted to find daolang to compound, which was even more complained about by netizens.
Marriage is not a child's play, if you just choose to get married with a hot head, then this marriage cannot last long.
There is a saying in "Thirty Only" that is very classic, marriage is like a haven, but everyone wants to avoid the wind, who is the harbor?
Yang Na can't bear the suffering of life and chooses to leave, maybe this is human nature.