What is the biggest headache for parents? There is no doubt that it is impossible to sit still. Some children seem to be naturally active, energetic, bouncing around at home, playing around at school, have no characterization, don't like to read, and don't have a little concentration in doing things.
Xi Xi is such a noisy child, the kindergarten teacher has been looking for Xi Xi's mother several times, saying that Xi Xi always runs around during class, disturbs other children in class, and interrupts the teacher's words without moving, which seems very rude.
Originally, Xi Xi's mother thought that Xi Xi was still young and liked to make trouble was understandable. But I can't stand the teacher looking for myself at both ends for three days, and the other children can sit still, so why can't XiXi sit still?
Xixi's mother specially consulted her classmates who do early childhood education, and only then did she know that the reason why the child could not sit still was because the child did not have a good concentration. Because children's concentration needs to be cultivated, and three to four years old, it is a good time to cultivate children's concentration.
Through the above figure we can see that the child at the age of two, has appeared conscious concentration, will be attracted to their own interest in things, this time the child's concentration time is relatively short, only a few minutes, but with the increase of the child's age, the child enhances the control of their own ability to act, the time to do things will be longer and longer.
How can we improve your child's concentration and make your child sit still? Xixi's mother's classmates gave her a good suggestion, that is, to improve the child's concentration by making games.
Because every child likes to play games, it can make children feel happy and let children's concentration be exercised, which is really a good way.
So what do you need to pay attention to to improve your child's concentration?
First of all, pay attention to the length of time and consider the child's ability to accept
After all, kindergarten children are only a few years old, their own self-control ability is very weak, need the guidance of our parents, if we only want to cultivate the child's concentration, ignore the child's ability to accept, then it is likely to be counterproductive.
Therefore, when we train our children in concentration, we must start from a short time to let the children have a process of adaptation. It is impossible for us to ask a child to sit quietly for half an hour at the outset. This is a kind of torture for naughty children.
We parents must arrange the length of the game time according to their children's situation.
Second, step by step, to give the child a process of growth
We should also make a concentration development plan for the child to praise the child and stimulate the child's enthusiasm.
For example, in the first week, we can arrange for children to play concentration games for ten minutes a day, the second week can be increased to fifteen minutes, and the third week can be increased to twenty minutes. Step by step, not only will not make the child disgusted, but will stimulate the child's initiative and let the child develop a good habit.
At the same time, this is also a way to cultivate the child's ability to restrain his self-behavior. Because only if children can restrain their own behavior, it can be more conducive to the cultivation of concentration. The encouragement of our parents can enhance children's self-confidence.
Again, choose the games that your child likes to boost your child's interest
Because Xixi's mother's classmates recommended a set of game books suitable for kindergarten children, that is, "Concentration Brain Magic Game Book".
This is a set of game books specially designed for the psychological characteristics and cognitive characteristics of kindergarten children, with rich games, effective training for children, so that children can improve their concentration and develop brain potential in happiness.
Speaking of the advantages of this set of books, the most obvious are three points:
The first advantage: a large folio, which helps to alleviate the child's visual fatigue
This set of game books belongs to the design of large folios, taking into account the child's young age and the development of vision. Let the child protect the child's eyes while playing the game, I have to say that this is a very intimate design.
The second advantage: the richness of the content, to meet the needs of children in many aspects
This set of "Concentration Brain Magic Game Book", a set of four books, is divided into four themes: comprehensive training camp, intelligent fun hide-and-seek, wisdom to break into the big maze, fun to find different
From these four themes, we can read the richness of the content of the book design, and it is completely in line with the curiosity and winning psychology of kindergarten children, so as to stimulate the initiative and enthusiasm of children.
The third advantage: the interestingness of the content, attracting children's interest, and improving children's concentration
Let's take a look at some of the interesting games in this magical game book.
This game to find different, the child to find the difference between the two pictures through their own observation. And in this process of searching, the child needs to carefully observe, discern, and single-mindedly, is this not a game to cultivate the child's concentration?
This map of the spaceship's return, in this game, the child incarnates as an astronaut, through his own continuous attempts, to find a route for the spaceship to return to Earth. Look at this intricate line, and the child will have to exclude them one by one until they find the right route. This also requires the child to observe quietly, eliminate, and eventually help the spacecraft return to Earth. This is also the cultivation of children's concentration.
This is a game in which the police catch the thief, in this game, the child becomes the mighty police uncle, to catch the thief, how to avoid the vehicle, pedestrians, catch the thief? Hurry up and let your child do it.
Aren't these games all fun? It's also all the game content that children like. It's amazing to let your child play games in a way that feels happy and improve their concentration!
Finally, let's take a look at the impact of children's concentration on children's life, from the following figure we can see that children's concentration as the most basic ability, determines the child's memory, creativity, reading ability and learning efficiency. Because only children with strong concentration can have good memory, creativity and reading ability, thereby improving their learning efficiency.
The famous educationalist Ushinsky once said that concentration is a door through which everything from the outside world enters the soul. This sentence speaks of the importance of concentration for children, and highlights the impact of concentration on children's lives.
4 Books of Mindfulness Magic Game Book ¥79 to buy
If you also want to cultivate your child's concentration, you may wish to also prepare a set of "Concentration Brain Magic Game Book" for your child. This set of game books, a set of four books, the activity price of 79 yuan, you can open the door of children's concentration.
Written in the end: the kindergarten period is a good time to cultivate children's concentration, we parents must use this period to guide children well and lay a good foundation for children's future learning. After all, time is fleeting, and no one is a teenager anymore.