Tao Hong's most profound impression comes from what Tao Hong said in an interview with Nandu Entertainment after Xu Zheng was exposed to N suspected derailments.
Tao Hong said: "Physical things, that is not called a thing, formal loyalty and inner loyalty are two different things." ”
Tao Hong's open-mindedness about marital fidelity is jaw-dropping, and such remarks have been made more than once.
When participating in the "Venus Show", Venus asked her, Xu Zheng has become a famous director, what if there is a life poker director? Tao Hongyun said lightly, that proves that he has a good vision.
It seems that Tao Hong doesn't care at all, in fact, does she really not care? not necessarily.
In 2014, Tao Hong said to reporters at the meeting of "Forgot to Understand You": "My sense of security is all based on my happiness and success. ”
In 2019, Tao Hong became popular with "Little Joy", and fans shouted to Xu Zheng that he was not allowed to privatize Tao Hong.
In the face of the crusade of fans, Xu Zhenggao sugar confessed: "Tao Hong is everyone's Tao Hong, and I am Tao Hong's private property." And Tao Hong didn't say a word about it, not at all like the soul mate's reaction.
A careful review of the marriage between the two Xiaohe found that not only is what the two said worthy of in-depth investigation, but even Tao Hong, who seems to lack nothing, has hitched a ride on Zhang Ting's FF car in the past two years, and the root cause is also in their marriage.
And in the midst of all this, it seems that Tao Hong can't escape the fate.
01
In 1972, Tao Hong was born into an enviable family of intellectuals.
His father was a senior engineer, and his mother worked in the library, so he was not rich and noble, but his life was full of books.
Tao Hong inherited her father's wisdom and wisdom, coupled with the influence of the family environment, she has always been at the top of the school, and when she graduated from primary school, she also took the first place in the class.
Parents have always hoped that their daughter can inherit her mantle and become a respected intellectual talent in the future, but unfortunately, everyone's life will not move forward according to pre-planning and without deviation.
In 1983, the Beijing Synchronized Swimming Team had just been established, and coach Sorlia went to various schools to select athletes, and in this way, 11-year-old Tao Hong was taken in by the coach.
Solia felt that Tao Hong's two eyes were smiling and bent, especially with aura, and her heart wanted to include Tao Hong under her command.
Tao Hong heard that if she learned to swim in a pattern, she could dance in the water every day, and she could not hide her joy, but her parents did not agree.
Especially Tao Hong's mother, she hopes that her daughter can be admitted to college and resolutely opposes Tao Hong to become an athlete.
In the end, Coach Solia assured Tao Hong's mother that she would be able to let Tao Hong go to college in the future, because after winning the medal as an athlete, she could directly enter the sports school, and even did not have to participate in the exam, and Tao Hong's mother reluctantly agreed to her daughter to learn synchronized swimming.
Synchronized swimming is known as "water ballet", athletes must not only be able to swim, but also do a variety of beautiful dance moves while swimming, strength, skill and a lot of practice are indispensable.
In the face of high-intensity training, Tao Hong has never shouted a bitter cry and a tired sentence, soaking in water for more than 6 hours a day, diligently following the coach to learn.
In the first Spring Festival of joining the Flower Tour Team, the other friends all went home for the New Year, and only Tao Hong insisted on staying in the training hall.
This kind of hard training has risen another step after 6 years.
At that time, Tao Hong's coach was ready to go abroad, and the flower tour team changed to a new coach, and the new coach felt that Tao Hong had no talent and that it was a waste of time to continue practicing.
After the coach expressed her ideas, she hoped that Tao Hong would retreat from the difficulty, but Tao Hong was stimulated to have a stronger fighting force, others practiced for 6 hours a day, wasn't he talented, then practiced for 12 hours, diligent can make up for it.
Quite like the style of "The Legend of the Archery Hero", Guo Jing "can't fight, step up".
In the end, through his own lifeless hard training, Tao Hongzhen gradually rose in the flower tour team, and even became the athlete of the national team who held his breath in the water for the longest time, with the highest record of 3 minutes and 40 seconds.
With the self-discipline of the heavens, Tao Hong became the captain of the flower tour, and also won the sixth place in the 1991 World Championships, and won the collective championship twice in the collective swimming of the 1992 China National Championships and the 7th China National Games in 1993.
As the old saying goes, three years old looks at seven years old, Tao Hong's performance in the flower tour has proved that she is not a person who gives up lightly, no matter what difficulties and setbacks she encounters, she will definitely grit her teeth and stumble to the end.
Such a personality also makes her transformation path much smoother, but unfortunately it is not a good sign in marriage.
02
In 1993, Jiang Wen was preparing to shoot "Sunny Day", the female second Yu Beibei was a girl who could swim, and Jiang Wen was reminded by others to go down the national synchronized swimming team casting.
Seeing Tao Hong's first glance, Jiang Wen was secretly shocked in his heart, this girl was simply tailor-made for Yu Beibei.
Tao Hong's eyes naturally have a sense of confusion, the face shape is handsome, and he smiles with a kind of indifferent fox charm, with a cunning that people can't see through, but he is pure enough to want people to be close.
After Jiang Wen brought Tao Hong to the crew, he was more firm in this idea, and Tao Hong, who had never been in contact with performances, suddenly brought Yu Beibei to life.
It seems that Tao Hong seems to be effortless, in fact, her strength is in the corner that others can't see.
Tao Hong once generously admitted that he is not a talented actor, some actors when they cry, the director wants tears to flow out immediately, Tao Hong can't, no matter how hard he tries, the tears will not come and go.
The reason why she can play the role of Beibei is because Tao Hong has read a lot of Wang Shuo's novels, she knows what kind of person Yu Beibei is, and then find such a character from life and substitute herself into this role.
After the broadcast of "Sunny Day", although Tao Hong did not become famous for this, people in the director's circle paid attention to her, and the invitation to the snowflake script came to her from all directions.
Tao Hong had other plans in mind, she wanted to go to college, Jiang Wen recommended her to go to the Chinese opera, and Gu Changwei recommended her to go to Beiying.
At the age of 11, she left school to become an athlete, the study exam of the culture class was like a world away, no one knew what kind of dead spirit Tao Hong spent, and a year later she was admitted to the three major art colleges and universities of Chinese Opera, North Shadow and Shang opera at the same time.
In the end, Tao Hong chose Chinese drama, enrolled in school, she became a class leader for four years, and every day she took the whole class to stretch and press her legs in the playground, rain or shine.
Tao Hong, who is not a talented player, also faced his studies with a dead spirit in college, changed the battlefield and won the recognition of the teacher, not only got the first full score professional examination score in the history of Chinese opera, but also helped his classmates complete the graduation design, one person played the role in 8 works.
In 1997, Tao Hong, who was still a junior in college, through the study and promotion of Chinese opera, she starred in "Black Eyes", and won three awards in one fell swoop: Best Actress at the 10th Damascus International Film Festival in Syria, Best Actress at the 1998 Huabiao Awards in China, and Best Actress at the 18th Golden Rooster Awards.
Tao Hong indisputably became a popular actress, which laid the groundwork for her to take over "The Eight Precepts of the Splendid Pig in Spring" and also paved the way for the development of her relationship with Xu Zheng.
03
In 1998, "The Eight Precepts of the Brilliant Spring Pig" began to shoot, Tao Hong played the little dragon girl, Xu Zheng played the eight precepts of the pig, and the little dragon girl was obsessed with the eight precepts of the pig in the play, and this feeling also extended from the TV series to reality.
When he partnered with Tao Hong to act in this TV series, Xu Zheng was unknown in the film and television circle, and this TV series was also his first transformation work, but Xu Zheng's achievements in drama should not be underestimated, and at the age of 26, he had already won the Best Actor Award for Magnolia Drama.
Professional self-confidence makes Xu Zheng have a pride, before each performance, he always has to cover the content until he is satisfied, and the people who have cooperated with Xu Zheng before will always follow Xu Zheng's thinking in the end, and the situation has changed to Tao Hong.
When Xu Zheng communicated with Tao Hong about the plot he had arranged clearly, Tao Hong could always put forward more wonderful opinions, which made Xu Zheng, who was quite conceited, can't help but be dazzled.
However, more than Xu Zheng's eyes shine is Tao Hong, and When Xu Zheng filmed this TV series, because Xu Zheng was wearing props on his face, it was inconvenient to eat, and every time Tao Hong fed Xu Zheng a mouthful.
When the crew ordered meals, Tao Hong reacted faster than Xu Zheng, and each time she reminded the crew that Xu Zheng was inconvenient to eat and did not order noodles.
This is also why many years later, when Xu Zheng gave Tao Hong a platform in the strange story, he blurted out that it was Tao Hong who was pursuing him.
In fact, the talents of Tao Hong and Xu Zheng should be equal, and it is better to be a hero and a hero than to be able to walk together instead of deeply investigating who pursues whom.
Huang Bo said when he first promoted "Hong Kong 囧": "To be honest, I don't think that if this play is directed by Tao Hong, it will be much worse than Xu Zheng. ”
This also indirectly confirms that Tao Hong and Xu Zheng are indeed two people with equal talent, and it is also this sympathy that makes the two come together.
In 2003, under the condition that the elderly on both sides were reluctant, Tao Hong and Xu Zheng still firmly entered the marriage siege.
Tao Hong's parents were not satisfied, because they felt that Xu Zheng's achievements at that time were not as good as their daughters, Xu Zheng's mother was not happy because she was afraid that her daughter-in-law was too good, and Xu Zheng could not enjoy the care of her wife at home.
In fact, Tao Hong has never "bullied" Xu Zheng because of his fame, and even knows how to take care of Xu Zheng's emotions better than most wives.
In the first few years of marriage, Xu Zheng's fame has not been as good as Tao Hong, and when interviewed by reporters, Tao Hong has always firmly said that Xu Zheng is very talented.
In his career, Tao Hong also fully supported Xu Zheng, letting Xu Zheng play a beautiful turnaround battle of "Crazy Stone", when Ning Hao also found Tao Hong to star, Tao Hong felt that the script was very good and introduced to Xu Zheng.
Tao Hong not only introduced the script to Xu Zheng, but also prepared a large amount of money for Xu Zheng to invest in this movie.
Xu Zheng, whose career has not been smooth, hesitated, afraid that the money would eventually drift, but tao Hong still cheered him up: "If you lose and earn again, you can rest assured and boldly do it." ”
Even if she lives behind closed doors, Tao Hong can quickly integrate into the role of daughter-in-law, not because she is a big star, she does not put up shelves, and when her mother-in-law is bedridden with a cold, the underwear and underwear are washed by Tao Hong herself.
It is a pity that the concubine's heart is like a grass in exchange for a king's heart like a rock.
In 2010, after xu Zheng's "People on the Road" fire, the news of suspected derailment has not stopped.
In 2012, Xu Zheng was photographed holding Wang Xiran, a 21-year-old student at the Central Academy of Drama, on the street and finally walked into a private hotel.
In the early morning of October 6, 2016, Huang Bo's assistant suspected that Huang Bo sent a short-haired woman wearing a green top straight into the 2nd floor room where Xu Zheng was staying through the small door of the hotel, until 11:00 a.m., Xu Zheng left the room where he was staying, and an hour later, the woman in green also left Xu Zheng's room.
Xu Zheng's successive lace news pushed Tao Hong to the cusp of the storm, and every time he was interviewed, the question that the host could not escape must be that Xu Zheng was suspected of cheating, and how did Tao Hong see it.
Think about it carefully, what can Tao Hong think? Either leave or endure, there is no other way out, since you are not willing to divorce, directly endure it and be so nestled, it is better to pretend that you don't care, I am afraid that this is the original intention of Tao Hong's shocking remarks.
04
No matter how indifferent people are to their partner's cheating, the hurt and suffering they endure in their hearts are doomed to fail to pass on to others.
Psychology has long established that partnerships have the characteristics of specificity and exclusivity, and no matter how to deny, part of the security in marriage comes from the fidelity of the other half to the marriage.
The difference is that the lack of others in the face of this sense of security is compromise and concession, and Tao Hong is dead to the end: no matter how abusive Xu Zheng is, he must have the confidence that he cannot leave.
In order to achieve this goal, Tao Hong did allow himself to blossom on all sides.
Xu Zheng recognized Tao Hong's performance stick, performance, Tao Hong has "Little Joy", she will be a middle-aged single mother's anxiety to the fullest, superb acting skills even let the audience chase Xu Zheng shout, do not allow him to circle Tao Hong at home.
Xu Zheng recognized Tao Hong's directing ability, Xu Zheng's launch of each film, almost will seek Tao Hong's opinion, Huang Bo also said that if Tao Hong is allowed to be a director, the effect is not necessarily worse than Xu Zheng's.
Tao Hong's animated film "Wind Whisperer" produced by Tao Hong as an investor not only broke through 100 million at the box office, but also won the Best Art Film Award at the 32nd Golden Rooster Awards of Chinese Film, beating the opponents "White Snake: Origins", "Bear Haunting : Primitive Era" and "C9 Homecoming", "Crazy Bullring" and "New Big Head Son and Little Head Daddy 3 Russian Adventures".
When participating in "The Birth of an Actor", she took the newcomer Peng Yuchang to direct "The Last Empress", just ten minutes of play, Tao Hong used delicate light and shadow switching to tell the touching life of the last empress, Zhang Ziyi sighed on the spot: "Tao Hong's sister, your family should not have only one director, there should be another." ”
Xu Zheng recognized that Tao Hong would make money, Tao Hong would earn gold and silver mountains, so that Xu Zheng, who was a well-known director, also sighed to himself.
According to Tianyan's query, there are 16 companies directly related to Tao Hong, 14 of which are in existence, and the territory involves film and television, media, trade, investment, etc., including luxury goods such as fur couture.
Xu Zheng once gave Tao Hong a nickname - "Tao Death Carry", as long as Tao Hong identified things, she would bravely go forward and carry it to the end.
In the face of marriage, some people have asked Tao Hong, are you a little sacrificial in doing this? Tao Hong replied: "I decided it myself, and I will bear this result myself." ”
Looking at this result now is really painful, in order to tie a man's heart, wander on the edge of the law, and finally let yourself fall into the abyss, how to look at it seems to be worthless.
With Tao Hong's strength, he is willing to give up the dead bump in marriage, far from having to go to this step today.
I don't know if Tao Hong, who is under investigation at this time, regrets it, nor does I know whether Tao Hong can get through the difficulties with her when she is so big.
Author: Xiaohe, born in the gravel, the heart to the warm sun, write the words of the heart, live an interesting life.