What if you want to get married, but you can't reach a consensus with your significant other?
Waiting for the right moment?
Break up directly?
There are several couples who do it
Let your significant other go and sleep with someone else for a month!
Compare yourself again!
what? Is this brain Watt? Is this something that will happen on Earth?
Yes, this is the setting of Netflix's latest love roundup
"Ultimatum: Divide Without Knots"
The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On

In terms of making trouble, it has to be Netflix.
The year before yesterday, the sex variety show "Can't Stop" was just out of scale;
Last year, a "single is hell" directly brought the three words "Song Zhiya" into a traffic password.
This year is more brutal.
6 real couples, while participating in the "swapping" game - yes you heard it right.
The rules are simple.
Whoever has a girlfriend/boyfriend you like can live together for three weeks.
After that, he moved back to his original partner and lived for another three weeks.
After six weeks of experience and reflection, make a unified decision
Either get engaged to the original match.
Or break up directly.
(If you look at someone in the right eye, you can also change lanes halfway.) )
Two weeks after going online, the number of plays directly jumped to the top2 of the Netflix list.
How big is the scale?
During the "swapping", both parties can do anything with the new partner, including sharing a bed and XXOO.
You know, the marriage rate in the United States is not as good as a year now.
From 2000 to the present, the domestic marriage rate has fallen off a cliff, and in 2020, the marriage rate is the lowest in two decades, at 5%.
National Center for Health Statistics
Changing a couplet is such a human temptation, which is tantamount to picking a thorn in the wound, a minefield bungee.
Not Sir blowing.
On the blood of the drama dog, if "No Knot is Divided" dares to call it the second, then there is no other variety show to trespass at all.
Do you believe your significant other is "true love"?
All right.
that...... Send him to someone else's bed to try?
01
Netflix big stage, enough courage you come
What kind of people would participate in such a show?
Sir was also curious.
Originally thought they were some game lovers.
Later, I found that they were all ordinary people like you and me.
For example, the pair of women who want to marry and men who want to have a career, black brother and black girl.
The boy felt: the girl spends a lot of money, and she can't stand it.
Or, the man who wants to get married and the girl who wants to play with this pair, cowboy brother & blonde.
One loves to ride a horse, and the other happens to be a wild horse—refusing to give up an entire prairie.
Asian Chicks & Small Fresh Meat.
The girl loves each other and is eager to hug them for three years, but the boy is still hesitating.
Big & Half-Blood Sister, a realistic version of "Muscle President and Petite Wife".
(The wife came up and spoke to the female, poking and poking to declare sovereignty.) )
△ Is there a smell of Song Zhiya?
On the first day of the show, the crowd was still politely greeting.
Between the two mouths, one mouth is a promise of "reluctance", "I love you" and "I will not be touched by others".
But by the next day.
Start the moment you let go of the original hand.
Morality, ethics, promises... Leave it all behind!
Don't believe it.
countdown.
3,2,1。
02
The crowd of demons danced wildly
The "Find a New Love" game has officially begun!
Now it's the "conditional group" players.
Hot Asian girl: "He must be affectionate, tall over 180." ”
Confident and strong: "She's going to do it with me two or three times a day." ”
OK, Sir thinks, "ideal" always has to be human.
Just more unexpectedly
I don't know if it's fresh hormones that work.
Those problems that cannot be run into with the original match can always be automatically solved in the third party.
For example, the black brother who complained about the black girl's indiscriminate spending of money met the blonde "little wild horse".
The two directly carried out the previous criticism conference.
At the same time, they kept suggesting to each other - "If he makes you unhappy like that, I won't be upset."
Another example is fresh meat.
The night before, he also promised the Asian girl that he would not be interested in others.
Immediately after opening the pairing, he hitched a ride with a mixed-race wife.
The two seemed to look at each other continuously, and no matter what they said, the other's answer was "Me too."
I can't wait to shout to the whole world, "Oh my God, see how much we are matched."
After some hypocrisy, thunder and fire, so
Black Chicks & Big, Mixed Wives & Fresh Meat, Blonde Mustangs & Black Brothers, and the remaining Asian Chicks and Cowboy Brothers, were successfully paired.
Temporary CPs, officially began to live together.
Netflix, which has always been able to do things, lives in a very "thoughtful" preparation
One bedroom, one room, one bed.
With the blessing of ambiguous atmosphere.
Although some people continue to complain about the original match... But at the same time, do not forget to make love to the new love.
Someone misses the original match...
Of course, don't forget to make love to the new people.
Some directly meet parents, girlfriends, and even do not shy away from directly comparing with the original match.
Feelings deepened, more convenient for intimacy.
Some people will turn their faces and quarrel over trivial matters in life.
...... Continue to make love after the argument.
Found no.
In one sentence:
No matter what kind of emotional barriers and differences in living habits, it did not stop this group of people from having fun in time.
Looking at the overall atmosphere, these people are sweet and polite.
Some people feel like they are stealing, uneasy with excitement.
There are also people who feel like they are escaping, leaving the original match just to "release nature".
But don't forget, it's only the first three weeks.
When the time comes.
The midnight bell of "Return to Their Original Owners" rings.
The atmosphere also took a sharp turn for the worse.
Someone found that the contrast immediately collapsed.
What Little Mustang did not expect was that the most handsome and dedicated cowboy brother looked like the cowboy, but in those three weeks, he went to the nightclub to woo his sister, and claimed that he and his girlfriend were "open relationships".
In the words of the Wild Horse, his heart was broken.
"People are just rubbing their guns with the black brother, but you are going to a nightclub!"
Someone found out the secret and immediately blew up the hair.
The Asian girl found a sexy video of her wife in the fresh meat mobile phone and questioned her in a loud voice.
And the other two pairs.
The big and strong wives quarreled over each other's personality problems.
The man simply stayed up all night and began to be cold and violent.
As for the black brother and the black girl...
She cried and cried, "You betrayed me with that blonde Bichi."
He looked innocent: "God tm betrayed, this show is not what you pulled me to do."
Is this a show that solves the problem of marriage? It is clear that it is to create contradictions...
Eh, noisy.
Don't forget.
There is one last link in the show, and it is also the most important one.
It doesn't matter who you have an affair with, or you fall in love with your original partner.
When the time comes, you have to obediently answer the questions.
"XX, are you willing to marry XX legally, whether poor or rich..."
Don't want to?
Well, please break up in front of the national audience.
03
Love experiments? Human experiments!
In the end, who married whom, who broke up with whom, who "eloped" with whom.
Sir no spoilers.
How many design components does the show itself have, and what moments are real.
We don't know.
But you can see:
Behind the most controversial word "swapping" is the escape of human nature after facing a relationship problem, and drinking to quench thirst.
Each couple has their own problems to a greater or lesser extent.
Fresh meat always suppresses female companions; Asian girls think of Bongzi getting married; big and strong quarrels and directly lose contact; wild horses always think that the next man may be better.
But when faced with problems, they are not thinking about solving or separating, but forcibly ignoring, or one-size-fits-all.
The problem itself does not disappear, but it does not grow in each other's lives, and it occurs at the right time.
What to do when the day comes when it is unavoidable?
A big gamble, will each other's feelings and sunk costs all studded?
Sir admits.
Such a variety show that integrates "Premarital Trial love", "Former Raiders", "Small Times" and other dramas such as dramas has greatly benchmarked the audience's preferences.
Because dog blood is always the best look in other people's homes.
But after watching the hilarity, no one ever thought about it.
It is not advisable to put human nature and morality on the margins and tempt like this.
Like the famous "Stanford Prison Experiment."
In just 6 days, a pure college student can become a brutal jailer.
How fragile human nature is, not to mention, already more fragile love.
In the process of watching, Sir more than once associated with Ye Nianchen's "love trilogy".
The director, known as the "devil of love films", always likes to give a Happy Ending appearance in a piece of dog blood and chaos.
Then in the next second, poke through reality.
It's both a bad taste and a warning.
Love don't try.
Because love can never fight human nature.
At the end of the day, love stems largely from a very personal sense of self.
Sometimes the other person makes a little mistake.
Or a little bit of sweetness.
it all affects a person's perception of love.
The so-called "pre-marriage love trial" is essentially because of the lack of security and lack of self-confidence.
Well, this experiment, the results of what is produced.
It can only tear the rift wider and enlarge the difference.
So ah, again, the old saying:
Don't underestimate human nature.
Similarly, don't look up to love.
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