Be brave and be yourself.
This sentence is used by many people to motivate themselves, but only a few people can do it.
Nowadays, many people live in a variety of anxieties, life anxiety, work anxiety, and even weight anxiety and so on...
I don't know when it began, "good women but not a hundred" has become an evaluation criterion, and such a standard is not only applicable to ordinary girls, but also to beautiful women in various countries.
India's first recognized beauty, Aisywana Ray, married to her 3-year-old rich husband at the age of 34, gave birth to a daughter who was fat and was disliked, and was even insulted as a traitor by Indian netizens.
So, what the hell happened to her?
01 Life turned
On the evening of November 1, 1973, there was a sudden cry of a baby in the Women's and Children's Hospital in Mangalore, Karnataka, India.
Looking far away from the crying, I saw that the delivery room in the hospital slowly opened a door slit, and soon I saw several doctors and nurses coming out.
Immediately after, the anxiously waiting man at the door stepped forward and asked worriedly.
"Doctor, how is my wife and children?"
As soon as the words stopped, the doctor who took the lead quickly took off his mask and responded with a smile: "Congratulations, mother and daughter are safe." ”
But at this time, no one thought that the newborn who had just arrived was the future first beauty of India, Aisywana.
From the moment of her birth, Aisyvaya won the starting line, her father was a respected naval officer and her mother was a well-known writer.
Children who grow up based on such a family environment are naturally carefree in food and clothing, and they are loved by thousands of people.
Fortunately, Aisywana was not lost in this comfortable life, and she was a hard-working girl.
A few years later, she was admitted to a well-known university in India with her excellent grades and officially started her university life.
I have to say that Aisyvaya is really a very hard-working girl, and in college, she is running on the road of major part-time jobs in addition to classes.
The hard-working man's luck would not be too bad, and finally, an opportunity was placed in front of her.
One summer in 1992, as soon as Essevaya stepped out of her part-time job, she was drawn to a colorful poster on the ground.
Curiosity drove her to lean over and pick it up, only to see that it was written in large letters to recruit part-time models.
On top of that, the salary shown on the poster is very substantial, earning more than most of his previous part-time jobs.
After much struggle, the bold girl went to the location on the poster alone, not knowing that this was the first step in the dream.
Ten minutes later, Aisivaya arrived at her destination, and looking at the unfamiliar spotlight and white cloth in front of her, she opened her mouth wide in surprise.
Just as she was immersed in this "strange" room, a gentle voice suddenly came from behind her.
"Are you here to interview a model?" Immediately after, a gentle and lovely beautiful sister came into view.
To Ashwaya's surprise, the sister didn't seem to look away from the first moment she saw herself, and she kept looking at herself from top to bottom.
Perhaps sensing her doubts, the beautiful sister said bluntly: "You are the most beautiful girl I have ever met, you are simply made for models." ”
Hearing this, Aisyvaya couldn't help but blush, although she had said that she was beautiful since she was a child, but it was the first time that such a serious praise was taken.
After some thought, she finally decided to step into the modeling circle, and under the guidance of her predecessors, she quickly integrated into it.
I have to say that some people are born to eat by God.
Not long after Aisywana entered the modeling circle, she was favored by many commercial companies for her extraordinary beauty and elegant demeanor.
Since then, it has been a steady stream of advertising endorsements to attack her, the most noteworthy of which are the famous Indian sarees and Pepsi Cola companies.
Seeing that Aisivaya's popularity was getting higher and higher, her modeling agency thought of sending this girl who could charm all sentient beings with beauty to a bigger stage.
At this time, the 1994 "Miss World" beauty contest held in South Africa was actively preparing, and with the mentality of trying it out, the company reported Aisyaya's name.
Unexpectedly, this new face who debuted in the public eye won the championship in this competition and became the first beauty in India.
02 Marriage storm
Ever since Essevaya made her debut in the Miss World pageant, many directors have come to invite her to film.
These directors are not only interested in Aisivaya's perfect figure and good face, but also her green and gray eyes.
Even if she stands in front of the camera without saying a single line, the audience will be impressed by her big eyes.
After consulting with her parents, Aisyvaya decided to accept the director's invitation and officially transformed from a model to an actress.
In the beginning, she was also very worried that her acting skills would not be up to the role.
Soon, the facts dispelled this concern.
Esivaya's first film, The Dancing Prince, was well received by Indian film critics shortly after its release, and she won the Best Emerging Actress Award at the 1997 Indian National Screen Awards.
In 1999, she was awarded the Indian Film Awards with her outstanding performances in many works, and this series of facts undoubtedly proved that she was a star in the international film world that could not be ignored by anyone.
With the rise of her career, Aisyvaya's love also came.
In early 2000, On set, Aisevaya met an actor named Abshek Bakqiang, and the two became friends because of the drama.
Subsequently, the two were filmed by the media going to the cinema together late at night to watch a movie, and even went to the local disco for a whole night.
No matter how much the outside world's love scandal about the two spreads, the male and female protagonists of the incident have never stood up to respond.
It wasn't until 2006, when Aisywana was photographed going to the temple with Abhishek to worship and visiting each other's homes several times, that she made the incident public.
Sure enough, the two had an affair because of the drama a long time ago, and they were helpless to be the identity of the actors, so they did not want the fans to be disappointed.
I have to say that Aisyvaya's fans are single-minded about her.
Even after learning the fact that the idol has a love affair, he still has not lost his powder, and even repeatedly shouted that he will always support her career and love, but he does not know that these promises will not be broken within a few years.
Now that they had the "consent" of their fans, Essevaya and Abshek began to plan their marriage generously.
I thought that the two people's six-year love run would end with a beautiful wedding, but I didn't expect that the ordeal had just begun.
When Aisywana and Abhishek fell in love, they didn't know what the other person's family was.
It wasn't until the moment she talked about marriage that she realized that her so-called boyfriend was not an ordinary person.
It turned out that Abhishek was born into an Indian tycoon and was a full-fledged rich second generation, and Aisywana's family was simply not worth mentioning compared to it.
As the saying goes, the most important thing in marriage is the right door, so Abshek's parents were not satisfied with the marriage at first.
Unfortunately, their sons were fond of Aisivaya, and they could only agree to the marriage for the time being, but they needed to be tested before the wedding.
Simply put, it is to divinate the birthday of the man and the woman to see if the two parties are suitable to become husband and wife.
Unfortunately, the couple's fate test results were not very good, and the wizard said that Aisivaya was too beautiful and 3 years older than Abshek, so he was born to be Kef's life.
Naturally, young people did not believe in such nonsense, but Abshek's parents insisted on it, eagerly asking the wizard if there was any way to crack it.
Sure enough, the wizard quickly came up with a solution, which was to have Aisihua marry a banana tree first, and then marry Abshek.
In this way, bad luck will be transferred to the banana tree, and the real groom will not be implicated.
Naturally, Aisyvaya was reluctant to marry an absurd banana tree, but she had to give in temporarily in order to be with her beloved.
Finally ending the wedding ceremony with the banana tree, the "second marriage" Aisyvaya finally survived the day of the real wedding.
Perhaps as a sign of compensation for his wife, Abshek hosted a feast for ten days and invited nearly five thousand guests to attend.
It is said that on the day of the wedding, the local police station also sent 500 police officers to the scene to maintain order, which can be described as a well-known wedding.
On April 20, 2007, with the blessing of everyone, the 34-year-old Aisiwana married a love and became a family with her lover.
Heaven did not fail to live up to the couple, and not long after the marriage, Aisivaya and Abhishek had a crystallization of love.
In order to take care of his wife's health, Abhishek simply suspended his acting work with Aisywana and was at ease raising a baby at home.
03 Opinions vary
On November 16, 2011, this happy little family finally ushered in its first new life, and the former world of two people evolved into a family of three.
In order to share this joy with everyone, Aisyvaya immediately uploaded a photo of the family of three to the social platform.
Unexpectedly, this upload caused an uproar.
It turns out that the Ehivaya in the photo is haggard, coupled with the figure due to the birth, and the beautiful first beauty of the past is almost the same as the two.
In this way, her social platform account ushered in many netizens' messages, the content of which can be imagined, most of which are mainly insults and accusations.
"Today, you are so ashamed of the title of the first beauty..."
"As the national goddess of India, your current behavior is undoubtedly the act of treason...
Seeing this, Aisivaya couldn't help but be surprised.
She never expected that fans would regard their beauty as the wealth of the country, and even regard their own figure as the image of the country, and once they became fat, it was a betrayal of the country.
In the face of the "treason" said by netizens, Aisyhua has never made any response.
In her cognition, as long as her family understands herself, it doesn't matter if she bears more insults, but she never imagined that such a simple request of hers would become a luxury.
When Abshek's parents learned that their daughter-in-law had been scolded so badly online, instead of comforting her, they disgusted her.
"You really love to show off, the figure has not recovered well, how do you share it..."
"But to be honest, you really don't deserve my son now..."
Hearing her in-laws' words, Aisyvaya's long-held heart finally couldn't bear it, and tears couldn't help but burst out of her eyes.
Fortunately, Abshek was always with his wife and repeatedly reassured her not to worry, perhaps this is the price of becoming a mother.
Hearing this, the hope that Essevaya had sunk down suddenly rekindled.
Since she has become a mother, she should do what a mother should do, and then she automatically filters out all the negative words around her and takes care of her lovely daughter with peace of mind.
Under the careful care of this mother with a strong heart, the daughter soon became a big girl.
As her daughter grew older, Ashwaya, who was gradually recovering, also walked in front of the people again.
At this time, although she no longer has a fairy-like appearance, she has become a mother with a little more charm.
Unfortunately, in an Indian report on July 12, 2020, the mother and daughter were diagnosed with the new crown virus.
Fortunately, they were lucky, and it wasn't long before Aisivaya and her daughter appeared in the public eye healthily.
Perhaps after the ghost door was closed, Aisywana now focuses more on the family, and the media can often photograph the sweet travel of the Abshek family of three.
By chance, Aisywana was asked by reporters if she ever regretted becoming a mother, after all, today's career is a world away from before.
But the answer she gave every time she faced such a question was no, and she would add proudly and happily.
"I enjoy being a mom."
In Aisyvaya's cognition, being able to greet her daughter's arrival with her own hands and witness her growth must be the most proud "career" in this life.
I have to say that this great mother is a real beauty, with both an undefeated appearance and a strong heart.
Resources
"Aisyvaya Ray Ashwarya Rai" New Beijing Network
"India's first beautiful woman in Bollywood infected with the new crown, daughter and husband are infected" China Network