Everyone will have a name that will accompany them for a lifetime, and it is also the business card of our life. In order to give their children a satisfactory name, parents have exhausted their brains and spent a lot of thought.
When naming a child, parents not only want their child's name to reflect their own knowledge, but also to make others feel that the child is unique and unparalleled.
In addition to this, the child's name must not only be easy to read, but also show the child's intelligence and alertness. It can be seen that each seemingly simple name contains the ardent expectations of parents. Of course, there are also some parents who try to save trouble. Think there's no need to give kids some "fancy" names. They think it's enough to give a child a name at will.
Therefore, like Xiaoming, Success, etc., these names that can be analyzed literally to the meaning of these also appear frequently. But there are also some parents who give their children names that are very incomprehensible. For example, boys should take a name that is biased towards their gender and temperament.
The "rare marriage certificate" of the post-90s couple is on fire, and the staff thinks that they are dazzled:
But his parents gave him a girl's name, Li Qiuyi. When everyone hears the name, they often think of an elegant, handsome girl, but it is also the name of a seven-foot tall man. The boy named Li Qiuyi also met his wife online, and when he learned that the other party was also named Li Qiuyi.
There was also a small oolong between the two people. Later, the boy awkwardly explained that his parents didn't want their personality to be too mischievous and gave themselves a feminine name. With the beginning of this fate, the two began a sweet love and finally entered the palace of marriage smoothly.
But when the two men went to apply for a marriage license, the staff got the couple's household registration booklet, and after seeing the young couple's name, they checked their names several times. Before handing over the marriage certificate to the two couples, the staff still couldn't believe it and said, "I thought I had a problem with my eyes and saw it wrong." ”
Later, after the couple's "rare marriage certificate" was known to more and more people after the 90s, many netizens also praised the name of the young couple as a very fateful fate, and some netizens did not forget to make fun of it, "You two have the same surname, so what is the name of your child in the future?" ”
Having said that, because of the same name, this has also become a precious fate between the two of them, and it is because of this fate that they can come together and become husband and wife. This kind of fairy tale is indeed very sweet, but parents must not imitate it in order to highlight their personality. Not only is this prone to oolongs, but it also has a big impact on children's lives.
If a boy's name is too feminine, what impact will it have on the child?
1, not easy to integrate into the team
For children, if the boy's name is too feminine, he will feel that the boy is different from others, and it is easy to leave a strange impression on others; he may even be looked at and ridiculed by the people around him, and may be maliciously excluded, making it difficult for the child to integrate into the class or team group, causing a lot of psychological pressure to the child, and more likely to cause a timid, withdrawn personality.
2, easy to be misunderstood
If a boy's name is too much like a woman's name, it's easy to be mistaken for a girl. For example, when going to school, a teacher will first think it is a girl when she sees the name. It is very inconvenient for teachers to arrange seats or assign school uniforms, and even make some jokes, which will also lead to children's inferiority complex.
Parents also need to have a college question when naming their children.
Names are very important to a person, and parents must be careful when naming their children. Do not use names with harmonic characters such as Li Suo Lingran and Glory of Kings. Such a name is more likely to cause ridicule from others and places a heavy psychological burden on the child.
At the same time, parents should also pay attention not to use rare character names when naming their children. Our names are used to communicate with others, and although rare characters highlight their personality, they can be embarrassing if they are not recognized or misread by others, which can also affect a child's social skills.
Finally, another thing to note is not to use names with polyphonic characters. Such a name can cause unnecessary misunderstandings. For the child's life, not only does it not bring convenience and praise from others, but it will cause certain troubles.
summary
Names are very important for each of us in life, and if a child's name is too heterosexual, it will often bring a lot of unnecessary trouble and trouble.
Therefore, when parents give their children a name, they must not give their children a name for convenience or personality, or take a name with a harmonic sound or a strange word, ignoring the use and meaning of the name itself, and making a joke.