The entertainment industry is full of beautiful people, but the real long-term handsome men and women are hairy and angular.
Either after many years of long-distance running but defeated in the small third of the heavens, or at the beginning of the calculation of the benefits and losses,
Stage a sad and joyful drama that hangs people's appetites.
Sincere feelings are rare, and the profession of an actor itself is less and more.
Marketing methods are emerging in an endless stream, and the network outlet is even more unpredictable.
The golden child that many people think of as a golden child has already fallen apart.
Love is no longer the era when the cars and horses were slow many years ago, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
The most emotional thing in the entertainment industry is the marriage between Pan Yueming and Dong Jie.
From the model couple who are envied by everyone, to the confrontation court, pouring dirty water,
Pan Yueming's great future was ruined, Dong Jie's reputation was no longer there, and he retired from the circle for many years.
After the two tore each other apart for 10 years, and then looked at Pan Yueming's marriage and Dong Jie's marriage, they realized that their divorce was the best choice.
Pan Yueming grew up in the old hutongs of the Beijing compound, and from an early age he showed outstanding literary and artistic talent.
He is very proficient in calligraphy and painting, and often wins awards.
But he is also not introverted, and he is also a good hand as a host.
At a young age, he served as the host of the Children's Program "Seven Colors of Light" on Beijing Television.
But Pan Yueming did not go down smoothly according to such a life script.
Due to the good physical conditions, but also have the experience of going to power,
Pan Yueming began to contact acting early.
But the curse of happiness depends precisely on premature contact with filming.
As a result, Pan Yueming's studies declined, and although he was sent to a key middle school, he failed the college entrance examination.
In 1995, he was unable to attend the Beijing Film Academy, and by chance, he lost the admission qualification of the Central Academy of Drama.
His family advised him, but whether it was an olive branch at the Shanghai Theater Academy or studying abroad, Pan Yueming refused.
It was also a coincidence that when Pan Yueming decided to move from the front of the stage to the backstage, he was admitted to the film and television production major of Beijing Normal University.
Pan Yueming, who has just stepped into the show business circle, is still full of small fresh meat at this time, but at this time, the uncle style is popular.
So like many people, Pan Yueming started from running dragon sets and began his dream of being an actor.
Compared with Pan Yueming's ups and downs, Dong Jie is much smoother and luckier.
Born in 1980, she was recruited into the army at the age of 10, with outstanding physical condition and very pure appearance.
Soon became a bellwether.
In 1995, the 15-year-old Dong Jie was already the leader of the Soldiers' Song and Dance Troupe.
Also in the same year, Dong Jie, who was only 15 years old, went to the Spring Festival Gala as an accompaniment dancer, but the role was too small and was drowned in many group performances.
The next year, it was on the Spring Festival Gala again, and this time it was a skit, but it was still an insignificant role.
Although there was no outstanding performance at the Spring Festival Gala twice, it exercised Dong Jie's ability to resist pressure and adapt to the big scene.
It also finally made Dong Jie go to the Spring Festival Gala for the third time, when she shared the stage with Nicholas Tse,
Everyone finally noticed this lively and cheerful, generous and pure-looking girl.
As a result, Dong Jie's reputation grew bigger and bigger, and she began to be invited by advertisers, and even became a girl.
At that time, Zhang Yimou was preparing for the filming of the movie "Happy Time", but he was struggling to find an actress who did not find a suitable actress.
Dong Jie appeared in front of Zhang Yimou's eyes at this moment.
With the mentality of trying it out, Zhang Yimou invited Dong Jie to come to the final round of auditions.
Unexpectedly, the clever Dong Jie immediately grasped the main point of the role and successfully won the role.
He also made his official debut and began his acting career.
Soon after, he continued to make films, starring in classic works such as "The Golden Powder Family",
It also made the audience completely remember this young-looking girl.
Dong Jie, who was smooth sailing, soon signed a contract with Wong Kar-wai's company, cooperating with big names such as Liang Chaowei, and "2046" and so on have her presence.
At this time, Dong Jie was only 23 years old.
Compared with Pan Yueming's hard work, Dong Jie was really arranged by fate on this road.
It is precisely for this reason that there will be an encounter between Dong Jie and Pan Yueming.
In 2005, Pan Yueming, who had already mixed some famous people, starred as the male protagonist of the TV series "The Red Dress".
And the heroine is Dong Jie.
In the play, the two sparks splashed, and the feelings outside the play gradually warmed up.
As a senior, Pan Yueming also cares for Dong Jie.
Whether it is life or career, we pay attention everywhere and point out everywhere.
Such warmth also easily makes Dong Jie feel good about Pan Yueming.
The seeds of love took root and sprouted in this way, and before the scene was finished, Pan Yueming and Dong Jie established a relationship.
In a later interview, when the two were in love, both of them had a sweet face.
In the era without the Internet, communication between people and people still relies on text messages and phone calls.
The text messages between Pan Yueming and Dong Jie filled several mobile phones.
Even later, in order to prevent the loss of information, Dong Jie also specially copied many text messages by hand.
I have to say that love is sincere at the beginning, but time changes, and people are also changing.
In 2008, the two men who had been in love for three years went public.
At the beginning of the year, the two were engaged, and in September they were married in Beijing in a low-key manner.
However, Pan Yueming was busy filming at this time, and the wedding was completely handled by Dong Jie.
Although Dong Jie can understand, she is always a little disappointed.
The only wedding in my life, but I didn't have my husband's company all the time.
And this also lays hidden dangers for the future marriage of the two.
A year later, Dong Jie gave birth to a son. Pan Yueming gave it the nickname Dingding.
However, this happy home in the eyes of others is not as happy as everyone imagines.
Pan Yueming and Dong Jie's careers are on the rise, and they often do not leave home.
Gathering less and leaving more also caused a rift in the relationship between the two.
It's just that these are hidden in the busy work, and the birth of the top has become an important key to maintaining the family.
At this time, Pan Yueming suddenly descended from heaven.
During the filming of the movie "For You", Pan Yueming fell off a cliff and was hospitalized due to a rapid drag racing scene.
In the driver's seat, his lungs were squeezed and ruptured, and the co-pilot's female number two, Xia Bingbing, and another photographer were seriously injured.
Dong Jie, who received the news, rushed to the hospital, but was greeted by the hospital's critical illness notice.
This really frightened Dong Jie, but fortunately after rescue, Pan Yueming walked back from the ghost gate.
Just when everyone was relieved, they found that the trouble was far from over.
Female No. 2 Xia Bingbing was the most seriously injured person in this car accident, not only the spine was damaged, but also the pelvic bone and small bones were also affected to varying degrees
injure.
It even directly lost the ability to walk.
In this regard, neither the crew nor the driver Pan Yueming said anything.
Therefore, after everyone was separated from life safety, Xia Bingbing sued Pan Yueming and the crew in court.
Pan Yueming, who had just returned from the ghost gate, immediately went to court again.
Dong Jie, as the mother of a one-year-old child, is busy every day. Not only to take care of the family, but also to deal with the trouble of litigation.
As a result, the business was affected.
Pan Yueming fell out with the crew because of this, and the crew immediately found another new person to replace Pan Yueming.
In the blink of an eye, the happy home of the two was cracked.
Although Dong Jie has been carefully taken care of during his hospital bed, the relationship between the two has long been much worse than before.
Pan Yueming and Dong Jie also contradict each other in their life patterns.
Dong Jie is always very critical of Pan Yueming, and even some media have filmed Dong Jie reprimanding Pan Yueming on the street.
Pan Yueming stood with her head bowed, obediently listening to the training, and it seemed that it was not Dong Jie's husband, but her son.
At the same time, Pan Yueming, who is young and vigorous and has some straight men, will not make girls happy.
In the life of the two people, there are always big contradictions that have not yet reached an agreement, and small contradictions have occurred.
Dong Jie, who is a little bird, wanted to find a reliance, but her husband always lay on the hospital bed at a critical moment.
Such a reversal of roles is always difficult to accept.
In 2009, when Pan Yueming posted a post celebrating their wedding anniversary, Dong Jie made a meaningful statement.
"Three years in love, three years in marriage, three years, next year, an itch."
At that time, although the melon-eating masses felt that something was wrong, they thought it was just a joke.
Unexpectedly, not long after, there was news of the two people's marriage change in the media.
After only three years of marriage, the child could not even speak clearly, and the news of the marriage between the two came out, and for a time, everyone refused to believe it.
Unexpectedly, the lord soon came out to say it.
In October 2012, Dong Jie sent a long article confirming the news of the divorce between the two.
In her statement, it was Pan Yueming who single-handedly led to the end of their marriage.
Pan Yueming is not only a treacherous scumbag, but also an actress who cheated on the same crew, gambling and scattering the family property,
He dutifully gave everything for this family.
For a time, a pair of Bi people fell apart. The golden boy's good story is broken.
Soon, Pan Yueming also came out to pry.
All of Dong Jie's accusations were dismissed, and at the same time, a rake was beaten upside down.
All of Dong Jie's income in the past year has been posted to her mother's family, which is completely supported by him.
The two sides are deadlocked, and the audience has its own position.
However, Dong Jie, as a weak woman, is still more popular.
Many people are more partial to Dong Jie, and for a time, Pan Yueming, who has a bright future, has become a scumbag that everyone shouts and beats.
Damage to the image, of course, also affects the cause.
Pan Yueming, who has just returned to the right track, has once again fallen to the bottom.
But at that time, he still believed in Dong Jie, believing that all this was just a broker's provocation.
What happened next, but it fell through everyone's eyes.
Five months after the divorce announcement, China's first paparazzi Zhuo Wei went online.
A video he immediately released completely subverted everyone's speculation.
In the video, Dong Jie, who has always been pure and innocent, actually kissed Wang Dazhi, and the two behaved intimately and had a familiar attitude.
Public opinion was in an uproar and turned against him.
It turned out that Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi had known each other as early as when they were filming before.
But by this time both had spouses.
However, compared with the straight man Pan Yueming, Wang Dazhi is obviously more pleasing to girls, in the video taken by Zhuo Wei.
Dong Jie stood aside angrily, while Wang Dazhi coaxed with a hippie smile.
This is in stark contrast to pan Yueming's previous training on the streets.
The two not only interacted frequently on the set, but also paid attention to each other on Weibo.
Wang Dazhi always commented and forwarded under Dong Jie's Weibo.
Once again, Dong Jie sent a photo of him wearing a military coat, and Wang Dazhi went so far as to say bluntly, "I love the army coat." ”
The relationship between the two spreads like wildfire.
The relationship between Pan Yueming and Dong Jie also completely collapsed, and Pan Yueming, in a fit of anger, sued Dong Jie's agent for slander and slander.
However, after a year of trial, it was finally explained that everything was Dong Jie's own request.
Brokers are also just on business.
The divorce case also ended in a lose-lose situation, and the child's top was awarded to his mother Dong Jie by the court.
Unexpectedly, Pan Yueming was also difficult to see his son.
Affected by this, Pan Yueming's career plummeted, and he himself was also confused and unable to lift his spirits.
From the divorce in 2012 to 2017, Pan Yueming's career only improved slightly.
In "White Night Pursuit", Pan Yueming played two roles, and the wonderful drama coupled with Pan Yueming's excellent acting skills made the audience directly addicted.
Later, he starred in dramas such as "Dragon Ridge Labyrinth", but now is different from the past.
Once a small fresh meat, it has been honed into an uncle by the years.
Compared with the resurrection of the career, the emotional life is still an old wound that Pan Yueming cannot touch.
Although he and his ex-wife Dong Jie had a very fierce quarrel, the relationship between the two deteriorated.
But children are always innocent, and when they are young, they are busy with work and rarely take care of them.
Now I really want to spend time with my children, but it is still something that can never be achieved.
After the court awarded the child to Dong Jie, Dong Jie blocked all possibilities for Pan Yueming to see the child.
Poor Pan Yueming can only send a blessing on Weibo on Dingding's birthday every year.
And Dong Jie's love for dingding is also suffocating.
After many years, Dong Jie has gradually returned to everyone's vision.
In a variety show, Dong Jie appeared with the top.
Unexpectedly, the mode of getting along between the two made netizens cry out in shock.
Dong Jie is always constantly tempting and questioning her position in her son's mind.
Under such indoctrination from below, Dingding naturally understood how to speak.
In the show, the two are doing crafts together.
Dong Jie asked if she would take her mother with her when she went out on a trip in the future? Top answer will.
Later, he added that the mother is important or the girlfriend is important, of course, the mother is important.
It was as if he had already known what to ask and explained clearly in advance.
I don't know how many times Dong Jie has said to Dingding privately.
It seems that I want to make up for the emotional suffering I have suffered over the years.
Pan Yueming and Dong Jie, the rivals of the pair of feelings, found out after some tearing that divorce was actually the best choice for the two.
Personality is not compatible, but to accompany a lifetime, it is painful for both people,
The profession of actor is even more rare and more, and to varying degrees, it has also alienated the relationship between the husband and wife.
From the golden boy and jade girl who everyone pursues blessings to the scumbag man and woman who everyone shouts and spits on, it was originally a husband and wife, but it ended up like this.
It's really impermanent.
In this silent war, no one has gained happiness, and the children have been greatly hurt.
After nine years, looking back on the marriage of the two people again may be a mistake at the beginning.
Divorce is already the best choice two can make.