At the TVB celebration in 2015, Huang Zongze's move to peek at his predecessor Hu Xing'er became the ultimate aesthetic of the Hong Kong love affair BE.
In the picture, Hu Xing'er holds up a wine glass and talks and laughs with her friends, while Huang Zongze's eyes are full of waves.
There were obviously only a few people separated between them, but it was as if they were separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, and they could not get close.
At this time, it has been three years since Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er broke up, Huang Zongze is still nostalgic for the past, and Hu Xing'er is about to marry someone else.
Perhaps, Huang Zongze never thought that Hu Xing'er, who had loved him for eight years, would one day resolutely leave his side.
He did not expect that Hu Xing'er, who used to appear arm in arm with him, would later walk into the wedding hall with the arms of other men.
In fact, not only did Huang Zongze guess the ending between them, but countless CP fans also regarded the disease-free love between Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er as an eternal hardship.
Girls aged 26 and boys aged 25
Their fate began because of the TV series "My Savage Grandma".
At that time, their coffee position in TVB was not high, although they were all artists who had debuted for several years, but neither side had yet been able to get their hands on the masterpiece.
Fortunately, opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared.
In 2005, the crew of "My Savage Grandma" found Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze and asked them to play a couple in this costume drama.
In the play, Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze have a full sense of CP, and outside the play, there is also a different chemical reaction between the two young people.
Huang Zongze fell in love with Hu Xing'er, who was gentle outside the domineering drama in the play, and Hu Xing'er also secretly agreed with Huang Zongze, who was sunny and handsome.
Before the end of the TV series shooting, 25-year-old Huang Zongze used 600 text messages to drive women every day to pick up and drop off women and other romantic offensives, so that 26-year-old Hu Xing'er became his veritable girlfriend.
With the broadcast of "My Savage Grandma", hu xing'er and Huang Zongze's careers have made a qualitative leap forward.
At the same time, their love affair was also spread to the limelight, and the audience who liked them called them "golden boys".
However, most actors are almost not allowed to make their relationships public during the period of career rise.
Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze are no exception, perhaps under the pressure of the company, perhaps based on their career planning, no matter how the reporters knock on the side, Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze's external answer is always "We are good friends!" ”
After several years of love, Huang Zongze gradually learned to play tai chi with the media from all sides.
Whenever the reporter mentioned Hu Xing'er, he either laughed and did not speak, or pulled away the topic, always not acknowledging the love, but also not denying the scandal.
Hu Xing'er is also ambiguous, everyone knows that Huang Zongze is her gossip boyfriend, but Hu Xing'er can't admit it, as long as someone mentions Huang Zongze's name, Hu Xing'er will laugh involuntarily.
In those years, they obviously did not have an open relationship, but they seemed to be sweeter than the "real" couple.
For example, they once publicly knelt down to pour tea for "mother-in-law" Wang Mingquan as "son and daughter-in-law", and the media coaxed that this was Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er familiar with the wedding etiquette in advance;
In 2007, Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze took wedding photos for a magazine as "lovers file", and they smiled sweetly and beautifully.
In 2008, Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze had a love song "Grateful to Meet You" between them, and in the same year, Hu Xing'er bought the house downstairs of Huang Zongze's family to facilitate the two to date.
Later, Huang Zongze paid for another house on the same floor, and the middle of the two houses was opened, tacitly acknowledging Hu Xing'er's "family" identity.
In 2009, Huang Zongze appeared at Hu Xing'er's concert site as a gossip boyfriend, which happened to be Huang Zongze's birthday, Hu Xing'er sang a happy birthday song for him on the stage, and Huang Zongze held a sign with Hu Xing'er's name on the stage.
They embraced each other without hesitation, looking into each other's eyes, full of unconcealed tenderness and love.
At that time, Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze gave all their preferences to each other without scruples, and all the melon eaters in Hong Kong hoped that one day, they could see that their lovers would eventually become dependents.
Second, she wants to get married and he wants to be free
When the attitude of the outside world has become a voice of blessing, Hu Xing'er has slowly released the signal of love to the outside world.
She began to reassure reporters, "The day I get the back view, I'll announce my relationship!" ”
It turns out that Hu Xing'er has fulfilled her promise.
In December 2011, Hu Xing'er won two awards at the TVB Ten Thousand Stars Awards Ceremony for "Best Actress" and "My Favorite TV Female Character" for her two blockbuster dramas" and "The King of Ten Thousand Phoenixes".
When delivering the acceptance speech, Hu Xing'er emotionally said to Huang Zongze in the audience: "There is another person, I don't know what to say, he said that when I received the award, he would go to the toilet, but he did not go.
I know I'm unbearable, but you have a lot of flaws, and I hope we can stand up to everyone together. ”
The other guests in the audience were waiting for Huang Zongze's reaction, some booing, some cheering, and some clapping.
But Huang Zongze just laughed and nodded.
At that time, the atmosphere at the scene, everyone thought that Huang Zongze would propose, but he did not, or rather, he was not ready to get married at all.
Perhaps, this is a fuse that detonated the problem between Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er.
The official announcement of the relationship was only half a year, Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze did not have a further relationship in the expectations of the outside world, but instead went to the point of breaking up.
When she made her first public appearance after the breakup, Hu Xing'er was surrounded by reporters and kept asking the reason for the breakup, she did not explain too much, but repeatedly said" Without a third party, we broke up peacefully." ”
When a reporter loudly asked "is it that the man still wants to play for a few more years and does not want to get married too early", Hu Xing'er's tears are like broken beads, falling down in large pieces.
In this situation, everyone who has seen this scene feels heartache and grievance for Hu Xing'er.
Even though Hu Xing'er has never publicly accused Huang Zongze of anything after the breakup, the Hong Kong media still attributed the biggest reason for their breakup to the man's too much heart.
Huang Zongze is indeed a famous fancy boy in the Hong Kong circle, in the eight years of his interaction with Hu Xing'er, Huang Zongze has constantly rumored that he is ambiguous with other actresses, close to the hot dance, suspected kissing and other rumors.
But Hu Xing'er always supports her boyfriend, she is willing to give the other party another chance, and she does not want to see everything "too clearly".
But there were really too many such things, so much so that Hu Xing'er couldn't get enough security from Huang Zongze.
She wants a name, a relationship protected by law, but Huang Zongze wants freedom more, and he is not willing to give up the whole forest for "one tree."
Therefore, it is not so much that Huang Zongze is too careful, but rather that they have a huge disagreement about the future, which has brought this relationship to an end.
Third, Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er after the breakup
After the breakup, Hu Xing'er showed admirable bravery and decisiveness.
She moved out of Huang Zongze's residence for the first time, and bought two apartments at her own expense, the same is open in the middle, the difference is that one set she lives by herself, and the other set she left for her sister to live;
In addition, she and Huang Zongze have completely cut each other both financially and emotionally, and she does not take advantage of each other's penny, nor does she say a bad word to the other party.
She was dashing, as if the other person had never been in her life.
On the contrary, Huang Zongze panicked like a lost child after Hu Xing'er left.
He told the media that he had not thought about breaking up, and he would wait for Hu Xing'er to change his mind;
He borrowed the mouth of high-level Le Yiling to say that "the media has written a lot of fake news, how bad things he can carry down, he will definitely chase back Xing'er, I hope the outside world will not hurt Xing'er, otherwise he would rather die." ”
Later, Huang Zongze admitted in an interview with Zha Xiaoxin that Hu Xing'er was the lifelong partner he wanted, and in order to save this relationship, he tried everything he could to make.
It is obvious that Huang Zongze is reluctant to break up, and he expects Hu Xing'er to turn back after making trouble "awkwardly" as before.
However, Hu Xing'er forgave Huang Zongze "99 times", and when it came to the "100 times", she really let go.
Later, in an interview with Li Jing, talking about her feelings with Huang Zongze, Hu Xing'er bluntly said that she was a brave person.
The other party asked her, "Will you still believe in love in the future?" ”
Hu Xing'er hesitated for a while, and forced herself to hold back tears and said, "Of course I believe it, otherwise, then I will be too miserable!" ”
A long time later, Hu Xing'er explained the reason why she broke up with Huang Zongze, "because I think that for women, when they usually make a decision, they are actually ready to let go of a relationship, and they will not rush to make a decision before they let go, which is true for me." ”
Yes, if you don't save enough disappointment, who is willing to leave the person you fell in love with in the most beautiful years?
Two years after the breakup, Huang Zongze finally understood and accepted the reality, and also tried to transfer his feelings to other women.
In 2014, Huang Zongze and yang Zheng, a host who is 8 years older than him, came out with love news, but the relationship was exposed for only 21 days, and Yang Zheng became Huang Zongze's past tense.
Rumors are that Huang Zongze's mother is not satisfied with Yang Zheng's age and does not agree with their relationship.
In fact, Huang Zongze's mother is only one reason, the main problem is that they are not compatible, so it is difficult to maintain feelings.
After that, Huang Zongze successively spread some rumors that seemed to be true and false, but no one could enter Huang Zongze's heart like Hu Xing'er.
Yes, Huang Zongze did have a lot of lace news, but there is no doubt that his favorite must have been Hu Xing'er.
He had already bought a big house, bought a car for Hu Xing'er, and even handed over his own property to Hu Xing'er to take care of.
He also revealed to the outside world months before their breakup that he planned to marry his girlfriend and have children around 2015.
At that time, Huang Zongze's imagination and planning for the future were related to Hu Xing'er.
However, these beautiful plans of his, he only said to outsiders, hu Xing'er, who most wanted to hear these promises, every time asked by reporters about the topic of marriage, he could only prevaricate that the other party said, "Not so fast." ”
No woman can wait for the other person in the same place.
For Hu Xing'er, who was born in a single-parent family and longs for marriage and family life, she has no confidence or certainty that Huang Zongze will give her a home.
Maybe it was because he was afraid of being disappointed again in the future, or being hurt again, in the end, Hu Xing'er chose to stop the loss in time, and Huang Zongze also lost the girl who loved him the most!
Fourth, the gap in life after ten years of separation
What makes people feel infinitely emotional is that in December 2015, Hu Xing'er married Li Chengde, an outsider who has known him for more than three months.
Once 2015 was the time when Huang Zongze planned to marry Hu Xing'er, and Huang Zongze's birthday was also December.
However, Hu Xing'er wore a wedding dress in her favorite winter and married someone other than Huang Zongze.
Another sad point is that Huang Zongze's father also died this month.
Originally, December was supposed to be Huang Zongze's favorite month; now, December has become his most painful and unwilling nightmare.
It can only be said that everything is a creation of people!
Another little known point is that Hu Xing'er invited Huang Zongze to her wedding.
Huang Zongze also vowed that he would definitely go and prepare gifts.
Some reporters therefore ridiculed Huang Zongze that he could go to rob relatives, and Huang Zongze could only answer slightly embarrassedly, "You are watching too many TV series!" Kissing? Are you kidding! ”
In the end, Huang Zongze did not go, perhaps we can understand that he did not dare to go.
As the song "Guest" goes, "It's a pity it's your wedding with him, and I'm just a guest." I let go of all my memories to fulfill your love, but I don't want to believe that this is fate. ”
Thinking about the past, Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er have held several weddings in the TV series, but in reality, they have not even been able to wait for a nine-dollar marriage certificate.
After all, life is not a plot, some people or some things, once missed, is forever.
In recent years, Hu Xing'er has become a mother of three children, she has a cute child and a considerate husband, she finally has a sense of home and a harbor of anchorage.
Huang Zongze changed his habits of past affairs and was no longer the prodigal son of love in various gossip magazines.
Moreover, at the age of 42, he is still single, and when asked about his ideal type, he lists the rules and regulations, and it is easy to find the shadow of Hu Xing'er.
I think he should regret it, after all, there is no woman who can meet his requirements and expectations for the other half like Hu Xing'er.
Growing up with a man is not something that everyone can do.
Hu Xing'er gave both Qingshi and love to Huang Zongze, who had been in love for eight years, and finally gave her life to Li Chengde, who had known her for less than three months.
This is the importance of the order of life, but also the indescribable wonder of fate and fate.
I personally think that there is no need to delve into who is sorry for whom, in love, men and women are not equal, women are always easy to lose time, and men often like to use time.
For Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze, the difference between the two wide and their own joy may be the best ending between them.
As Hu Xing'er said at her wedding, "My ex and ex were great, one of them taught me to be a gentle woman, the other taught me to be a mature adult, but I liked the current one the most, he taught me to be a child back." ”
I hope that in the future, Huang Zongze can also meet a good person like Hu Xing'er; if he can't meet, then he will be free all his life, be casual all his life, and be a child all his life!