As we all know, a few decades ago, society was not as open as it is today, and many people's thinking was outdated, and arranged marriages were one of them. Men and women marry without even meeting, let alone cultivate feelings. In such circumstances, many women's lives are extremely miserable, and they suffer from arranged marriages all the time.
With the continuous development of society, the spiritual level of the people is also constantly improving. More and more women are beginning to wake up, and 51-year-old Han Shimei is one of them. She is also a victim of arranged marriages, facing her intellectually handicapped husband every day, unable to finish farm work and housework, and can only rely on writing poems to vent her emotions, and did not expect her poems to become popular on the Internet.
Speaking of which, Han Shimei's experience is very similar to that of the cerebral palsy poet Yu Xiuhua, and it can be called the second Yu Xiuhua. Yu Xiuhua also had a bad married life, and then wrote poems to vent her emotions, and the result became popular on the Internet. Yu Xiuhua became famous earlier than Han Shimei, and Han Shimei should have the idea of writing poetry under the influence of Yu Xiuhua, so Han Shimei regarded Yu Xiuhua as his idol.
Netizens who know Yu Xiuhua know that she suffered cerebral palsy due to lack of oxygen at birth. Yu Xiuhua's parents thought traditionally, and despite their daughter's wishes, they married her to Yin Shiping, a homeless man who was 12 years older. Although Han Shimei was in good health, she was sold to a shaving head by her mother for a "bride price" of 3,000 yuan. Her husband is mentally handicapped, her father-in-law is disabled, her mother-in-law is in poor health, and the family is in debt.
Yu Xiuhua became famous at the age of 40 and divorced her husband at the age of 41. She gave all her writing fees to her husband and bought him a suite. Han Shimei became famous at the age of 50 and sued her husband for divorce at the age of 51. She left the family's savings, house, and land to her husband and left the house herself. It can be said that Yu Xiuhua is Han Shimei's teacher, and Han Shimei can learn from Yu Xiuhua in order to get rid of a life of suffering.
But the difference between Yu Xiuhua and Han Shimei is that the poems written by Yu Xiuhua are more bold, she does not conform to the mainstream but conforms to reality, and the words are somewhat vulgar and vulgar. The poems written by Han Shimei are beautiful and elegant, like a painting full of colors, not at all like the words that farmers can write, after all, Han Shimei only has the first Chinese. Because Han Shimei has been farming all her life, she is also known as "a poet on the field".
Han Shimei said that she was ashamed of the title of "Second Yu Xiuhua". Han Shimei said that he and Yu Xiuhua were compared, one heaven and one underground. Han Shimei humbled herself that Yu Xiuhua was a modern girl among modern girls, and she was just a farmer covered in loess. Han Shimei's words are too modest, but anyone who has read Han Shimei's poems will feel that she should not just be an ordinary farmer.
Yu Xiuhua and Han Shimei's poems have their own characteristics, just like turnip greens have their own love, there is no need to compete. What we really want to see from these two women is the drawbacks of arranged marriages, and bad habits should be abolished. But in places where we can't see it, there are many similar things happening that we need to oppose together.