Two days ago, when watching the variety show "Friends Please Listen Well", on the show, a girl poured out such a thing with a crying voice:
"After graduation, I went to Hangzhou, a company I wanted to go to, and then I really worked very seriously every day and worked overtime every day in order to be able to stay.
But the day before I turned positive, the company told me that I hadn't met the criteria for regularization, and then I walked to the side of the road in the rain.
I wanted to take a taxi, but the masters said they were about to turn over.
At the moment when I was about to collapse, there was a driver master, who stopped in front of me and rolled down the window and said to me, little girl, you come to me.
In fact, when I got on the car, I regretted it, it must cost a lot of money to take a taxi, and I have been peeking at the meter.
Then the master said, how much do you usually take a taxi?
Then I said, I usually get home from the company for thirty-two dollars.
Later, when I saw that the meter jumped to thirty-two dollars, he silently lifted the meter up and took me for three or four kilometers for free.
Then when I got out of the car, he handed me an umbrella, and he said little girl, you haven't graduated long, you're still young.
In fact, everyone's life is not easy, but don't worry, your life will definitely get better and better. ”
After listening to her description, the guests unconsciously burst into tears, as if they had returned to the age when they had just entered society.
In fact, everyone has had such a time, confused and helpless, as if all the unhappiness has found themselves. A person is stuck in a dead end, the more he thinks about it, the more extreme it is, and he feels that he is worthless.
At this time, it happened to be a heavy rain, and you would even feel that even the heavens were laughing at themselves.
Fortunately, on such a desperate day, the girl harvested a warmth from a stranger.
Gentleness is hard to heal wounds, but at least it's a painkiller that allows people to breathe in a suffocating life.
Did you know that gentleness has more power than you think?
Before, I thought that gentleness was kindness, courtesy, and a gentle character.
Later, I realized that gentleness is actually a kind of mind, an empathy of "because I have been drenched in rain, I always want to hold an umbrella for others".
Therefore, true tenderness will not only be remembered in people's hearts, but also passed on to more people.
My girlfriend Little Beijing, after graduating from university, her first job in Beijing was sales.
Sales means customer orientation, she has almost no days off, and she does not dare to slack off in replying to guest messages. Also because of the complicated content of work, she often makes mistakes when she first enters the workplace.
Once, she did not arrange a schedule to meet a client, and two groups of clients collided at the same time, and one of the couple even took a special leave of absence to negotiate a contract.
Little Beijing broke out in a cold sweat at the time, thinking that he would definitely be complained about this time.
While busy apologizing and negotiating with both sides, the husband of the couple suddenly waved his hand and said, "It seems that this time the fake white invitation has been made, let's come back next week." ”
Then he turned to his wife and said, "Let's go, it's rare to take a leave of absence, let's go for a walk around." ”
Before they left, they even made a few jokes with Little Beijing, asking her not to make a mistake next time.
Little Beijing later told me that she was the only employee who joined the staff in that class until the end.
She said that she was most fortunate that she met many, many kind people when she was not strong enough.
Although now she has already played monsters all the way to the level of management.
Looking back now, she would ask herself if she hadn't met those kind strangers, would she have given up that job on a crashing night.
So now she often treats the people around her with the gentleness she learned.
After maturity, I also gradually understood that the highest level of gentleness is to make yourself kind, not to force others to be kind.
Just like in "Thief Family", the grandfather of the grocery store saw the little boy taking his sister to the store to steal something, and instead of getting angry, he took two jelly and handed them to the little boy and said, "Don't let your sister do this again." ”
That kindness from strangers allowed the little boy to regain the "concept of right and wrong", which changed his life.
But from another perspective, even if the shopkeeper catches the little boy and shouts "catch the thief", it is not wrong, right?
We cannot assert which is more important, order or compassion, nor is there any position to demand that everyone be so tolerant.
So what I'm trying to say is,
If you have the strength to be considerate, be gentle with others.
If you can ignore it today, let it go.
You don't know if your words will save a person's day or change a person's life.
Remember that there is always unexpected warmth in life, the earth is round, and the good things you do will eventually come back to you.
(The article is transferred from the network by the author Xiaobei)