In the 2009 "Happy Girl" National Top 20 Promotion Competition, because of Zeng Yike's promotion, it triggered a shocking scene that year.
On the stage, Zeng Yike wore an angel shape and sang his original song "The Most Angel".
In fact, Zeng Yike did not perform well on the stage that year, and it could even be called unremarkable.
But she was repeatedly eliminated by Shen Lihui.
In Shen Lihui's view, although Zeng Yike's singing skills are not good, his works are very spirited.
In this competition, the judges had a heated discussion over the question of the contestants' whereabouts.
The promotion result that should have been announced by Shunzi was pushed to the judge Bao Xiaobai.
As a senior musician, Bao Xiaobai's attitude in music is extremely rigorous, and he believes that good is good, and bad is bad.
In the fiercely competitive top 20 stage, opportunities should be left to the strong.
In the face of the judges' arguments, the host came out to ease:
"I don't think Teacher Shen is sympathetic, as a music producer, he may have seen the creative talent of this girl behind Zeng Yike's pitch problem."
After the judges disagreed and argued, Zeng Yike got the opportunity to PK.
Singing again, Zeng Yike's state was well buffered, and she held the guitar and sang a Leo song.
So with the support of Shen Lihui, Zeng Yike got the promotion quota.
At the same time, the most classic scene on the stage of Happy Girls in 2009 occurred.
Bao Xiaobai was dissatisfied with the result of the game and said bluntly:
"I'm willing to use my identity in exchange for the question of staying. After that, as long as such a player's degree, I can only say that he left me gone. ”
In the end, Zeng Yike did not enter the final final, but because of this operation, Zeng Yike exploded overnight.
The judge Bao Xiaobai withdrew from recording, and now rarely appears in front of the screen.
It wasn't until the news of his daughter's death came out that he returned to the public.
01
On December 25, 2021, according to Taiwan media reports, the daughter of the well-known musician Bao Xiaobai died of illness at the age of 22.
Sending a white-haired person to a black-haired person is undoubtedly the saddest thing.
The death of his daughter deeply shocked Bao Xiaobai, and he pinned his strong reluctance and deep fatherly love on good wishes:
"At 10:44 this morning I lost the love of my life, and the little girl went to be an angel."
And solemnly promise:
"After that, Dad will be with you forever and forever, and we will go home."
It is reported that as early as the 90s, it was exposed that Bao Xiaobai married an outsider and gave birth to a daughter.
He attaches great importance to the privacy of his family, almost no exposure of family information, in the early interviews, he once revealed that he named his daughter inclusive, hoping that no matter what kind of realm her daughter is in, she can eventually achieve tolerance.
In fact, this tolerance is not only a good wish for his daughter, but also an expression of his attitude towards his own life.
Bao Xiaobai's love for his daughter stems from the misfortune of his childhood, and he does not want her to be like himself.
In Bao Xiaobai's own words:
"I grew up in an unrelated family, grew up with a ball-like identity, kicked around."
Bao Xiaobai was born in 1967 in Taipei, Taiwan.
His birth was not glorious, and at that time it was even called a family ugly.
Bao Xiaobai has a twin brother named Bao Xiaosong, and the two brothers are the mother's unmarried children, so they are not welcomed.
People in the village often chew their tongues behind their backs, pointing at them, and living in the voice of discussion for a long time, Bao Xiaobai's mother has a very difficult life.
Perhaps in the hope that her son would grow up to be a boy who stood tall in the sky, the mother named the two "pine" and "cypress".
If they sit upright, they will not be so evil because they are "illegitimate children."
In order to better support the family, Bao Xiaobai's mother can only work while taking the child.
When they were young, my mother's shoe shop was an entertainment place for the two brothers, who crawled around the house and were not afraid of people.
The sister of the male employee of the shoe store came to the store to play, and saw the brothers crawling on the ground full of joy,
He wanted to take his two children home for a while, because this male employee was commensurate with Bao's mother, so he also became the uncle of the two children.
No one ever imagined that the uncle's sister would take her two children and raise them for 17 years.
Bao Xiaobai and Bao Xiaosong were only one and a half years old when they were taken away. The employee's sister's home is in the village, which is a wooden plank tin house,
The family is not rich, in addition to the two brothers Of Bao Xiaobai, there are also 5 children.
The Bao family did not give the two children living expenses, so the arrival of the two children made the family even worse.
They called their uncles and aunts' parents grandparents.
Grandpa was very grumpy, and when he learned that the family wanted to adopt the Bao brothers, he firmly opposed it.
However, grandma was very supportive, and she ignored her grandfather's objections and took care of the family's big and small affairs.
Grandma is very fond of the two brothers, almost responsive, and the two little ones are willing to shield Grandma from the wind and rain:
We used to act as Grandma's "firefighters," and whenever we saw Grandpa about to lose his temper, we would drag Grandma to the next door to hide. ”
When he was young, Bao Xiaobai learned to take care of people, and whenever there was fruit at home, he would first taste whether the fruit would be sour and astringent.
After they understood things, they learned that they were only fostered in their grandparents' house, and the sudden change of identity caught the two off guard.
It was also at that time that Bao Xiaobai stopped fooling around, and he gradually learned the truth of "sending people under the fence".
His strange appearance was soon discovered by his grandmother, who could always give him the warmest embrace and comfort every time fear and panic rushed into his heart.
Such a grandmother is like an angel, using her own strength to warm and illuminate Bao Xiaobai's sensitive heart.
"She was very accommodating and cared about us, and I didn't feel sorry for my grandmother."
Perhaps it was this experience that made Bao Xiaobai later name his daughter "Tolerance".
Bao Xiaobai did not live in the countryside for a long time, and the time soon came to his age of primary school.
For the sake of children's studies, grandpa's family moved to Taipei, and it was also at this time that Bao Xiaobai learned that he still had two brothers.
At that time, the two brothers were also sent to their grandmother's house for foster care, and the arrival of the brother undoubtedly added a burden to the family.
So the grandmother discussed with the father whether she could fund the tuition of the two children.
I didn't think that my father didn't want to pay any more after fostering the child, so he kept prevaricating, and Bao Xiaobai, who witnessed the whole process on the side, said angrily:
"Have you fulfilled your duty as a father?"
Hearing this, his father became angry, turned around and slapped Bao Xiaobai, and bought two bicycles after that.
His father's slap turned into the energy of grief and anger, and also became the catalyst for Bao Xiaobai's growth.
He realized that it was better to ask for others than for himself, so he rode the bicycle to find a job delivering newspapers and earn extra money to supplement the family.
In order to make a living, the brothers worked a lot of family work and went to the performing arts company to do miscellaneous work.
Unexpectedly, this part-time opportunity turned out to be a life opportunity.
02
With the help of a reporter, the twin brothers were recommended to the Company of Lyceum, and after auditions, both were admitted.
In 1986, the 17-year-old debuted as a pink teenager and toured all over Taiwan.
The first performance was a warm-up performance for a department store, which made the brothers a hit, and then there were many invitations.
As newcomers to the company, all the publicity and packaging are to run on their own, and they ride motorcycles to become self-reliant.
"The first two years were particularly difficult, veteran artists wouldn't bring us along, it was hard to get on the real stage."
In this way, it was circulated between small stages for two years, and in the third year, it was performed on the "Old Three Stages".
"The performances in the townships are all unpaid, only on TV, one can get 2350 yuan (New Taiwan dollars) of car and horse fees, the rent is paid, there is little left, in order to save money, almost every day is to eat fried vegetables, soy sauce bibimbap."
It was not until 1988 that Taiwan's policy was opened up to the opportunity to be on television, but at this time, the two also reached the age of military service.
When they returned, the Taiwanese music market no longer had a place for them.
So Bao Xiaobai turned to the background and became a music producer for Rolling Stone Records.
Ambitious people will make achievements no matter what industry they are in, and Bao Xiaobai at that time was full of thoughts about making sure to let his grandmother live a good life.
"My childhood experience made me feel very insecure, so I had to do my best in everything, because I was too desperate in my career, and during that time, my relatives and friends called me desperate, except for sleeping, I gave my time to work." 」
Holding his breath, his career soared, and in less than 6 years, he became the director of production and artist development at Warner Records.
Three years later, he was poached by Fenghua Records to serve as deputy general manager.
In 2005, Bao Xiaobai began to start his own music company, and later entered the mainland market as a mentor when the mainland talent show came out.
In the show, Bao Xiaobai became the most poisonous professional music critic, especially after the Zeng Yike incident, this image is even more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
03
On the stage, Bao Xiaobai, who is full of tongues and tongues and hit the nail on the spot, is a full daughter control in life.
Bao Xiaobai is intimate with his daughter, and once he talks about his daughter, he will put away the "thorn" of his body, incarnate as a loving father, and look spoiled.
Due to the nature of his work, Bao Xiaobai has been away from home for many years and rarely returned home, and his concern for his daughter can only be conveyed through his wife.
"It's often like, she calls and says what happened to her daughter lately, I'm a listener."
Therefore, for his family, Bao Xiaobai always has a mentality of worrying about not giving enough, and he does not want his daughter to follow in his footsteps.
Therefore, he is particularly spoiled for his daughter, wants to give her the best of everything, and sends his daughter to live abroad with heavy money.
And his daughter is also very competitive, clever and versatile.
At the age of 7, he jumped to the third grade, liked figure skating and ballet, and was very well educated by his mother.
Bao Xiaobai and his daughter became friends, the two talked about everything, especially during that time abroad, the two often talked on the phone,
The daughter will tell him the troubles, and the crush will also tell him, and Bao Xiaobai is very patient with this, and comforts her daughter to become a good listener.
Family harmony and smooth profit did not alleviate Bao Xiaobai's uneasiness.
He was born in a cancer family, his parents and foster grandparents died of cancer, he was worried about the arrival of this day,
Worry about leaving one day.
The world is unpredictable, Bao Xiaobai's daughter was found to have a rare disease, and the possibility of cure is not high.
In order to accompany his daughter to treat her illness, Bao Xiaobai shirked all her work and took her daughter around to seek medical treatment.
And this illness is like a bottomless pit, without financial resources, he sold the property.
Watching his daughter, who was in her youth, suffering from illness, he was in great pain,
And accuse the injustice of fate:
"She hasn't offended anyone, so why is she circulating pain day after day, endlessly?"
In 2019, he successfully paired his daughter's bone marrow and underwent a transplant using the latest semi-conjugate transplant technology.
After the transplant was successful, the daughter regained her former vitality, but the "rejection reaction" mentioned by the doctor has always been rooted in Bao Xiaobai's heart.
In the face of his daughter, he paid extra attention to the daily diet and exercise.
But the sky is not the way people want.
A year later, her daughter's condition was countered, more serious, lost and regained, gained and lost, so that Bao Xiaobai fell into a collapse:
"The word faith has since been erased in my heart."
And excessive worry caused Bao Xiaobai to have a white head overnight.
He appeared in the public eye again, his face was haggard, and he was ridiculed by the unsuspecting media as imitating Zhou Xingchi.
At this time, he also did not bother to ask the outside world's voices, only acknowledged the news of the child's death.
When dealing with his daughter's affairs, Bao Xiaobai arranged the spirit hall as the theme of purple orchids and white lilies.
Perhaps this is her daughter's favorite flower.
After arranging all the procedures, Bao Xiaobai hugged his brother and cried like a child.
This child, who has been kicked around as a leather ball since childhood, finally failed to get what he wanted and lost the angel in his life.