Wen | Immortals
Marriage is a once-in-a-lifetime event for a person, not only happy and happy, but also hope to be blessed by the people around him, because only in this way can a blessed marriage be happy and complete.
The wedding is based on this, and both men and women enter the marriage hall with the blessings of all relatives and friends and move to the next stage of life.
However, in the wedding is not only the bride and groom, but also the relatives and friends around, and in order to increase the marriage atmosphere, they will also come up with some strange ideas, some of which are kind, which will make everyone feel happy and joyful, but some behaviors are extremely disgusting, which is usually called marriage.
In fact, there are all kinds of wordless disgusting customs in every place, which ordinary people cannot accept, but there are still so many people who fool around for the so-called "raising the atmosphere" and make them happy, but they make couples extremely embarrassed.
Not long ago, I saw a post that the result of a marriage fight in Shanxi was heinous, and the groom actually died violently on the night of the wedding, which made people sigh.
Li Rui's family is from Shanxi, and his girlfriend Xiaoxue met in college, and after graduation, Xiaoxue returned to Shanxi with Li Rui's family. Soon the job stabilized, and the house and car were bought.
After two years, the relationship gradually stabilized, so he decided to get married, and when he proposed, Li Ruijia affectionately told Xiaoxue that he would always be by her side, and the simple language made Xiaoxue excited to tears.
However, when it came to getting married, Li Rui's family was full of sadness, which made Xiao Xue panic at that time, thinking that Li Rui's family regretted marrying himself. However, when I asked, I learned that Li Rui's family was worried about the wedding day.
It turns out that there is a custom in Li Rui's family, that is, on the wedding day to beat the groom, almost all relatives and friends will beat the groom, it is said that this is "more and more lively", and at this time, if the hands-on behavior is exhausted, the couple will never do it again.
Anyway, the results are all good implications, but Li Rui's family has been afraid of pain since childhood, and they have also seen their family and friends being beaten to the head, and there is a shadow in their hearts, no wonder they have jealousy in their hearts.
Knowing this reason, Xiao Xue was relieved in his heart, and smiled and said that he would protect Li Rui's family and not let others beat him, which also made Li Rui's family feel at ease a lot, and would also look at Xiao Xue's sake, and those friends who liked to be lively would not beat themselves too much.
But Xiao Xuegao looked at himself, and Li Rui also looked down on his friends who were married.
On the day of the wedding, he was beaten by relatives and friends around him since Li Rui's family went out, and at first he was only nudged and beaten. However, after Li Rui grafted on the beautiful Xiaoxue, Xiaoxue found that the "best friends" that Li Ruijia had introduced to him before hit him the hardest, and even a few knocks, so that Xiaoxue on the side felt as if li Rui's family had been blinded, while the people around him were still pandering to laughter and vowed to do a good job of this "custom".
And Li Rui's family had to continue to endure, in fact, from picking up Xiaoxue to the hotel, it took only 15 minutes to walk, but this way Li Rui's family was beaten up and walked for nearly half an hour.
Later, at the wedding scene, while the Li Rui family toasted and drank, they sometimes had to guard against being "attacked" from all sides, and these attacks, the Li Rui family could not have half a complaint, but could only smile and greet.
Finally, at night, all the customs and noises were over, and at this time, Li Rui's family had already drunk a lot of wine, lying on the bed but kept shouting uncomfortable.
At that time, Xiao Xue found that Li Rui's face was not good, and at first he thought that he had drunk too much, but after pouring some antidotes, it did not ease, and Li Rui's family had been shouting and having a headache.
Xiaoxue guessed that it was not alcohol, but was beaten, but because it was late at night, and it was very unlucky to go to the hospital on the wedding night, Xiaoxue wanted to take Li Rui's family to the hospital the next morning to check it out.
However, before dawn, Xiaoxue found that her husband's breathing was weak and his pupils were dilated, and he hurriedly called the 120 emergency call, but at that time, Li Rui's family had already missed the best rescue time, and he had died before he arrived at the hospital.
At that time, the in-laws' parents also scolded Xiaoxue for not taking good care of Li Rui's family, but in fact, the most sad thing was Xiaoxue, crying that they kept saying that the more they fought, the more lively they were, and how to stop it could not be stopped. And the words of Li Ruijia, who will always accompany her, still seem to echo in her ears, but the people who can say this sentence have left themselves forever.
After examination, it was found that the cause of death of Li Rui's family was actually the death of internal organs from blunt weapons, and the people who could do these things were definitely the "best friends" in the mouths of Li Rui's family, they beat the hardest, and only they used tools.
But after that, none of those friends admitted that their behavior was wrong, they all said that they had always been making weddings like this, and what did Li Rui's family have to do with them when they died, which made Xiao Xue dumbfounded on the spot, but still sued the three people who made the most trouble at that time.
In the end, the three people were sentenced to three years and made corresponding compensation, but no amount of compensation could be exchanged for the life of Li Rui's family and Xiao Xue's husband.
In fact, there are many such marriages in many places, and many places will also hit the skin and flesh, and even think that this is the "auspicious meaning", but it hurts people, even bleeds, or even kills, I have no auspicious feeling at all, I just feel that people are speechless, it is simply a perverted sense of building their happiness on the pain of others.
In fact, it can be found that the reason why Li Ruijia is so afraid is that he himself has also participated in many such customs, and may have been the person who beat people, but when he was going to become the person who was beaten after he got married, he would be so afraid.
In the final analysis, this custom of beating people is simply ugly, and this kind of behavior is also a typical marriage quarrel, nonsense, especially those so-called good friends, the hands are not light or heavy, and even use blunt instruments, do not know what is called moderate and stop, just want to be happy, but let a young life disappear, even if Li Rui's family is not dead, it is doomed to be seriously injured, which is also harmful to marriage.
So they are sentenced to reasonable, and the most pitiful is Xiaoxue, who lost her husband on the first day of marriage, and this painful shadow will accompany her for many years, but in fact, this kind of thing can be completely avoided, and this kind of man-made disaster can not happen at all. Life is inherently fragile and impermanent, so why don't you know how to be serious and cherished?
Say a thousand ways and ten thousand, marriage in the final analysis is still to make the two people who are married happy, and although different customs are the habits handed down over the years, but today it has long become a bad custom, people who do not know how to be flexible and continue to inherit are only in marriage, as the main body to know to protect their rights and interests, but also to protect their husbands and families, do not be disturbed by the so-called marriage disturbances should be happy family, not to become Xiaoxue, should be whiteheaded with the old feelings of abruptly stopped, leaving a lifetime of sadness!