When the man and woman have just established a relationship, the freshness and happiness fill the hearts of the two, making people feel tender and happy.
However, when the two parties are together for a period of time, they no longer love so hotly, often fall into a kind of confusion, and as the small contradictions deepen, the sense of freshness and happiness becomes thinner and thinner, replaced by a deep sense of powerlessness.
Men, in particular, in order to get the deep love of women, often choose to over-please her, or spend money for her, but the effect is often less obvious, and sometimes even counterproductive.
Compared with women, most men are more dedicated and persistent, so they will constantly be troubled by the question: Why do I give so much, and she still doesn't love me so much?
In fact, if you want a woman to love you to the bone, you don't have to spend money and please, it is enough to do these three things, each point is very important, but it is a pity that many men ignore it.
Don't love too lowly, but have your own spirit
Many men will unconsciously have a sense of humility for the woman they love deeply, become cautious, greet her warmly, and be called by her.
Perhaps, these men believe that the true meaning of love is fulfillment and sacrifice, but they forget that the basis of love is the equality of the relationship between the sexes.
In a relationship, if you are too humble, too low in your posture, and raise the value of the other party, it will only cause two consequences: one is that the other party will feel that you are cheap, no longer cherish you, and turn to look for a man who can bring a sense of conquest to himself; second, the other party will get used to not paying, only accept your infinite sacrifice, and the feelings will become completely deformed.
Most men are humble in their feelings, often because they are afraid of being hurt, but if love is to last, it is not enough to rely on a humble posture, but also to have their own arrogance.
Temperament is not an abstract word, from a certain point of view, it is a courage to conquer women, the confidence and pride of winning women's love, a powerful temperament that emanates from the inside out.
This kind of sharp aura, on the contrary, is easy for women to rely on you, love you deeply, feel that you have a lot of boyfriend power, worth relying on and cherishing for a lifetime.
So, you have to really make the woman feel that you are another master in this relationship, the two of you are like the sun and the moon, complementary to each other, inseparable, neither is anyone's vassal or inferior slave, should respect each other, care for each other, grow together.
Don't be ambiguous with people, only be faithful to marriage in this life
After a man got married, he was still ambiguous with his female subordinates, and his wife was very hurt when she learned of this matter, and she resolutely divorced him, even if he struggled to keep it.
Betrayal is the most likely behavior in the relationship to disappoint women, some people may say: ambiguity is not a real betrayal, betrayal should be a double derailment of body and soul, is to truly have an extraordinary relationship with other people, not just ambiguity.
However, for many women, when a man has already had ambiguous behavior with other women, even if it is only one or two flirts online and one or two sentences of offline interaction, it can be seen that men no longer love themselves wholeheartedly and faithfully respect this marriage.
Even if this ambiguity does not evolve into a true extramarital affair, it will contribute to the division and qualitative change of the marriage.
When everyone was newly married, they had made a vow of "only being loyal to marriage in this life" on the stage surrounded by flowers, under the attention of thousands of guests, and in the voice of the wedding host.
But sadly, many men only regard this oath as a vain, empty slogan, and when they implement this sentence thoroughly, they will know how precious this sentence is, and women will swear to love him doubly because of their partner's unswerving loyalty to themselves to death.
This is like a poem written by the ancients, "Throw in Qiong Yao, repay it with peach and plum", love is originally a report and a return, when one party comes up with full sincerity and love, then the other party will also firmly return the other party, and write this love more timeless and romantic.
Don't love it and stop it, and do it continuously
Many men treat feelings lightly, and the message conveyed by women is not very important to them.
In any case, a man who can really get the deep love of a woman will not stop in a relationship, but can love deeply and continue to operate.
In love and marriage, when a woman asks for something, men must not be perfunctory, but should try their best to satisfy their lover.
A man who will really continue to run a love marriage, every word he says, is very powerful. He will never shirk his responsibilities and obligations, will never be indifferent, and will continue to shoulder the burden of the family.
Of course, this heavy feeling is also based on equality, and we must not become other people's licking dogs.
In the emotional life, people often encounter some challenges, for these love challenges, some people can bravely face the difficulties, get each other's deep love, and achieve a better and firmer marriage.
Some people can only turn their backs on themselves in their feelings, and live more embarrassingly and desperately.
Perhaps, love is a moving song, but whether you can compose this song to be a lingering song, you also need to exert your own subjective initiative, step by step, and make efforts down-to-earth.
Don't love humblely, don't taste shallow, don't be ambiguous with others, just confidently embrace a love, cherish a love, and you will be able to harvest your own most sincere and happy happiness!
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