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One day in January 2010, 31-year-old Yao Chen wrote a letter on Weibo to his lover Ling Xiaosu ten years later:
"It doesn't matter if you're old, I don't hate it, because I'll be old too."
All the netizens who saw this letter were in tears and very moved.
Everyone was determined that Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu would still be together in ten years.
However, just a year later, the couple who used to show their love on the Internet suddenly parted ways.
On January 30, 2011, just one year after Yao Chen wrote a long letter to Ling Xiaosu.
On this day, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu both received divorce documents, ending their seven-year marriage.
After the divorce, Yao Chen deleted all weibo related to Ling Xiaosu.
After that, Yao Chen married the photographer Cao Yu and gave birth to a son and a daughter after marriage.
Ling Xiaosu also married and started a family with actress Tang Yifei, and now she has both children and daughters.
After the divorce, the two lived a happy life.
However, on the topic of "who cheated first", the two sides tore their faces.
01
In 1979, Yao Chen was born in an ordinary family, and his family was far less well-off than Ling Xiaosu's family.
However, because of his good looks, Yao Chen has gained many more opportunities than others since he was a child.
In 1993, the fourteen-year-old Yao Chen had already left the pavilion.
Tall and beautiful, Yao Chen was given the opportunity to study at the Beijing Dance Academy Affiliated High School at public expense.
However, his parents are ordinary workers, and they do not have much understanding of art, and Yao Chen's family also has many concerns about learning to dance.
Yao Chen's parents usually rely on Yao Chen's uncle, and usually like to discuss everything with Yao Chen's uncle.
Hearing that Yao Chen was going to learn to dance, Yao Chen's uncle was the first to disagree.
What I didn't expect was that Yao Chen's parents, who usually listened to the big brother's words, actually sang the opposite tune this time.
Seeing that Yao Chen's parents were so determined to let Yao Chen learn to dance, Yao Chen's uncle stood up and dropped a cup, leaving a sentence "There is no future for learning to dance", and turned away.
Watching his uncle leave angrily, fourteen-year-old Yao Chen was frightened and did not say a word.
In this way, amid the opposition of other relatives at home, with the expectations of his parents and the confusion about the future, Yao Chen left Fujian and went north alone.
Beijing is much more prosperous than the fourth-tier cities in her hometown, and the fourteen-year-old girl is inevitably a little cramped and uneasy alone.
His parents were not around, there was no one to rely on, and Yao Chen could only rely on himself for everything.
Every time he took a dance class, Yao Chen worked extra hard.
Even Yao Chen's dance teacher at that time often commented on her:
"Although this little girl is only fourteen years old, she is very good at observing."
However, even though Yao Chen has spent a lot of effort on dance, dance does not seem to be her "original destiny".
The other students all had soft waists and limbs, and the basic skills were practiced solidly, but Yao Chen's bones were too hard to be true.
Born not to be the material for eating this bowl of rice, thinking of her parents who were full of expectations for her at home, Yao Chen's heart was very unhappy.
If you can't dance, you can only find another way.
At the age of seventeen, Yao Chen was selected to run a dragon suit in a drama troupe.
In the drama troupe, Yao Chen was exposed to something different from dance for the first time, and it was also the first time that he successfully found a suitable industry for himself.
02
Yao Chen, a native of Fujian, did not speak Mandarin very well, and Niu Na, who was a teacher in military art at the time, accepted her as an apprentice to teach her Mandarin.
In addition to learning Mandarin, Niu Na will also explain some knowledge about acting to Yao Chen.
Yao Chen is also very talented in acting, and gradually, she also fell in love with acting.
I haven't decided whether to take the road of acting or not, and Yao Chen is about to graduate.
After graduation, Yao Chen returned to Fujian, commuting to work every day, and his days were dull and boring.
Every day like copy-paste life makes Yao Chen tired, and when she is troubled, she will talk to Niu Na, who is far away in Beijing.
Niu Na thought that Yao Chen had a talent for being an actor, and she suggested that Yao Chen come to Beijing to take the admissions exam of the Beijing Film Academy.
In 1999, Yao Chen was twenty years old.
Quitting his job in his hometown of Fujian, Yao Chen went north again,
With a good temperament and acting talent, Yao Chen successfully received an acceptance letter from the Beijing Film Academy.
Just when Yao Chen packed up his bags and went to school, trouble appeared.
At that time, Yao Chen entered the song and dance troupe and signed a contract, if he wanted to resign, he would have to take out a penalty of 100,000 yuan.
One hundred thousand pieces is not a small amount for Yao Chen's family.
Yao Chen told his father about the liquidated damages, did not scold or stop, Yao Chen's father was silent for a while, and then went out.
At five or six o'clock in the morning, Yao Chen's father finally returned home.
With his father running almost all over Fuzhou, asking for 100,000 pieces borrowed by all his relatives, Yao Chen successfully resigned from the song and dance troupe.
Looking at his father, who was white-headed all night, Yao Chen secretly decided that this time he must mix up his appearance when he went north!
Coming to Beijing again, Yao Chen worked harder.
On the campus of the Beijing Film Academy, Yao Chen and a male classmate had a "deadly love."
03
In the autumn of 1999, Ling Xiaosu came to the Beijing Film Academy with his luggage.
He could never have imagined that here he would meet a woman who could make him worth twenty times bigger.
He wouldn't have thought that the same woman would make him bear the name of "scumbag".
In 1980, Ling Xiaosu was born in a literary and art family in Shaanxi Province.
His mother, Fu Xiaojian, is a director who has directed works such as "Two Guns Li Xiangyang" and has also won awards.
Grandma Shi Lianxing was a celebrity in the Yan'an period, and Grandpa Ling Zifeng also directed "Camel Xiangzi" and was a respected predecessor in the film industry.
Because he was born in a film family, everyone often ridiculed Ling Xiaosu as a "second generation of movies".
Affected by the family environment, Ling Xiaosu has been interested in acting since childhood.
When he was in middle school, because of his weak physique, Ling Xiaosu's parents sent him to study physical education.
Five years of sprint training not only gave Ling Xiaosu a healthy body, but also made him a national first-class athlete just after high school.
Being an athlete is not Ling Xiaosu's dream, being an actor is.
In 1999, with the status of a sports student, nineteen-year-old Ling Xiaosu received an acceptance letter from the Beijing Film Academy.
What Ling Xiaosu doesn't know now is that at the Beijing Film Academy, he talked about a love affair that almost affected him for half of his life.
When he first saw Yao Chen, Ling Xiaosu did not have any impression.
Just vaguely remember that there was a girl in the class with a lean figure and a big mouth, what kind of specific, Ling Xiaosu didn't know much.
Halfway through the freshman year class, neither Ling Xiaosu nor Yao Chen had said a few words.
The two of them, who had almost no contact, gradually looked at each other in the first half of their freshman year.
In an acting class, the teacher let Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen play a couple.
Looking at the big-mouthed girl in front of her, Ling Xiaosu refused in her heart.
Who would have thought that Yao Chen, who had a big grinning personality, would not be accustomed to Ling Xiaosu's childish style in his daily life.
With prejudice and displeasure toward each other, the two's first collaboration ended in an argument.
Later, every time these two people were needed to be paired, the students would see a wonderful "quarrel scene".
Arguing, the two people actually quarreled out of feelings.
As the saying goes: women chase men, compartmentalized yarn.
Finally, in the second half of his sophomore year, Yao Chen called Ling Xiaosu directly to express his intentions.
Seeing that the girls were so active, Ling Xiaosu also showed his liking for Yao Chen without hesitation, and the two of them naturally walked together.
At that time, Ling Xiaosu, who was the "second generation of shadows", had always been a fragrant feast in the class.
With the identity and status of her mother and grandfather in the film and television industry, Ling Xiaosu, who has not yet graduated, has connected several plays.
And Yao Chen was not so lucky.
With no background and no resources, Yao Chen auditioned one failure after another.
The disgruntled Yao Chen poured bitter water on her boyfriend Ling Xiaosu, and Ling Xiaosu asked her mother for help.
With the help of Ling Xiaosu's mother, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu's careers have gradually improved.
Seeing that the sweet two were about to graduate and get married, Ling Xiaosu found that he had more "green hats" on his head.
Through Fu Xiaojian's matchmaking, Yao Chen participated in the filming of the TV series "Divine Whip".
During the filming process, Yao Chen split his legs with actor Guo Jinglin, and more paparazzi took photos of the two people entering and leaving the hotel.
When the East Window incident occurred, Yao Chen cried and confessed to Ling Xiaosu.
She not only said that she would immediately sever ties with Guo Jinglin, but also promised that she would not do anything wrong again in the future.
Perhaps he really liked Yao Chen too much, and Ling Xiaosu actually forgave Yao Chen.
Not only that, Ling Xiaosu also told Yao Chen that the two would get married after graduation.
After marriage, Ling Xiaosu did not treat Yao Chen badly because of her cheating.
Instead, he loved harder.
His wife Yao Chen was filming outside, and Ling Xiaosu took care of the two families with all her heart.
Not only did he take good care of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, when Yao Chen's grandfather was ill and hospitalized, Ling Xiaosu was even more personal in everything.
However, all That Ling Xiaosu had done was only to move himself.
After two years of separation, Yao Chen derailed again.
After filming several scenes without bursting fire, Yao Chen was in a hurry.
Fortunately, she has a mother-in-law who loves her husband and supports her career, and in 2005, Yao Chen finally ushered in a major turning point in her life.
In 2005, just when Fu Xiaojian's friend Shang Jing was preparing to shoot a martial arts story, under the operation of a fierce tiger, Yao Chen finally got the role of "Guo Furong".
The TV series was broadcast, with a sentence of "overwhelming the mountains and the sea" and the role of "Guo Furong" with a cheerful personality, Yao Chen sucked countless powders and became popular overnight.
However, Yao Chen's popularity brought Ling Xiaosu not endless happiness, but one "green hat" after another.
04
After the explosion, Yao Chen took over the TV series "Before and After the House", and the paparazzi with a squat point photographed Yao Chen and Zhou Xiaogang, the younger brother of actor Zhou Xiaobin, meeting at the hotel.
At this time, Ling Xiaosu was also filming "Wrestling King" in the crew.
For the scandal of his wife Yao Chen, he did not take it seriously.
Perhaps unable to bear to deceive her husband who is doing his best, Yao Chen chose to confess to Ling Xiaosu and said that he would definitely handle the relationship well.
After the phone was turned off and he had not returned for a night, Yao Chen returned home again.
She told Ling Xiaosu that she had handled her relationship with Zhou Xiaogang and asked Ling Xiaosu's forgiveness.
If you change to someone else, you may have chosen to divorce a long time ago.
Ling Xiaosu longed for a complete and happy family, and looking at his wife who was tearful and repentant in front of him, he once again chose to forgive.
It is easy to change the nature of the country and difficult to move.
Forgiveness again and again in exchange for not Yao Chen's repentance and real change, but intensified "derailment" again.
In 2007, Yao Chen was invited to join the crew of the TV series "Latent".
During the filming of "Latent", Yao Chen's old problem of cheating on him was committed again.
The crew had a dinner party, and Yao Chen, who had drunk too much, knocked on Sun Honglei's door.
In the scolding war after the two, a reporter also interviewed Sun Honglei's views on Yao Chen's marital infidelity.
In this regard, Sun Honglei only righteously left a sentence :"My tutor does not allow me to do this!" ", he successfully freed himself from this scolding war.
This time, Ling Xiaosu could not bear it any longer, and after one after another derailment, Ling Xiaosu's trust in Yao Chen had disappeared.
Although no divorce was filed, the marriage between the two had already died in name only.
2010 was a very crucial year for Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu's marriage.
This year, with "Wulin Wai Biao" and "Latent", Yao Chen has become a hot big star.
On the other hand, Ling Xiaosu, although he has already filmed TV series such as "Perfect Summer", is still tepid.
But in this year, because of the broadcast of a TV series, Ling Xiaosu's value directly increased by twenty times.
This year, the director of "Days of Living with a Flight Attendant" is casting a starring role.
Seeing Yao Chen's first glance, the director decided to let Yao Chen be the heroine.
But no matter how to choose, the director can't find an actor who is suitable for the male lead.
By chance, the director noticed Ling Xiaosu, who was not very famous at that time.
I heard that Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen are husband and wife, and the director immediately decided to let Ling Xiaosu play the male lead.
The two people in the play rarely relive the feeling of love at that time.
After the broadcast of "The Day of Living with a Flight Attendant", the ratings soared, and Ling Xiaosu also quickly became popular with this drama, and his value increased by twenty times.
Ling Xiaosu, who ushered in a small peak in his career, continued to take advantage of the victory and took over the TV series "The Temptation to Go Home".
With the role of "Hong Shixian", who is scummy and sober in the play, Ling Xiaosu's remuneration and fame have risen again.
The career is booming, and the relationship between the husband and wife has gradually eased.
Not only that, Ling Xiaosu also said in an interview with reporters that the wedding of the two has been put on the agenda.
Without waiting for the news of the two people's make-up wedding, the marriage of the two people went to an end.
A year after the divorce, the two sides each received news of marriage.
I thought that the two families would not disturb each other at this point, but in 2014, a long article by Ju Chunlei broke this tranquility.
05
In 2014, Ju Chunlei, who wanted to be angry for Ling Xiaosu, posted a long article on social platforms accusing Yao Chen of cheating many times in marriage.
Not only that, Ju Chunlei also revealed that Yao Chen had already walked with her current husband Cao Yu before she divorced.
For Ling Xiaosu, this was an unbearable past, so he was reluctant to mention it again.
outsmart oneself.
Instead of giving Ling Xiaosu a long article, Ju Chunlei pushed Ling Xiaosu to the cusp of public opinion.
Yao Chen's team seized this opportunity to bite back, allowing Ling Xiaosu to bear the name of "scumbag".
In fact, this is not the first time that Yao Chen's team has shouted to catch a thief.
As early as shortly after the end of Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen's seven-year marriage, Yao Chen's team had publicly accused Ling Xiaosu of cheating on Tang Yifei.
When the two people were not yet divorced, Ling Xiaosu was still filming the TV series "Lang Heart Like Iron".
At that time, Ling Xiaosu had a good relationship with Tang Yifei, who was in the same crew.
When filming breaks, Ling Xiaosu will even take a mobile phone to photograph Tang Yifei sleeping.
Tang Yifei also did not shy away from her intimate actions with Ling Xiaosu, and sometimes she would even post her "sweet moves" with Ling Xiaosu on Weibo.
And these sweet interactions just happened to become strong evidence that Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu tore each other apart later.
With these interactions with Tang Yifei, coupled with Yao Chen's tearful accusations, Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei had no power to bind the chicken.
At that time, Ling Xiaosu starred in "The Temptation to Go Home" was broadcast hotly, and Ling Xiaosu was also jokingly called by the audience that the role of "Hong Shixian" in the play was the true color.
Most netizens have stood on Yao Chen's side, but Under the social platforms of Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei, they are all infamous names of "scumbags" and "little three".
Although Ling Xiaosu had also stood up to defend Tang Yifei, his actions and remarks were in the eyes of the audience, but they were just sympathetic to Xiao San.
However, the fact that Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen actually cheated on them was inexplicably suspended after the two became a family separately.
It was not until 2014 that Ju Chunlei once again put Yao Chen's derailment on the table, and Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen completely tore their faces.
In the long article published by Ju Chunlei, it was revealed that Yao Chen cheated on Cao Yu when filming "Love Outstanding", and what is even more excessive is that Yao Chen even sat at the head of Ling Xiaosu's bed to call Cao Yu.
Knowing that the phone was the object of his wife's cheating, Ling Xiaosu angrily quarreled with Yao Chen.
For the revelation of Ju Chunlei, Yao Chenming did not respond and fight back too much, but only lightly left eight big characters of "full of absurdity, things are not people".
Secretly, Yao Chen's team once again began to guide the direction of public opinion.
In the entertainment circle where fish and dragons are mixed, public opinion is biased towards whom, who can seize the opportunity.
The weak Ju ChunLei was not Yao Chen's opponent at all.
With a large number of evidences of "Ling Xiaosu cheating on Tang Yifei" in his hands, all of Ju Chunlei's accusations looked pale and weak.
"Negative Hearted Man", "Pan Jinlian", Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei once again carried various infamy.
After this tearing, Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen embarked on completely different paths.
Saddled with the infamy of cheating, Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei's careers plummeted.
On the other hand, Yao Chen, with his identity as a "victim", has become popular in the entertainment industry.
Today's two people already have their own families and children, and in this nearly decade-long public opinion battle, no one can determine who is the real winner.