As a great man of the generation, Mao Zedong had a flamboyant and arrogant side, as well as an emotionally rich and willing adult beauty of ordinary people. Mao Zedong was particularly fond of "matchmaking." Despite the tense life of the battle, he never forgot to care about the marriage of his comrades and staff around him. He was good at using his ingenuity to promote a happy marriage between a couple and left many legendary stories.
Mao Zedong laughed at his sister: "It turns out that you want me to be a red bride."
Mao Zejian was a cousin of Mao Zedong, and in 1923, when she was studying at the Hengyang Provincial Third Female Division, she met Chen Fen, a student of the Hengyang Male Third Division, who was one of the leaders of the Hunan Students' Federation, who was bold and thoughtful, talented, and often organized student movements. After the two met, they gradually became fond of each other, but they did not break through the layer of window paper.
Mao Zejian
In the spring of 1924, Mao Zedong passed through Hengyang on his way to Guangzhou, and stopped by the Third Female Division to visit Mao Zejian. When he arrived at Mao Zejian's dormitory, he saw a note on the wall with a neat and vigorous handwriting, which read:
The book was given to Mao Daxiang Xueyou, Chen Fen.
Mao Zedong then asked Mao Zejian, "Sister Ju, who is Chen Fen?" ”
Mao Zejian did not rush to answer Mao Zedong, but first asked: "Brother, is it not well written?" ”
"No! It is very well written and has a deep meaning. ”
Mao Zejian said happily: "This Chen Fen's nickname is Ju Lingzi, who was originally studying in the Third Division, and he not only wrote well with a brush, but also wrote a good article. A few days earlier, he and I wrote an article entitled "On Women's Vocational Education with Friends" on the topic of discussing women's education, and after publishing it, it had a great impact! ”
"It seems that you admire him quite a bit?"
"Of course, a man has to be like him!"
Mao Zedong smiled and said, "So, Ju Meizi has a crush on him!" ”
Mao Zejian's face immediately turned red, and Mao Zedong encouraged her: "Don't be shy, as long as you are satisfied, I will support you!" Have you ever told him? ”
Mao Zejian shook his head, and Mao Zedong smiled and nodded her forehead with his hand and said, "You! Really, you wanted me to be a red bride for you! ”
"Brother, don't say it, it's a shame!" Mao Zejian shyly ran out the door...
A few days later, Mao Zedong specifically talked to Chen Fen, and he found that this young man had extraordinary eloquence and ambition, and could not help but secretly admire his sister's vision of people.
Mao Zedong then deliberately changed the subject: "Xiao Chen, how old is this year?" ”
Chen Fen replied, "20 years old." ”
Chen Fen
"Did the family give you a kiss?"
"Mentioned! But I have retired again, and now during my studies, the country is in trouble, and I have not thought about marriage. ”
"Yes! There should be this ambition! However, if our generation wants to engage in revolution, it is also possible to find an ideal helper! ”
"Brother Run, as a person like me, whose sister can see it?" Chen Fen smiled indifferently.
"Now there's a girl who has a crush on you!"
"Who?"
"That cousin of my family!"
Chen Fen was surprised and happy in his heart, but his mouth still said: "Ling Mei is erudite and talented, but I am afraid that I am not worthy!" ”
"Don't be modest, I see that your ideals and interests are the same, and I hope that you will take more care of her and help her in the future!"
In this way, under the mediation of Mao Zedong, Chen Fen and Mao Zejian were officially married in 1925. In 1929, Mao Zejian and Chen Fen were arrested and killed, and both sacrificed their precious lives for the revolution.
Mao Ze built a martyr's tomb
Mao Zedong solemnly said to Liu Ying: "Luo Fu is still a good person
In 1935, during the Long March of the Central Red Army, Zhang Wentian fell in love with Liu Ying, who was serving as an inspector in the "Red Chapter" column, and he plucked up the courage to confess to Liu Ying: "Comrade Liu Ying, we have common ideals and beliefs, we all understand each other, and I hope that we will not only be ordinary comrades. ”
Liu Ying understood Zhang Wentian's meaning as soon as she heard it, but she always regarded Zhang Wentian as her teacher, and did not think about love, she directly refused: "I have long planned not to get married in five years!" ”
Zhang Wentian was a mature leader who immediately and cleverly shifted the subject, quickly reversing the embarrassing situation.
Zhang Wentian
Mao Zedong soon found out that Zhang Wentian liked Liu Ying, so he tried to match the two of them, and he said to Liu Ying: "You must find a husband, or you just have it in your mind, showdown with me, which one?" ”
Liu Ying shook her head and said, "No, everyone is a friend." ”
Mao Zedong smiled and said, "Then I will introduce you to you." ”
So Mao Zedong said a lot of personal names, but Liu Ying said no, and finally Mao Zedong solemnly said: "Luo Fu is still a good person!" ”
Liu Ying thought about it for a moment and then said, "Comrade Zhang Wentian is indeed good to me, but I don't want to go any further." I wouldn't get married without going to the base. If you get married on the Long March and have children, you can't raise them, and give them to others, which is tantamount to being a mother. ”
Mao Zedong could only say: "Be well, make a point, it seems that your determination not to get married if you do not reach the base area is quite big!" ”
In April 1935, Li Fuchun, acting director of the General Political Department, transferred Liu Ying to the Central Column as secretary general, Liu Ying felt a little abrupt, so she went to Li Fuchun to resign, but Li Fuchun said: "Comrade Liu Ying is modest!" It doesn't matter, someone will help you when you get there! ”
Li Fuchun
Liu Ying could only obey the order and report to the central column. After she arrived, Mao Zedong took the initiative to ask her: "Do you know who proposed you to come?" ”
Liu Ying said, "Li Fuchun! ”
Mao Zedong smiled and said, "I proposed you to come." In the rear echelon is too tired, you little girl is going to drag down. ”
The main mission of the secretary general of the Central Column is to serve the central leaders, so that Zhang Wentian and Liu Ying have more contact with each other, and their feelings are increasing day by day, until this time, Liu Ying understands Mao Zedong's good intentions, and it turns out that he is creating conditions for himself and Zhang Wentian to fall in love!
One day, the central column marched to the camp, and Liu Ying arranged a house for the central leaders, a total of four houses, she arranged one for Mao Zedong, Zhang Wentian, and Wang Jiaxiang, and the last one was reserved for Chen Yun, who arrived later. Mao Zedong said to Liu Ying: "You can live in this room by yourself!" ”
Just at this moment, Chen Yun came, and Liu Ying hurriedly said to him: "Comrade Chen Yun, this house is reserved for you. ”
Chen yun
Mao Zedong also smiled and said, "Comrade Chen Yun, you can't live here, this is reserved for Liu Ying." If you live here, you are a supervisor, supervising Liu Ying and Zhang Wentian's exchanges. ”
Chen Yun was also sympathetic, and he hurriedly said, "I will move the nest and build a bridge for them!" ”
Zhang Wentian's face was flushed with shame, and Liu Ying quickly stood up to excuse Zhang Wentian: "Chairman Mao, people don't mean that, you can't always joke and bully honest people!" ”
After Mao Zedong's continuous matchmaking, Zhang Wentian and Liu Ying's relationship was indeed getting better and better, and in November 1935, after the Party Central Committee was stationed in Wayao Fort, there was finally a stable environment. Zhang Wentian saw that the time was ripe, so he formally confessed to Liu Ying: "You see, the Red Army already has a home, we should also have a home, right?" ”
Liu Ying was also touched by Zhang Wentian's sincerity and finally agreed to him, so the two moved the cover to a cave, even if they got married and became a family.
Zhang Wentian and Liu Ying
On that day, the news of the marriage of the two people did not go away, Mao Zedong knew that later they lived in the cave, had to make a cave room, he said loudly: "You must invite guests when you get married, do not invite guests when you get married, do not admit it, do not count!" ”
Liu Ying could only smile and said, "Chairman Mao, we are proletarians with nothing, how can we please this guest?" ”
Mao Zedong said, "If you don't invite guests, I won't admit it!" I really congratulate you and write poems! ”
So Mao Zedong read the oil poem he had written:
Li Sanlang, the son of the merry man, does not love the country and the mountains and loves the beauty.
Today, Luo Fu is an emperor, and he loves the country and the mountains and the beauty.
After everyone listened to the applause, Mao Zedong pointed his finger at Li Wentian and said, "You are an enlightened monarch." He pointed at Liu Ying again and said, "You are Lady Xianhui, oh, Dragon and Phoenix Xiangyu!" ”
After Zhang Wentian and Liu Ying got married, because Zhang Wentian was the general secretary, Politburo meetings were often held at Zhang Wentian's home, and Liu Ying did not shy away from taking care of their lives when he was at home. When Mao Zedong saw Liu Ying, he always said, "Niangniang, we have come to a meeting, pour some tea!" ”
After Lin Yueqin and Luo Ronghuan got married, her ex-husband "came back from the dead", Mao Zedong said: You make up your own mind
In June 1937, a ragged, dusty young man appeared in Yan'an. His name was Wu Xian'en, and he was originally the head of the Supply Department of the Red 9 Army, after he had followed the Western Route Army to hexi and returned to the revolutionary ranks after nine deaths. After Wu Xian'en returned to recuperate, he was ready to go to find his wife Lin Yueqin, but he heard that he was married to Luo Ronghuan, director of the Political Department of the Rear of the Red Army!
Wu Xian'en
Wu Xian'en fell in love and married Lin Yueqin, who was also doing logistics work in the Red Army team during the Long March, and the two were like-minded and quite affectionate. After the Red Army arrived in northern Shaanxi, Wu Xian'en became the director of the Supply Department of the Red 9th Army in November 1936, and accompanied the Western Route Army on a westward expedition, while his wife Lin Yueqin entered the Yan'an Central Party School to study.
After more than 4 months of arduous struggle, the Western Route Army finally failed and almost completely destroyed the army. Lin Yueqin, who was far away in Yan'an, received the news that her husband had died, and she couldn't help but be devastated.
In order to let her get out of her grief as soon as possible, the comrades around her introduced her to Luo Ronghuan, and after the two met, they both had a good feeling for each other. Luo Ronghuan reported his love affair to Mao Zedong, who said happily: "Good! Without a family, you are not a complete revolutionary, you two get married, I Mao Zedong must drink this cup of happy wine! ”
With the approval of the Party Central Committee, Luo Ronghuan and Lin Yueqin married on May 16, 1937. A few days later, Luo Ronghuan was ordered to the front.
Luo Ronghuan and Lin Yueqin
However, Wu Xian'en did not die, and after the team was dispersed, he was caught by the Kuomintang reactionaries and imprisoned, and was released after many negotiations by our party. After that, Wu Xian'en went to Yan'an alone while begging, and after thousands of hardships, he walked for 108 days and finally returned to Yan'an!
At this time, not only Wu Xian'en, Lin Yueqin and Luo Ronghuan knew that after they knew, the taste in their hearts was not good, and they did not know how to deal with it for a while.
After Mao Zedong learned about the matter, he was also very shocked, ordinary people may just be marital emotional disputes, but they are not the same, which is related to politics. Luo Ronghuan used to belong to the Red Front, and Wu Xian'en used to belong to the Red Fourth Front, and if this matter is not handled properly, the unity within the two fronts will definitely be affected, and perhaps the overall situation of the War of Resistance will also be affected!
So Mao Zedong invited Lin Yueqin over and first said to her: "Comrade Yueqin, soon after you were newly married, I sent Rong Huan to the front line, and the war was tense, and there was no way out, you will not complain about me!" ”
Lin Yueqin
Lin Pengqin hurriedly said, "Chairman, how can I complain about you?" The War of Resistance Is a Major National Affair, So How Can We Take Care of the Selfish Feelings of Our Children? ”
Mao Zedong nodded and said, "Your ex-husband has returned to Yan'an, are you ready to reconcile with him?" But this is your business, the Central Committee lets you pay attention to it yourself, and the attitude of your female comrades is my attitude. ”
Lin Yueqin is also very entangled and painful, this matter can not be blamed by anyone, to blame can only blame the front of the misinformation of the news, to blame is to blame this era! After spending time with Luo Ronghuan, she knew that she could not do without Luo Ronghuan. She had no choice but to say to Mao Zedong: "I heard that he was captured because of his defeat, was very strong in the face of torture, and was a good comrade." But I..."
Mao Zedong smiled and said, "As I said, I listen to your opinion." Whether to go or stay is entirely up to you, but you have to tell me the truth! I approved you to meet him, and Luo Ronghuan had an opinion for me to explain. After consulting with him, you tell me that this is fair and fair to all three of you, and it is also considered to be benevolent and righteous. ”
After hearing this, Lin Yueqin said movingly: "Chairman Mao, he has asked people to bring me a message, he does not blame anyone, I wish me and Luo Ronghuan love and eternal happiness." You say, should I still go to him? ”
After hearing this, Mao Zedong said happily: "I can afford it, I can put it down, so wow!" Such comrades are good! However, there is no basis for his words, Comrade Yueqin, do you want him to write out the words in his heart, white paper and black words, and it will never be possible to regret it? ”
So Lin Yueqin went to Wu Xian'en once and asked him to write his own "heartfelt words". Luo Ronghuan was also very touched when he learned of this, and he later personally went to Wu Xian'en to apologize, and the two became very good friends.
Luo Ronghuan and Lin Yueqin
Of course, later Wu Xian'en also found his partner Sha Jian again, and the two lived happily after marriage, and had both children and daughters.
Li Yinqiao did not know how to confess to Han Guixin, and Mao Zedong laughed: You are too honest
In 1947, Li Yinqiao came to Mao Zedong's side as a defender. Also in this year, Mao Zedong's daughter Li Ne was 7 years old, but due to the impact of the war, she could not enroll in school normally, which attracted the attention of Fu Lianhui, vice minister of health, who decided to find someone to tutor Li Ne to read and write.
So Fu Lianhui selected Han Guixin, who worked as a nurseryman in the health department system, who had just turned 18 at the time, had experience with children, and had a high culture, and had just joined the party, which was politically reliable. So in October of that year, she came to Mao Zedong's house.
Han Guixin
After Han Guixin came over, Mao Zedong asked her, "Where are you from?" ”
Han Guixin said, "I am from Anping, Hebei. ”
Mao Zedong immediately said to Li Yinqiao: "Yinqiao, you are fellow countrymen!" This is also called fate, you shake hands! ”
Han Guixin's face immediately turned red, and Mao Zedong said: "He is Li Yinqiao, the leader of my party group, and you will also be under his leadership in the future. ”
Gradually, Li Yinqiao found that Han Guixin was enthusiastic, had a strong sense of responsibility, and was also very virtuous, and had a good feeling for her, and Han Guixin also felt that Li Yinqiao was good, but neither of them knew how to break through the "window paper".
One day in 1948, Li Yinqiao's hometown wrote a letter, in which his parents said that they had introduced him to an object. He was in a hurry, but he didn't know what to do, so he had to go to Mao Zedong for advice.
Mao Zedong and Li Yinqiao
Mao Zedong already knew about Li Yinqiao and Han Guixin, and couldn't help but laugh and say, "You, too honest, you go and ask Xiao Han, people's culture is higher than yours, let him help you write a reply letter!" It's called 'throwing stones and asking for directions', see? ”
Li Yinqiao immediately had an idea, so he found Han Guixin, showed her the letter, and said, "What do you think?" If...... If it doesn't fit, just push it off! ”
Han Guixin's face turned red at once, and he understood what he meant, and he whispered, "Then push it away..."
Li Yinqiao boldly said, "Push it off, you can." Your culture is higher than mine, please help me write a reply! ”
Han Guixin said, "You are so clever, if it were someone else, I wouldn't have helped him write a reply." ”
Li Yinqiao then asked, "What if you push it off?" ”
Li Yinqiao
Han Guixin said, "You are really stupid enough, so many people are looking for me, I didn't agree, just wait for you!" ”
Li Yinqiao said happily, "It was the chairman who taught me this clever method, otherwise I would have been really stupid all the time!" ”
At this time, Han Guixin said softly, "Then you will lead me for the rest of my life, and I will listen to you!" ”
In this way, with the help of Mao Zedong, the two finally broke the "window paper" and dared to fall in love boldly, on December 10, 1948, Li Yinqiao wrote a marriage application, and within two days, the superior approved it, but the conditions at that time were limited, and no ceremony was held.
But Mao Zedong always remembered this, and after entering the city in 1949, he repeatedly urged Li Yinqiao and Han Guixin to hold a wedding ceremony, so the two chose to officially hold a wedding on May Fourth Youth Day.
Mao Zedong and Li Yinqiao
In this way, Mao Zedong promoted a couple of lovers. Counting up, this is the 4th time he has done "Moon Old"!