"I heard that God can't be everywhere, so he created Mom."
But Zhang Shaohan's experience tells you that some mothers are not gods, but black hands that push you into the fire pit.
During his illness, he was stripped of all his possessions, and he had no money to pay for medical expenses and was discharged from the hospital with the assistance of his friends.
After becoming famous, his relatives beat a rake, Zhang Shaohan's reputation fell off a cliff, and all his work was terminated.
The realistic version of "A diao" Zhang Shaohan dared to expose the wounds many years later and tell the various pasts of that year.
Zhang Shaohan grew up with his grandmother when he was a child, and his parents got along very little because of business.
Her mother, Jiang Rouyi, and her father, Zhang Zhihong, run a steakhouse, and Zhang Shaohan, who is less than 12 years old, has to help out in the store every day, from serving dishes to washing dishes.
This kind of personality that has helped the family share the work since she was a child has taken root since she was a child.
In the sixth grade, Grandpa sold the family's land and the family emigrated abroad.
Zhang Shaohan's childhood life was so turbulent and displaced.
So her wish is to have a big house that can stabilize the family.
While abroad, his father Zhang Zhihong's business failed.
Later, due to a heart attack, he could no longer continue to work, and the family's life became difficult from a well-off.
Zhang Shaohan is the eldest child in the family, and she has younger siblings under her age.
Seeing the situation at home and worrying that her younger siblings would not be able to go to school, the 15-year-old took the initiative to take on the responsibility of working to support her family.
As long as she can make money, she will do the work of delivering takeaways and washing cars, and the part-time salary will be handed over to her mother.
Zhang Shaohan suffered from congenital heart disease, and her mental exhaustion when working part-time could not withstand the squeezing pain brought to her by her heart.
Fortunately, she is optimistic by nature.
Since she was a child, she liked to sing, and she never cared about being laughed at by people, and still sang every day.
At this time, her parents were still willing to spend money on her, and sold some of the things she had before at home to let her learn to sing professionally.
It really made her change from a five-tone incomplete to a lark-like song.
At the age of 17, she participated in the "China-Guangzhou Pop Star" competition and won the first place in Canada.
The finals were held in Taiwan, and she returned to her hometown.
In the finals, she was signed by the judge Lin Longxuan to Fumao Records, and the family's life improved.
Although there have been ups and downs in the middle, with his moving singing voice and good acting skills, Zhang Shaohan has become an amphibious star of song and television.
A popular song and a popular idol drama pushed Zhang Shaohan to the peak, but the family atmosphere and career went to two extremes.
For Zhang Shaohan, making money is to live happily together as a family, and this wish has failed.
During the time of Zhang Shaohan's fire, her mother was photographed holding hands and kissing with singer Zhang Haozhe in and out of the hotel.
At that time, Zhang's father was doing business abroad, and the couple was in a state of separation, but the two did not divorce, and this matter caused widespread discussion after it broke out.
Subsequently, the parents' divorce may also be because of this incident, and at the same time, it also laid the groundwork for the "tragedy" that happened to Zhang Shaohan later.
In Zhang's mother's view, it was because her daughter was too famous that she was secretly photographed and scolded, so Zhang Shaohan was hated by her own mother at that time and did not know it.
In 2008, Zhang Shaohan suffered a heart attack due to excessive exhaustion, and had to pay a large amount of liquidated damages and suspend all work to treat the disease.
Because of the large amount of liquidated damages that led to the stagnation of the business, the medical expenses needed during the recovery period could only be asked for by the mother.
For so many years, her income was all in her mother's hands, and when she was discharged from the hospital, she asked for medical expenses, but her mother said that there was no money in the family.
That year, Zhang Shaohan was already a little diva that was popular all over Asia, and it can be said that she was the most gold-sucking actress at that time.
Jay Chou borrowed a sports car to shoot her MV, as long as it is an idol drama she starred in, she never has to worry about ratings, and the awards are soft.
For many years, the income has been in the hands of the mother, let alone tens of millions of yuan, but now even 1 million yuan of treatment fees are not given to her?
Zhang Shaohan could not understand his mother's behavior, and finally returned to China after treatment with the help of friends and sisters.
When she returned home, she saw that the door of the house had been sealed.
Going to the collection unit to inquire about the situation, the staff took out a few centimeters of thick material for her and told her: "Everything is not in your name, but in your mother's name." ”
It was her mother who transferred all her possessions during her illness, and everything she had to start with was to start at 0.
Jiang Rouyi, who found that things had fallen, and was photographed before cheating, she began to spread rumors about the outside world.
In front of the media, she rendered Zhang Shaohan harsh on her parents, chaotic private life and even contaminated with "what", especially the last accusation that hit Zhang Shaohan's reputation to the bottom.
Because he had just finished heart surgery, Zhang Shaohan's whole person looked very haggard, and his already thin body could not support wide clothes, which really looked like he had smoked "what" in the eyes of outsiders.
Filial piety, smoking "what", every accusation can make her unable to turn over.
Zhang Shaohan chose to hold a press conference, saying that she and her mother were because of property problems, and she was ashamed and angry before slandering herself.
Things were raging, the front page headlines were all about their family, and Zhang Shaohan was stuck at home for more than a month and couldn't go out.
And that's just the beginning.
Zhang Shaohan's parents divorced and no one raised their children, and his younger siblings were dumped to Zhang Shaohan to raise.
Her money has been swept away, and she still has to raise her younger siblings, and Zhang Shaohan has begun to work like crazy with her unhealed illness.
Things didn't calm down because she didn't bother, and began to affect her brother who was serving in the military.
Zhang Shaohan was affected by the stagnation of her career, and her parents did not care, and also found her brother who was serving in the military.
I didn't have much contact with my family since I was a child, and the atmosphere at home took a sharp turn for the worse within a few years of growing up.
The younger brother was more afraid of his biological parents than he was in love, and refused to get close to them when they met, as if he was afraid that they would beat him.
At that time, Zhang Shaohan's friends accompanied his brother and came forward to stop it, and they were not happy: "Are we going to beat you?" ”
The friend couldn't look down and said, "You've beaten him before." ”
With the blessing of her daughter's fame, no one has dared to give them anger in person for a long time, and the outspokenness of friends makes them feel that they have lost face.
The quarrel intensified, and finally the two elders of the Zhang family also ignored the death on the street and directly beat several friends who were protecting their son.
Even the elderly grandmother came to "join in the fun", kicking and stomping on them.
Passers-by did not dare to dissuade the fierceness of this family, and they all gathered around to watch the hilarity and took a video.
Afterwards, a friend went to an injury test and found that he had been hit with a broken bone.
After beating people, the Parents of the Zhang family also asked Zhang Shaohan to let go of the mansion where he was living and give them 1.5 million yuan in alimony every year.
In order to seek a calm and calm Zhang Shaohan can only verbally agree, but the reputation has been greatly reduced because of their rumors, and once they cut off their work, they cannot afford alimony.
They ignored all this and took their own daughter directly to court.
In court, the parents were like the actresses of the film, crying about how much money and energy it took to raise her from an early age.
In the end, Zhang Shaohan temporarily swallowed all the grievances into his stomach, and the farce was able to end, but what followed was intensified.
The trees fell and scattered, and some superficial friends such as Fan Weiqi quickly broke off their relations with her, turning from good sisters to "irrelevant people".
Poached her assistant not to say, but also to take away all kinds of endorsements that should have belonged to her.
The most she did in those years was clarify.
Can't help but ask, what kind of family did Zhang Shaohan grow up in?
After this storm, the label of filial piety and the chaos of her private life has been following her, and even if she takes out the urine test report, some people still suspect her.
But eventually things will come out one day.
In 2018, Zhang Shaohan participated in "Singer".
The girl who sang "Aurora" at that time chose an unpopular "Atio".
"Who cares about you tomorrow where you are, even if you die on the road."
Singing out the grievances, singing the rebirth of Nirvana, Zhang Shaohan turned red.
Even though she never stopped working for so many years, she only returned to her former glory after "Atio".
The truth of the matter at that time was gradually revealed after the development of the Network.
Many people can't believe that there will be such parents.
Subsequently, the actions of her uncle and father made netizens even more disgusted.
The Zhang family's parents originally swept away hundreds of millions of her assets to squander, and there was no news for so many years that they thought it was a blessing.
But once man's greed has taken a sharp edge, it is a bottomless pit.
When they learned the news that their daughter had turned red, they seemed to see a steady stream of cash machines.
Zhang Shaohan's uncle pushed Zhang Shaohan's father, who was in a wheelchair, and ran to the media to accuse her of filial piety.
Her father, who had been bedridden for years, had not received a dime from her, said he wanted to buy a building for his parents and had not yet received it, and accused her of hiring someone to beat them.
The seven pages of the article were all indictments of her.
In his mouth, Zhang Mama only has a salary of more than 2,000 yuan a month, and a piece of bread must be eaten separately for three days.
Zhang's father was even saddled with a debt of 600,000 yuan, because he could only spend the rest of his life in a wheelchair for surgery.
He also threatened that even if he "gazed", he would write a suicide note saying that Zhang Shaohan was an asshole.
Mother Zhang also joined in, and all the three elders did was to push their daughter and niece into the abyss.
The power of money is infinite, can make Zhang Father put down his dignity and cheating Zhang Mu to unite again, doesn't he feel that his head is still a green oil?
No matter how Zhang's father and uncle cried about their grievances, netizens were not so good at cheating.
When the original 100 million Taiwan dollars were converted into more than 20 million yuan, it was spent in just ten years.
The real estate under Zhang Shaohan's name is also in his mother's name, and the sale is a huge amount of money.
This family is really a black hole.
Insiders also broke the news that in the early years, they talked about the issue of alimony, and it was that the parents of the Zhang family could not see the alimony of 60,000 yuan per month, saying that they would be exempted from talking without 1 million.
In front of the money, the three men opened their blood basin mouths.
They didn't care about Zhang Shaohan's hard-won career, and bluntly said that if they didn't give money, they would destroy her again.
After knowing this, Zhang Shaohan said lightly: "If I meet my parents again one day, no matter what, my family will always be family." ”
Netizens are angry that she can't break this blood-sucking bloodline, and they also feel sad that she is still so kind and soft-hearted.
Although her parents opened the hell mode for Zhang Shaohan's life, fortunately, there is still a warmth around her.
Zhang Shaohan is the big sister of the family, and there is a younger brother and sister below.
After her parents divorced, she took on the responsibility of raising her brother and sister.
This responsibility is what she is willing to do, because her brother and sister give her the only remaining family warmth.
When she couldn't pay for the medical expenses after the operation, it was her sister and friends who had scraped together enough money to bring her back.
If it weren't for the help of his sister and friends, Zhang Shaohan might have to sleep on the street.
She was also bitter and confused after suffering from her parents' choreography.
Her sister told her, "God closed a door for you, and he opened a door for you." ”
Zhang Shaohan, who heard these words, cried bitterly and began to let go, letting go of others and letting go of himself.
Originally, her mother was her agent, and she didn't have to do any work, just to know how much money she made.
Later, the two sides tore their faces, and the sister replaced her mother as her agent.
Unlike her mother, who is selfish, her sister is completely loving and protective of her sister.
When the crowd was crowded, it was my sister who held Zhang Shaohan from behind and protected her all under her small body.
The sister was afraid that her sister would be hurt, but the mother's father inserted the sharpest knives for the daughter.
In zhang Shaohan's every trip, he can see the figure of his sister and take good care of his sister.
She also sent a photo of the three sisters and brothers, and her sister also forwarded this Weibo to thank her sister: "Thank you for taking care of us for so many years, I hope that one day we can take care of you, just like your selfless dedication of youth." ”
The younger brother also stood up to defend his parents several times when he slandered his sister, and often made some delicious three sisters and brothers to share.
This is the real family, right?
Fortunately, everything has passed, and Zhang Shaohan has finally come out of the hell mode arranged by his parents.
She was also the kind girl of that year, and her friend Wu Qingfeng commented on her: "You would rather bear these hurts than hurt the people who hurt you." ”
After the family fell apart, Zhang Shaohan did not say a word of rumor from his parents.
The harm brought to her by the original family is a continuous bleeding wound, and even if she is relieved, she will be cut by her parents' knife and bleed again.
In 2015, she was photographed shopping with Sky, a handsome guy outside the circle, and she admitted that the two had been dating for five years.
In 2017, Zhang Shaohan and her boyfriend spent seven years of itching, saying that their feelings were stable.
Up to now, the two have been dating for 12 years, but there is no news of marriage.
The original family still did harm to Zhang Shaohan.
When asked about marriage, she replied: "Of course it is good to have a marriage, and it is not a big deal if there is not." ”
"When you are lonely, even two people may be lonely, but when you seem lonely alone, that is the greatest freedom." 」
This passage comes from Zhang Shaohan's mouth, which is to see the feelings thoroughly, but also to be unconfident in marriage.
She was no longer the little girl who longed for the warmth of her family.
She would feel lucky to be able to get it, and it would not be a pity to lose her, these are the sequelae of the harm brought to her by her original family.
However, Zhang Shaohan is also a person with strong vitality, and when she is rebellious and separated, as long as someone gives her a trace of insignificant warmth, she can be reborn like a phoenix.
I just hope that this girl with "invisible wings" will be all right in the future.