In 2004, Yang Leigang, Guo Donglin and Guo Da performed the skit "Good People Don't Discount" on the Spring Festival Gala stage, and finally got out of the tense atmosphere and quickly went to the backstage to remove her makeup.
At this time, her husband Dai Zhicheng called, thinking that he would exaggerate his performance today, who knew that the first sentence he said:
"You're a good woman and I'm not a bad man, but the two of us together aren't necessarily good couples, let's get divorced."
Yang Lei did not know at this time, in fact, her husband had fallen in love with another woman, and this woman was her good girlfriend Yuan Yin for many years, that is, Hou Yaowen's wife at that time.
Coincidentally, Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei divorced, and Yuan Yin divorced Hou Yaowen.
It was also from this time that Yang Lei left the Spring Festival Gala stage for 10 years, and when she learned that Dai Zhicheng's marriage partner was a former girlfriend, Yang Lei's heart had already planted a seed of hatred.
Now, after 18 years, the gap between Yang Lei and Dai Zhicheng's lives is too big.
01
In 1987, the 24-year-old Yang Lei stepped on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, which was the first time she had appeared on such a big stage as the Spring Festival Gala, and at that time, she was extremely nervous and could only use rubbing her hands and taking deep breaths to relieve it.
However, at this time a gentle voice came from behind, "Don't be nervous, the skit is to bring joy, you should relax a little."
After hearing these words, Yang Lei was not nervous for a moment, and strode onto the stage to successfully complete the performance.
This person is Dai Zhicheng, who both appeared on the Spring Festival Gala that year, and this encounter also made him an unforgettable person for Yang Lei.
In fact, Yang Lei was able to board the Spring Festival Gala, and it was indispensable to the help of her parents behind it.
In 1963, Yang Lei was born in an ordinary family, the family conditions are not rich, but as the pearl in the palm of the family, Yang Lei's childhood is full and happy.
The key is that at that time, Yang Lei's academic performance was good, not only the teachers and classmates liked her, but the neighbors often compared her with their own children, truly "other people's children".
For this reason, her parents also hope that Yang Lei can become a teacher or doctor when she grows up.
But Yang Lei did not want to follow her parents' ideas, because she was obsessed with drama at that time.
Parents often see Yang Lei coming home from school to finish her homework, so she runs to the courtyard alone to watch dramas and study dramas, so they ask her:
"You like drama so much, why don't you go to a drama school?"
Yang Lei originally thought that she was not doing a good job studying drama at the age of study, but she did not expect that her parents not only did not blame after seeing it, but also silently supported themselves behind their backs.
In 1984, after graduating from high school, Yang Lei applied for the Xi'an Drama Theatre, and at the age of 21, she became a younger group of actors in the troupe.
Because he often practiced by himself and had a certain understanding of drama, he quickly showed strong performance strength after entering the drama theater and won the favor of the leaders in the troupe.
Yang Lei, who has received attention, is full of self-confidence and is bound to learn to perform well.
In three years, Yang Lei not only learned professional knowledge, but also participated in hundreds of performances of all sizes, and won dozens of first places.
Although the time of joining the group was not long, the name Yang Lei already had a lot of fame in the circle at that time.
To this end, she also received the attention of CCTV, and invited her to participate in the Spring Festival Gala performance of that year in 1987.
At that time, when she received this news, Yang Lei couldn't believe that this was true, and this kind of good thing would fall on my head so quickly?
It wasn't until she started rehearsing that she realized that she was really about to appear on the Spring Festival Gala and perform in front of a national audience.
At the same time as her rehearsal, Dai Zhicheng watched happily next to her, and her little heart also kept beating.
So after Yang Lei finished rehearsing, he took the initiative to come forward to talk, but he did not expect that the two felt very speculative between talking, and both sides had a good feeling.
Because Yang Lei was on the Spring Festival Gala for the first time, Dai Zhicheng came forward to encourage her not to be nervous, and the two became good friends after the performance.
After this performance, Yang Lei became a household name at that time, while Dai Zhicheng was still not famous.
However, Dai Zhicheng also modestly sent blessings to Yang Lei, and the two chatted more and more vigorously, until Dai Zhicheng confessed to her, Yang Lei found that something was wrong.
Because at that time, Yang Lei did not want to find someone in the circle to marry, and only regarded Dai Zhicheng as a confidant friend.
But after three years of acquaintance, Dai Zhicheng has been held by Yang Lei and is unwilling to give up this opportunity.
Then they began to pursue more fiercely, and Yang Lei was finally touched by Dai Zhicheng, and they were also upgraded from friends to lovers.
Although the fame and status of the two people at that time were quite different, the feelings at that time were relatively simple, not affected by the status of money, and the right look was a lifetime.
Yang Lei, who held this fantasy, did not expect that Dai Zhicheng after marriage gradually exposed his own nature.
02
In 1993, Yang Lei saw that Dai Zhicheng had been working hard in the circle for many years and was still tepid, so she introduced her to Jiang Kun, a big coffee in the cross-talk industry, and the two began to cooperate from this year.
At that time, their works such as "Family Fun" and "Stomping Feet" were deeply loved by the audience.
Also in this year, Hou Yaowen and Nortel high-quality student Yuan Yin married, Yuan Yin and Yang Lei had a good relationship, and later the two also became girlfriends who talked about everything.
During that time, relying on Yang Lei to introduce him to resources, Dai Zhicheng's status and fame in the circle rose significantly, for which he was also very grateful to Yang Lei and spoiled her like a treasure.
In 1997, the two registered for marriage, and when they got married, Yang Lei felt that she had found the right person in this life, even if many people around them were divorced, they still thought that their feelings were strong and they would definitely come to the end.
Indeed, during the period when he first got married, Dai Zhicheng still treated Yang Lei as usual, and Yang Lei introduced more resources and insiders to Dai Zhicheng.
The two help each other and support each other, Yang Lei's life under the love of Dai Zhicheng is also very moist, but what follows is getting fatter and fatter.
However, Dai Zhicheng did not show half disgust, and often praised her:
"Slightly fat is the most perfect"
Yang Lei, who feels that she is deeply loved, has no worries, should eat and drink, and the fattest time has reached more than 160 pounds.
Dai Zhicheng, who was trusted by his wife, was busy socializing and often did not go home, and Yang Lei also adhered to the principle of trust but did not ask him why.
In fact, at this time, Dai Zhicheng was no longer humble, and he was even less interested in the increasingly obese wife in front of him, and his continuous praise for her in his daily life may also be a mixed answer.
What Yang Lei did not expect was that the husband she supported would actually cheat on her girlfriend, and even almost be banned.
The cross-talk community attaches great importance to etiquette and generational division, and Dai Zhicheng usually has to call him Uncle Shi in front of Hou Yaowen.
However, what Uncle Shi did not expect was that when he was busy performing outside, his nephew actually took his aunt?
At that time, Hou Yaowen's wife Yuan Yin was good-looking and young, although she was called aunt, but she was 5 years younger than her wife.
Because Yuan Yin and Yang Lei have a good relationship, they will go to her house to play without incident, and they can also say a few words to Dai Zhicheng, at that time, everyone has a family, so they are very relieved to stay together.
But slowly Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin developed undeserved feelings and secretly got together without their respective families.
During that time, Dai Zhicheng always found various excuses that he wanted to go out to socialize, but in fact, he went to see Yuan Yin.
After a long time, Dai Zhicheng thought of marrying Yuan Yin home, so the two sides discussed their divorce.
In fact, even if the two do not secretly get together, perhaps divorce is inevitable.
Because Dai Zhicheng no longer had any feelings for Yang Lei, and Yuan Yin was often snubbed by Hou Yaowen, he was also discouraged.
In 2004, just after attending the Spring Festival Gala, Yang Lei received a phone call from Dai Zhicheng saying:
"Let's get a divorce"
Yang Lei, who is usually spoiled, did not expect that this moment would come so suddenly, and she did not believe that Dai Zhicheng would really divorce her.
So after returning home, Yang Lei very much wanted to save Dai Zhicheng, although she said that Dai Zhicheng was indifferent, which gradually made Yang Lei lose confidence.
So she remembered the previous scandal about Dai Zhicheng, and Yang Lei asked him:
"Are those things true?"
Dai Zhicheng did not want to say more to her, and later Yang Lei found a friend to persuade him, but the answer was:
"Sister, there is no hope"
In the end, disheartened Yang Lei agreed to divorce Dai Zhicheng, and when dividing the property, Dai Zhicheng did not even leave a mop to Yang Lei.
The key is that at that time, Yang Lei did not know that Dai Zhicheng had already gotten along with his good girlfriend Yuan Yin.
03
In the second half of 2004, Yuan Yin and Hou Yaowen proposed divorce, and Hou Yaowen happily agreed.
After both parties divorced, Dai Zhicheng was able to be with Yuan Yin in a bright and honest manner, and at this time Yang Lei suddenly woke up to the fact that her ex-husband had already liked his girlfriend.
At that time, she felt that she was ridiculous, and when Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng met, she was introduced by herself.
If this is the case, then usually a few people stay together, is not he an outsider?
Therefore, after the divorce, Yang Lei could not get out of the pain for a long time, she did not appear on the stage for a long time, and her figure began to lose weight day by day.
And at that time, Yang Lei's parents were also sick, and she didn't want her parents to worry, so she had to hide in the room alone and depressed.
But since she was a child, her parents, who have been very fond of her, can not see her sadness, and when they see her health getting worse and worse, their parents are also very distressed, dragging their sick bodies to visit their daughters.
At that time, the happiest was Dai Zhicheng, who finally married Yuan Yin, who had been in love for a long time.
After marrying the person he likes, Dai Zhicheng is radiant and works harder to participate in the show and various performances.
It is said that once when Dai Zhicheng, who remarried, met his ex-wife Yang Lei, he also took the initiative to come forward to greet him, and there was no sense of guilt in his heart, and Yang Lei only responded to him with a smile, turned his head and became light and cloudy.
Under the wash of time, Yang Lei also slowly walked out of the sadness of divorce, anyone may be hurt in marriage, how can she be an exception, every time she thinks of this, Yang Lei gradually put it down.
Today, the two have been divorced for 18 years, but their lives are very different today.
Since the divorce, Dai Zhicheng has participated in performances more and more frequently, but later with the rise of the Deyun Society, the cake of those older generation of cross-talk actors has also been cut away by a large piece.
But even so, in the cross-talk industry, they are still powerful players, they have not stopped their love for cross-talk, Dai Zhicheng and Jiang Kun have been working together since 1993, and have been around for 29 years.
On the stage of this year's Spring Festival Gala, the figures of the two appeared again and cooperated in the cross-talk "Happy Dialect", although the effect was average, but it could also be performed at the Spring Festival Gala, which was also a matter of pride.
And after marrying Yuan Yin, Dai Zhicheng was even more fond of her, and the two did not separate and quarrel again, living a plain and happy life.
However, Yang Lei, on the other hand, is very different from him.
After the divorce, Yang Lei took 10 years to get out of grief, and in such a long time, Yang Lei missed too many things, and her feelings, career and age were wasted.
Until 2015, Yang Lei, who was ready to start again, set sail again, so she took the long-rehearsed program to the Spring Festival Gala, but in the end she was rejected because of the length problem.
Yang Lei, who has been fortunate to be cared for for half a lifetime, finally planted a big heel in marriage, fortunately, now she has taken these things very plainly.
Once, the two participated in a show at the same time, when Dai Zhicheng stepped forward to shake her hand, Yang Lei did not refuse, and later she said:
"If I refuse, everyone still thinks I still have him in my heart, and now I just think of him as a passerby, and passers-by shake hands with me, of course, I will respond out of courtesy." 」
Later, Yang Lei found out that divorce was the most correct choice, because in the period after marrying Dai Zhicheng, she had to rely on him for everything and lived a very confused life.
Now that I am divorced, I am more sober, and what I get on my own is the most reassuring, without looking at anyone's face or being cold to anyone.
Marriage is not the end of love, divorce may be the beginning of a new life.
Although Yang Lei has lost her vision of love, she has more expectations for life.
Now she no longer has any intersection with Dai Zhicheng, nor does she re-acquaint herself with a new boyfriend, she just wants to use her own hands and live the life she wants.
Only when you are strong and do not live on others, you will not go to the "dead end" of life.