She is known as the most beautiful transgender person in Korea, more beautiful than a woman after transgendering, but divorced her husband because she could not have children, she is Ha LiXiu.
Ha Li Xiu
A feminine consciousness that I have had since childhood
Ha Lixiu, whose original name was Lee Kyung Ye, was born in the winter of 1975 in an ordinary family in South Korea, because he was a man, so since birth, his parents have loved him.
But unlike many young boys of the same age, the good-looking Ha Lixiu does not flock with boys, but likes to play with girls.
Ha Li Xiu said to herself
When the adults praised him for his beautiful appearance, Ha Lixiu was even more joyful from the heart, and it seemed that from that time on, he clearly realized that although he was a boy, his soul and heart were a full girl.
Under such a thought, coupled with the influence of the Korean environment, Ha Lixiu not only loves to be beautiful, but also dresses herself beautiful and cute since she went to school, and walks like a girl.
It can be said that if it were not for the masculine voice, the average person would never be able to see that he was actually a boy.
But He lixiu's behavior has aroused the disgust of his father, who believes that his son not only dresses up as neither a man nor a woman, but even some of his daily behaviors have begun to become very "charming", not at all like a normal little boy.
Before Ha Li Xiu changed sex
Because of this, the father's attitude towards Ha Lixiu later became very bad, not only often scolding his son in front of the guests, but also kicking him when the son fought with the child next door to ask for help, and even angrily reprimanded him for not crying during the fight after the kick.
Ha Li Xiu said to herself
In addition, being beaten by a belt to pay for an outing, being stripped naked and driven out of the house, etc., are the norm for my father to Ha Li Xiu.
Because of this, The relationship between Helixiu and her father has not been very good since she was a child, and after going to junior high school, they have hardly talked much, and the relationship is as strange as a stranger living under a roof.
Before Ha Li Xiu changed sex
Coupled with his behavior as a "woman" who likes boys, it makes the relationship between father and son more and more incompatible.
Perhaps angry at her family's incomprehension, Ha Lixiu made a major decision at the age of 18, that is, to run away from home and work in a bar.
Because in this way, he can not look at the strange eyes of the people around him, he can completely look like a woman, and he can also make a boyfriend.
At the same time, you can also save money by the way, and you will have the opportunity to have sex reassignment surgery in the future and become a real woman.
But what really made Ha Lixiu determined to change sex was because of her beloved boyfriend.
From 1995 to 1998, when Ha Lixiu was studying in Tokyo, she underwent one sex reassignment surgery after another in Japan.
Ha Li Xiu said to herself
Fortunately, kung fu pays off, and after many hardships, he finally became an absolute woman in the physiological sense when he was 23 years old.
And since the transgender, countless good fortunes have also been madly smashed at Helixiu for a while.
The most beautiful transgender person in Korea
Venus transgender took only a year, but it took Ha Lixiu nearly 5 years to transform herself into a woman.
Although they all became women, Venus still has a slightly male appearance, while Ha LiXiu is completely a woman.
Ha Li Xiu
The exquisite and beautiful face, coupled with the graceful posture, led to Ha Li-so's return to South Korea in 1999, and she was quickly photographed by a star scout and discovered as a model.
And with absolute advantages, she also once attracted the attention of many entertainment companies, so as to shoot a lot of advertisements and magazines, becoming the most beautiful transgender actress in South Korea.
Although Ha Lixiu's transgender identity has caused her a lot of controversy, this has not hindered the development of her career.
At the end of 2000, Ha Lixiu brought her own self-titled album and entered the entertainment industry strongly.
After that, her career was once smooth, not only quickly got the opportunity to appear in movies, but also launched her own song album, and served as the host of music programs, which won the love of many audiences.
In the hottest years of Heli Xiu, she also entered the Taiwan entertainment industry and co-starred in the idol drama "Hey! Dear".
Cast
She played the beautiful and capable and infatuated "Lu Jialing" in it, which is still the white moonlight in the hearts of countless people.
In addition, she has also participated in filming, symbolizing the popular actors' "Happy Base Camp" and "Dance Forest Conference" and other well-known domestic variety shows, and the heat can be imagined.
Ha Li showed on the variety show
And according to Ha Lixiu herself, when she was at her hottest and busiest, she could earn 100 million won a day, which was equivalent to a reward of 530,000 yuan at that time.
But don't look at her as a transgender person, she can mix so smoothly in the entertainment industry and keep her career in order, but usually behind the bright and beautiful, there is often an unknown heartache.
Ha Li Xiu
Even Ha Li-so, who has been called "the most beautiful transgender person in Korea", is no exception.
The heartache behind transgender identity
Do transgender people have love? Ha Lixiu's answer was yes.
On May 19, 2007, Ha Li-so and her boyfriend, Jung Young-jin, who is 6 years younger than herself, held a relatively grand wedding banquet in Seoul.
Ha Li Xiu wedding photos
Since the two announced their relationship, they have completely ignored the speculation of the outside world and have always been a loving look.
After marriage, they are as loving as before, and their sweet appearance makes many fans envious.
Ha Li Xiu and Zheng Yingzhen
Unfortunately, this beautiful marriage still has to face the problem that all transgender people will encounter, that is, infertility.
Although Ha Lixiu also wants to have children for her husband, she can't do it due to her physiological structure.
She had also thought about transplanting her uterus, but apart from the complexity and success rate of this operation, the one-year hospital stay made her unacceptable.
After all, in the rapidly changing entertainment industry, it is possible to be replaced by anyone who leaves for a month, let alone a year's time. Giving up your career for the unlikely unsatisfactory surgery is bound to be a loss-making business.
Ha Li Xiu
Seeing that there was no hope of having a child, Ha Lixiu turned her eyes to the adopted child, but unfortunately, for various reasons, the adoption application of the two was also rejected.
In this way, ten years passed in a flash, and they still chose to divorce.
At first, there was a lot of speculation about the reason for the divorce between the two, some people said that it was because the man's career failed, and some people said that it was because of the gathering of less and more.
Later, Ha Li Xiu clarified these rumors on the show, and said that the two were separated only because they could not have children, that's all.
As soon as these words came out, it instantly stunned countless melon-eating masses, after all, before marriage, the man should have known that Helixiu could not have children, but now he is using this to divorce, which is too chilling.
However, in addition to the emotional pain, the physical torture is the most unbearable place for Ha Lixiu.
According to herself, because of the transsexuality, resulting in her own hormonal imbalance, she also experienced menopause in advance in her 20s, and because of this, she was depressed and had suicidal thoughts.
She is only 45 years old in the show, but she also said that she is now experiencing a second menopause, and her mood is greatly affected.
In addition, because Ha Lixiu was too young to undergo gender reassignment surgery, coupled with the excessive diet and weight loss for the sake of beauty and acting career, wearing high heels and dancing, she also suffered from severe osteoporosis, and bone density was even lower than that of her 80-year-old mother.
However, Heli Xiu is very indifferent to this, she thinks that there must be gains and losses, blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, just like when she went to transgender for her boyfriend, where would she know that she would enter the show business circle because of this, and become a hot actress!
Perhaps because she is open-minded enough, not long after ending her last marriage, Ha Lixiu met her true destiny, a reliable and stylish 1 meter 8 entrepreneur.
Nowadays, with the savings of so many years of hard work, the 47-year-old Helixiu has lived his life with taste, not only running his own nightclub, but also creating a dog clothing brand because of his dog love, and his life is both hopeful and happy.
So think about it this way, maybe all the suffering she suffered earlier was to pave the way for her happiness now.
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