Yi said that the gathering place for women's growth, may you not wear armor, you can resist thousands of life is not easy, welcome attention.
What does Special Ops Glory talk about? This is an agreement with the reader, and it is not that I have not read it for a long time, but I do not know how to write. Often read the articles that Yi said, we all know that this is women's self-growth, looking at things from a female perspective, expanding the world of self-knowledge, rarely writing male roles here, and rarely involving things other than self-growth and emotions.
Writing the drama "Glory of Special Combat", I am not very good at it, but it does not mean that watching this drama is insensitive, on the contrary, I feel a lot, which is the impact and love of subverting and refreshing cognition.
Being strong is the weakness of a strong person
This drama is different from the plot of the return of the king and the counterattack all the way in many plays, although Yan Baoyue is a new soldier, how to see it has the potential to be a soldier king. Before joining the army, he had been trained by his father for seven years according to the standards of a soldier.
Such an excellent seedling, is it possible to go all the way up the clouds and cultivate into a more excellent person?
No, Yan Baoyue's strength and excellence just became his weakness, allowing him to enter the cooking class, and he was not favored by his superiors, or even looked down upon.
Why?
A person who is strong from the heart to the ability is bound to be a loner, because he is no longer on the same level as the crowd. A person's strength will become an advantage that everyone envies, it will also become an excuse for many people to be jealous, and it will become a reason why others are afraid and difficult to approach.
However, in this drama, it is told to you at the beginning that Yan Baoyue's excellence and strength cannot make him a qualified soldier, let alone a soldier king. One thing is repeatedly mentioned in the play, that is, to integrate into the collective and attach importance to teamwork.
For Yan Baoyue, the experience of being kidnapped in his childhood made him unforgettable, and also let him know two life beliefs, the first is to rely on others is not as good as relying on himself, and the second is only to be strong to get rid of all troubles. These two life credoes are not to mention Yan Broken Yue, for the vast majority of us, it is also true.
The result? Yan Baoyue's first growth after entering the army was that his unquestionable life creed was broken, and he was assigned to the cooking class because of his persistence. A man who has been preparing for seven years and thinking about holding a gun all the time turns out to stand in front of the stove and turn the spoon upside down, and a person who has accumulated seven years of strength to prepare for the baptism of fire, the result is to receive the most ordinary smoke and fire.
Being a soldier in the cooking class was Yan Baoyue's first growth, and it also made him learn to look down at the road.
There is nothing wrong with being strong and excellent, but always tell others that I am the strongest, I want to overcome everything, this temperament will often become my own weakness, become a stumbling block on the road of life, will fall, and may fall very badly.
From the cooking class to the correspondent, has Yan Baoyue completely grown? It can only be said that there is growth, but not completely.
Focusing too much on yourself will cause the lights to go dark
Many people say that Yan Break yue is very dragged, this dragging temperament has been deeply rooted in the bones of Yan Broken Yue, in his opinion, this is not to accept defeat and not bow down, always upward to make themselves strong state, but in the eyes of others to drag. For this kind of drag, some people will appreciate it, but more people are not used to it.
You could argue that the strong are always lonely, and those who don't get used to it are jealous. But the show also tells you that good people are strong but not loners.
Yan Baoyue's tugging made many people uncomfortable, because his eyes were too focused on himself and ignored everything around him. Others say he is cold and selfish, too fond of performance. But in fact, Yan Baoyue was not a selfish and cold person.
His problem is to be highly self-focused and problem-solving, like a spotlight on stage, a beam of light focused on one place is bright and strong, but at the same time makes the surroundings darker.
A high degree of concentration is conducive to doing one thing to the extreme, but too much concentration will make yourself the only one in the world and nothing else. For this fast-paced society, the refinement of the division of labor also means more teamwork.
In this drama, the more important point is that it no longer ignores environmental factors to blindly emphasize the strength of individual ability, but puts the individual under the environmental background and highlights the role of the team and comrades-in-arms. An excellent soldier is no longer a single soldier with outstanding combat ability, but also has the quality of coordinated combat.
That is, a good person is strong, but a strong person is not necessarily excellent. Focus on individual abilities while also having the ability to get along with and cooperate with people. No matter how strong the individual ability is, he cannot see the role of others, or ignores the others in the team, he will still fail, and it is impossible to become a qualified soldier, let alone a good soldier.
The biggest enemy is not others but yourself
It is not an easy thing for everyone to overcome themselves in their hearts, so for individuals, the biggest difficulty is not to face themselves squarely, not to face their own problems. What is special about "Glory of Special Combat" is that it shows humanity to the greatest extent, does not render the joy after defeating the enemy, but pays attention to the inner feelings of the victor.
Yan Baoyue killed three drug dealers in a row during a mission. Everyone, including Yan Baoyue, thinks that he is a strong person, but in fact, the psychological trauma left by this incident cannot be ignored. Yan Baoyue did not want to believe it, nor did he want to admit that he still had a sick and weak side, and it was Ai Qianxue who made him face himself again.
Ai Qianxue took him to visit those veterans, and Yan Baoyue's heart was once again shocked and shocked, which also made him begin to understand that people are always people, not machines, even if they make themselves more capable, they can't help but look inward and not take care of the fragile child in their hearts.
It's a physical feeling that reminds us to pay attention to our inner changes.
There is an emerging field of psychology called embodied cognition, which is the belief that there is a close connection between physiological feelings and mental states. Through our physical discomfort, we can know our own psychological changes and states.
Only by admitting that he had a problem could Yan Baoyue receive treatment and get himself out of the psychological shadow. Similarly, for each of us, the first step to growth is not to rush to make ourselves stronger, but to learn to look inward and admit that we can't do it.
For a strong understanding, Yan Baoyue already had a deeper understanding. In front of all the team members, he admitted that he had been afraid to stay in the enclosed space because of his childhood abduction experience, which had plagued him for many years, and as a result, he was cured by his comrades-in-arms.
In "Special Battle Glory", Yan Shaoyue also has the shadow of many of us, even if his ability and heart are already very strong, but he still needs to grow up again in order to transform into a qualified soldier and an excellent person.
And when we run hard in life and want to make ourselves strong, do we also remember what the real meaning of being strong is? Presumably, like Yan Baoyue, you already have the answer in your heart.
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