In 1973, in a village called Yangjiazhai on the edge of the Yellow River, a rough-looking, hungry man with golden eyes was fighting with another young man on the yellow soil, just for a white-faced bun.
"At that time, whoever bullied me, I would do it with whomever I wanted, the main purpose was to compete for food. Big pot rice one person a steamed bun, someone took one more, you don't have it, just ask the other party, the other party does not give, fight! ”
No one could have imagined that this "bully" who fought in the rural countryside for a bite to eat and stole chickens from villagers' homes would one day be personally invited by the vice minister of culture to enter renyi, and specially made an exception to give him a house.
He is the actor Weizi.
"Do you want to come to Renyi development?" At that time, Weizi was happily stunned directly in place, and his brain was blank for three minutes.
But in the face of the profession of an actor, Weizi's parents said: "You should not do this business as a cleaner." ”
That year, the yellow sand by the Yellow River blew everywhere, and it was the wind that was raging that blew this Ningxia Hanzi into the theater of renyi.
The "bully" who came out of the cadre's family
Weizi, whose original name was Wang Wei, was born in 1956 in Yinchuan, Ningxia, to a happy family whose parents were cadres of the government.
Before the age of 12, Weizi enjoyed a happy time that he had never had before, his father accompanied him to swim, skate and fish, and the already lively and skinny Weizi also won the Ningxia Autonomous Region Skating Championship.
"Who hit my dad?" Who hit my dad? You come out, I fight with you! When I came back from school to see my father covered in injuries, 12-year-old Weizi ran to her father's unit with a knife and shouted angrily.
Watching this ignorant child's playful conveyance room uncle hug him deadly.
The sudden arrival of a movement, overnight, Weizi and his brother became wild children who were left unattended, and the "bullying" energy in Weizi was also stimulated at this time.
In 1973, during the campaign to "go up to the mountains and go to the countryside", the 17-year-old Weizi was sent down to a village called Yangjiazhai on the Yellow River, with the only thought he had in mind was the large wooden bed that his father had made for him.
At this time, Li Youbin was working in the local education bureau, guarding the iron rice bowl that everyone envied! Parents who have been watch workers all their lives have always been proud that their son can have such an "iron rice bowl".
At this time, the 2-year-old Shi Lanya was in a literary and artistic family, enjoying the favoritism of the well-known scholar's grandfather.
Grandma is a famous actor, his father is the famous director Shi Jianfan, who has won the Feitian Award and the Golden Eagle Award, and Shi Lanya is the absolute pearl in the palm of the family.
At this time, Shi Lanya should not have imagined that the two rough men who would have nothing to do with art would have a love affair with the scissors and chaos.
"At that time, there was no vegetables, so we took that salt to make some rice, and sometimes there were no pickles, and at that time the oil was ticketed, and it was only half a pound of oil a month."
Only if you do more work than others, you can get more work points, others dig 5 square pits, you have to dig 6 square meters. ”
17-year-old boys, who are still from the families of government cadres, are often faced with insufficient food in the countryside.
Sometimes in order to compete for food, it is common to fight with the young intellectuals of the production team to fight for land and food.
"In the years of knowing the youth, I still feel that I have to cause trouble at both ends of the three days and fight in groups."
"At that time, whoever bullied me, I would do it with whomever I wanted, the main purpose was to compete for food. Big pot rice one person a steamed bun, someone took one more, you don't have it, just ask the other party, the other party does not give, fight! ”
Sometimes hungry and anxious, he often goes to the local farmer's field in the middle of the night to steal vegetables, and occasionally steals a chicken, afraid of recruiting the chicken owner, the chicken lays eggs, and simply twists his neck.
"Bad things" have been done a lot, Weizi has become a famous local "bully", whether it is Zhiqing or the local farmers who dare not provoke him, Biao is like a wild man in the northwest, not at all like a child who came out of the organ compound.
After two years of going to the countryside, Weizi's temper was like the climate of the yellow land, dry and hot, but watching a batch of Zhiqing return, Weizi's original fiery temper became docile and well-behaved.
In 1975, Weizi did not dare to rest for a day, in order to get the highest working points of the whole production team and have the opportunity to return.
But as the days passed, Weizi rose from a model of agricultural science to the deputy captain of the production team, but the news of returning to the city could not wait, watching many Zhiqing confess their fate, marrying and having children here, Weizi only wanted to go home.
In the summer of 1976, Weizi's high school classmates in the production team told him that the Ningxia Repertory Theatre was enrolling students, and at this time, Weizi did not say art, and even did not know what the sketches were.
Watching the students who were interviewing together sing and dance, Wei Zi cleverly moved to the admissions teacher, read a newspaper in broken Ningxia Mandarin, and sang a song "Quotations of Chairman Mao" often sung by the production team with a flushed face.
The result can be imagined, it may be the favor of fate, no one can imagine that half a year later, the school actually took the initiative to call him to enroll, to know that at this time other students have been in school for a long time.
As everyone knows, this opportunity to hit by mistake has completely changed the fate of Weizi's life.
The highlight of life
After being assigned to the Ningxia Repertory Theatre by mistake, it was supposed to be a happy "iron rice bowl", but in the talented troupe, it was not weizi's turn at all, fortunately, it was quite reliable to talk and do things, and Weizi became the deputy head of the troupe, but this was still 18,000 miles away from his original intention to be an actor.
In the regiment for 9 years, he could only play soy sauce, and always showed only half of his face. Weizi's parents said, "You shouldn't be a cleaner in this business." ”
Fortunately, Weizi let his old father hug his grandson early, and although the old man had many objections to Weizi's acting, he completely forgot about his grandson.
Weizi's wife, named Xia Liyan, is also a national first-class actor, the two are colleagues of the Ningxia Repertory Theatre, after giving birth to their son Wang Ziyi in 1982, the two went to work together, although the salary is not high, but also happy.
At this time, Li Youbin also just married Yan'er, his wife Zhang Ruiqi also worked in the troupe, after giving birth to his son Li Xiaoke, Zhang Ruiqi also took the initiative to quit his job, just to solve Li Youbin's worries, seeing such a sacrificial wife, Li Youbin was very moved.
As everyone knows, after encountering Shi Lanya, all of this has disappeared, and at this time, Shi Lanya's love for the 33-year-old Chen Daoming in the "Siege" crew has just begun.
After all, who can not love the bright eyes and bright teeth and the agile twenty-eight girls? This love affair happened quietly.
At this time, Weizi and Li Youbin, whose wife and children are hot kangtou, should not have imagined that they would have a different intersection because of a woman named Shi Lanya.
After "staying up" in the Ningxia Repertory Theatre for 5 years, when he heard the news that Chinese opera had come to Ningxia to enroll, Weizi didn't even think about it.
Before graduating, he directly won the Drama Plum Blossom Award, which is the highest award in the drama industry, as a student who has not yet graduated, such a special honor can be imagined.
Because of this, at that time, 7 well-known art troupes in Beijing issued invitations to Weizi, but Weizi, who was already married and had children, had only one condition, that is, to have a house, and as a result, this condition could not even be satisfied by the Air Politics Repertory Theatre, and originally thought that everything was in vain, until he met Ying Ruocheng, the then vice minister of literature and art.
After Yingruocheng saw Weizi's drama, he personally issued an invitation to him: "Do you want to come to the development of human art?" ”
Ren Yi is the royal theater of the show business, before graduation was "admitted early", Weizi was so happy that she did not sleep all night, completely forgetting the separation of her wife and the house, and the house matter has long been forgotten.
A few days later, Renyi specially called for an invitation, not only accepted him, but also solved his hukou and house problems together, when the office of Lin Zhao, the vice president of Renyi, was specially vacated and a double bed was arranged for the couple.
Although the wife and children came over, but the wife's work was still in the Ningxia Repertory Theatre, and later Renyi transferred Xia Liyan to Renyi in order to take care of Weizi, and also helped him buy a house in Beijing.
It is enough to see the importance that Ren Yi attaches to this talented actor. In 1992, Weizi became the youngest national first-class actor in renyi.
However, a year later, Weizi resigned from Renyi for personal freedom, and ended the marriage relationship with his wife Xia Liyan.
Divorce
Weizi is indeed promising in Renyi, but the pace of the rehearsal in the Renyi Platoon is too slow, in order to take care of the old artists in the troupe to rest, Renyi only arranges plays from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 a.m., and a play is scheduled for nearly a year.
Coupled with the salary of only 82 yuan per month at that time, in addition to the 42 yuan sent to the family, there were only 40 yuan left in a family of 3 in Beijing, the salary was low and the pace was slow, and Weizi had the idea of going out to shoot.
At this time, the crew of the TV series "Love Full of Pearl River" found Weizi, but it was not easy for the actors to go out to shoot dramas, and Weizi went to great lengths to ask until the art committee was agreed to go out to shoot a year's play.
It is said that the salary of the male and female protagonists at that time was 400 yuan, and the crew specially raised the salary for him to 1,000 yuan in order to invite Weizi.
After "Love Full of Pearl River", Weizi resolutely decided to resign from Renyi, which led to the anger of the leaders in the regiment, and his wife Xia Liyan also went through the special care of the leader to work in Renyi, so the two had a huge dispute.
Many people advised him: "Have you ever thought about it, after you are gone, a series of problems, labor insurance, medical treatment, including after you retire, the state supports you, we are a public institution." ”
But Weizi believes that taking advantage of his youth, the most precious thing for people is freedom, and he only wants to choose a more relaxed creative environment, and finally resigns from Renyi, which also lays a deep foreshadowing for the divorce of the two.
"Although I left Renyi, the influence of Renyi on me is eternal, and I feel that I can use it for a lifetime."
Even today, Wei Zi is grateful when he mentions Ren yi, believing that the influence of Ren Yi on himself is a lifetime accumulation, although this practice is regarded by everyone as ungrateful.
After leaving Renyi, there were more invitations, but the relationship with his wife became more and more stiff, and finally the two began a cold war, sometimes returning home as cold as an ice cellar, without the slightest taste of home.
In 1995, Weizi and his wife ended a 13-year marriage relationship, when her son Wang Ziyi was only 12 years old.
At the time of the divorce, Weizi only left 600 yuan on hun,000 yuan, leaving all the savings and real estate under his name to his wife and son.
On the day he left the house, his son was playing with toys in the living room, looking at his son who was having fun, Weizi did not know how to open his mouth, walked to the door and said: "Son, Daddy is leaving, you have to listen to your mother, you know?" ”
The son thought it was the same as usual, thinking that his father had gone to shoot a scene, completely unaware that his parents were divorced, and happily replied: "Daddy goodbye, you have to come back to see me early."
Wei Zi's eyes were hot and rushed out of the house, at this time he would not have thought at all that his relationship with his son had been completely frozen for nearly 15 years.
Meet new people again
After the divorce, Weizi began a life of drifting north alone, sleeping in the station, living in the basement, and spending the most difficult time with the help of good friends.
Sometimes in order to make money, to give his son tuition and child support, Weizi began to "not pick work", whether it is a supporting role or a dragon set, all of them are picked up, almost 360 days a year in the crew.
Director He Qun described Weizi at that time: "Of the 15 channels, Weizi accounted for 9. ”
Fortunately, through her acting skills, Weizi has obtained good resources, such as "Conqueror", "Heavenly Contrarian", "Playing Dog Stick", "Iron Pear Blossom" and other film and television dramas, and the image of tough guys on the screen has been recognized by many audiences.
It was also during this time that Weizi and Shi Lanya had the intersection of life, and at this time, Li Youbin was still struggling in the Changchun Film Studio, although it was a pillar in the factory, but the scenes filmed were all applauded, and Li Youbin was troubled by this.
When Li Youbin was suffering in the Changchun Film Studio, Weizi and Shi Lanya were the passionate love of Mars hitting the earth.
In 1995, After graduating from Chinese opera, Shi Lanya entered the human art, and fell in love with Weizi, who was in the empty window period, because of the drama, although Weizi was 15 years older than Shi Lanya, Shi Lanya did not care.
In this way, two people with hot personalities began a vigorous 5-year love.
Wei Zi is born with free sex, and Shi Lanya is a very controlling person, so the two often have conflicts.
Once When Weizi came back from filming, Shi Lanya was cooking and asked Weizi to buy a pack of spices, but Weizi bought the wrong brand, so Shi Lanya was furious.
There are countless such small things in life, which makes the macho Weizi feel breathless, and the relationship eventually ends in a breakup.
Many years later, when Weizi mentioned her feelings for Shi Lanya, she said with emotion: "She is more real, everything is more real, this is tired." ”
At this time, another man in Shi Lanya's life, 40-year-old Li Youbin, made a life-changing decision to go north to do north drift.
He said to his wife Zhang Ruiqi: "I am forty years old, my life has passed half a lifetime, if I stay here, this life is destined to be like this, I still want to go outside to fight." ”
In this way, in order to support Li Youbin's career, Zhang Ruiqi took her son to follow Youbin to Beijing, and the family of three started north drift.
Zhang Ruiqi
At this time, Zhang Ruiqi should not have imagined that this decision did change Li Youbin's fate, but also "destroyed" his own happiness with his own hands.
Lost "Lady"
After the breakup, Weizi began to seriously engage in career, and the 2003 Weizi version of Yue Buqun is still enjoyable.
At this time, Li Youbin was worried about the fact that he did not have a Beijing hukou and his son could not go to school, and finally exhausted all resources and broke his leg before sending his son to school.
After separating from Weizi, he was introduced to liu bin, an actor who was 10 years older than Shi Lanya, but because of personality reasons, the marriage between the two lasted only two years before it ended.
Later, Shi Lanya and a turtle married again, and gave birth to a son, but not long after the son was born, the other party was suffering from cancer, in order not to drag Shi Lanya, the turtle took the initiative to propose divorce.
In just a few years of two failed marriages, Shi Lanya could only dry her tears and live alone with her son strongly, until she met Li Youbin in the crew in 2003.
In the crew of "Jiangshan", Li Youbin found that he had special feelings for Shi Lanya, and Shi Lanya also shyly expressed his love to Li Youbin.
Although Li Youbin was married at this time, he could not resist the temptation in the face of love.
After "Jiangshan", the relationship between Li Youbin and his wife Zhang Ruiqi became worse and worse, and later they simply separated directly, and the marriage was nominal.
At this time, Shi Lanya has also been accompanying Li Youbin as an agent.
In 2005, the "Bright Sword" crew found Li Youbin and wanted him to play Li Yunlong. But Li Youbin felt that this role did not have a breakthrough and directly refused, but Shi Lanya persuaded Li Youbin
"Listen to me, you must pick it up, otherwise you will regret it, this play will definitely be on fire!"
Sure enough, under the recommendation of Shi Lanya, this drama became a hit, and Li Youbin, who is over 40 years old, also became famous overnight.
Stills of Li Youbin in "Bright Sword"
After becoming famous, Li Youbin's script is still Shi Lanya's help to review, and "Breaking into Kanto" is the work of her excellent vision.
Li Youbin had an indescribable gratitude to the woman named Shi Lanya next to him.
In 2006, Li Youbin filed for divorce from his wife Zhang Ruiqi, and out of guilt, Li Youbin took the initiative to leave the house and married Shi Lanya, who was married for 3 years in 2008.
To this end, Li Youbin has also become a famous "negative man" in the entertainment industry. At this time, Weizi's life was not good.
Shame on my son
After the divorce, Wang Ziyi, who lived with her mother, became a "problem" youth who spent a lot of money and did not restrain herself under the doting of her mother.
I prevented my son from continuing to study badly, and in order to exercise his life ability, Weizi decided to send his son to study abroad, but he did not think about it, but his son became worse.
Three days and two ends to "my mother miss me" as an excuse, back and forth at home and abroad, spending money is more generous, Weizi began to keep giving his son money, but the son became more intense, simply Weizi in addition to tuition, directly cut off all of his son's financial resources.
Who knew that the son who was in the rebellious period directly returned from Canada to apply for the Chinese opera, which Weizi learned from the mouth of the friends of the Chinese opera.
But at this point, Weizi had no choice but to buy his son's tuition and living expenses, but out of anger Weizi directly gave his son's living expenses and tuition fees to his ex-wife at one time, and told his ex-wife that his son's financial problems would never look for him again in the future.
In 2010, Wang Ziyi was favored by director Wang Xiaoshuai and participated in "Rizhao Chongqing". "This time I really didn't rely on my father, it didn't matter at all, director Wang Xiaoshuai directly looked for me."
"Rizhao Chongqing" Wang Ziyi Fan Bingbing
The son's achievements are very proud in his eyes, but the father and son "talk about money and collapse".
Wang Ziyi and the "Rizhao Chongqing" crew participated in the Cannes Film Festival, hoping that her father could buy tens of thousands of suits for the sponsoring line. Wei Zi said, "You have to wear pants and go up, that's absolutely beautiful." ”
Since then, Wang Ziyi has wandered in the entertainment industry, never mentioned the name of his father Weizi again, compared to Chen Feiyu, Du Chun and others, Wang Ziyi has worked hard, and Weizi has said more than once on the public platform that he has not helped his son once.
Later, Wang Ziyi had her own brokerage company, but the roles were all fought for by herself or her agent, and she always left her relationship with her father.
He said: "I am worried that others will use me, in fact, I am looking at my father's face, so if I am like this, I will not be able to mix it for the rest of my life." I can work with him, but I don't want my boyfriend to be because he got it, how long can I rely on my parents? The road always has to be walked by itself. ”
Weizi Wang Ziyi
Although films such as "The Great Magician", "Drug War", "Blind Detective", "Shouting Mountain", and "Bomb Disposal Expert" are all supporting roles, Wang Ziyi feels very proud to cooperate with directors such as Du Qifeng, Xu Anhua, and Er Dongsheng.
Wang Ziyi
But in the face of his celebrity father, coupled with the 15-year-long Cold War, Wang Ziyi rarely communicated with his father, always saying:
"Everyone is okay with each other, don't disturb each other, just be good." He doesn't want me to mention him, I don't want him to mention me, I don't resist, more is to hope that their own way to go their own way. ”
Weizi Wang Ziyi
But looking at the old father who is getting older, Wang Ziyi also understands his father's bitter heart, in 2011, the relationship between Wang Ziyi and his father completely broke the ice, and he completely thanked his father in public, and Weizi was moved to tears.
It is said that Weizi has remarried in a low-key manner, but he has always protected his wife very well, and her identity has not been exposed.
Now that he has passed the age of flower armor, Weizi has gradually faded out of the screen and begun to transform behind the scenes to concentrate on being a director, he said:
"I am now in my 60s to sum up, there are too many temptations in life, I have to be able to control myself, work hard and be a person, then I am particularly pleased." 」
epilogue
In any era, at any age, there will be different temptations, whether it is money, or freedom, or career, or love, but the most important thing is to be able to keep the original intention and do the right thing at that age, which is the most correct.
The willfulness of youth may become a regret for a lifetime.
People live a lifetime, but they eat and chat with the closest people around them, and everything else is just a passing cloud, so cherishing the current relatives is the most precious.
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