The story I share today will be very depressing, and I would like to say: Home and everything is happy! Man, there is nothing to be sick about, and when there is a disease, there may be a variety of situations in this family. The first is "solidarity." The second situation is very unfortunate, there may be a situation of "husband and wife flying separately in the face of great trouble".
Unfortunately, the story told today is that a husband is seriously ill and will soon die, and his wife's primary concern is to try to keep her money.
Let's get down to business!
Li Hongying's husband stated that bing had advanced cancer, and according to doctors, the time he lived was only a few months, but he hid. I don't want my wife to see it, what's going on?
In this regard, Li Hongying sought help from a reporter, and when the reporter interviewed her, she said: "My woman's family now has no job and no income..."
The reporter asked her: "Do you know the current situation?" At present, your husband is no longer good, and the fastest doctor can say that it may be 1 month. And your husband says you hit him a lot, doesn't that? ”
Li Hongying's questioning of the reporter immediately refuted it, and did not admit to hitting her husband. He also told reporters that his husband had advanced cancer, but he had done his best.
After understanding, the reporter learned that The narrator was only 35 years old, and after suffering from cancer, he had already owed a debt of 200,000 yuan in order to treat his illness. Everyone should pay attention to the fact that these more than 200,000 are just foreign debts, because they still have savings before, in order to treat their diseases, they have sold their cars and closed the aluminum stores they operate.
According to Li Hongying, she didn't know when the aluminum store was closed. She also said: "So I don't understand, he doesn't want to be a child now, so he doesn't tell me anything, just like this, he slaps his ass and leaves, he is not good like this." ”
Li Hongying told reporters that at the beginning, after she accompanied her husband to the hospital for follow-up, the doctor said that his condition had deteriorated, and the chance of recovery was very slim, so she took her husband home and hoped to spend the last time of his life with her husband at home.
Friends see here, may feel a little fog in the clouds, but don't worry.
Many friends may be very concerned about why the husband suddenly played the missing wife and ignored him?
And look at the previous content, the wife is not ignoring the husband, is not the husband to sell the car?
I remind everyone that anything cannot only look at the surface, and Li Hongying's mother-in-law's house was scolded by her in-laws, and there must be an inside story.
The reporter was also very concerned about the affairs of this family, and also wanted to find out, so he came to Li Hongying's in-laws' house.
After Li Hongying came to her in-laws' house, Chen's father was very unwelcome to the arrival of his daughter-in-law, and told reporters at the same time with cold eyes: "Why does her son not want to go home, she knows best in her heart." ”
However, the reporter asked both sides, and no one on both sides was willing to tell the truth, and it was obvious that there must be something going on here.
Chen's father told reporters: The relationship between the son and the daughter-in-law is not good, often quarrel, even if the son is sick during the period, why does the son's condition suddenly worsen? It is probably because the daughter-in-law always quarrels with him. In order to let his son recuperate, he was taken home.
So, when Li Hongying came to find her husband, did she really care about him? In fact, from what she said, we can feel that she seems to care more about money?
Yes, the purpose of her trip is to solve the problem of debt and house, and she does not care about her husband's physical health, which is only clear in her heart.
Li Hongying told reporters: There are suddenly hundreds of thousands of debts in the family, and these debts are done without knowing it, so she does not want to recognize this account.
Li Hongying told reporters: "One day some people suddenly came outside asking for debts. Faced with hundreds of thousands of debts, she was somewhat inexplicable, and had no idea how the money was going. And the two also run an aluminum shop, which was emptied without their knowledge. ”
The more intractable problem now is that there is a problem with the default on the mortgage, and if the husband does not show up, the house may be auctioned off by the bank.
At this time, Shu Bing's family accused Li Hongying of not only not taking good care of him, but also scolding him, but Li Hongying denied it.
Li Hongying: "I didn't hit him!" ”
The narrator pointed to his wife's nose and asked her, "Have you ever fought?" ”
Li Hongying: "No! ”
"You fight at home, the two of us are at home, and you have beaten (me) more than once, more than a dozen times." ”
In fact, Li Hongying was able to find her husband this time, and after many inquiries, Chen Shubin was not at home, but was treated in the Chinese Medicine Hospital.
Lying on the hospital bed, the narrator was also very angry when he saw his wife's arrival, so he poured bitter water on the reporter, saying that he was already very ill, and when he went to the store, his wife actually went to play mahjong, and her temper was very grumpy, and she often beat herself. Although he is a big boss, he is not in good health, so he is really powerless against his grumpy wife. Once she also used a knife with herself.
The reporter asked Li Hongying if there was such a thing, and she denied it. Shu Bing was also very annoyed by this, and questioned her: "I am looking at the shop inside the store, and you are playing cards below in the afternoon... Did you force me with a knife? ”
"I didn't!" Li Hongying replied very crisply.
After all, this is a husband and wife thing, one person accuses the other person of not admitting, and we do not have surveillance video, so who should I believe in the end I believe that everyone has their own judgment.
At this point, let's talk about why the aluminum store they run is closed.
Li Hongying said that she did not know that the aluminum store was closed.
At that time, she received 10,000 yuan of payment, she could obviously pay the rent, but the wife did not pay, so the landlord did not rent to them, and he also had no way to close the store.
Of course, the family is now in tatters, and the most fundamental reason is that it costs a lot after the soldiers suffered from cancer. In the past, his aluminum shop was running well, but he couldn't stand the hundreds of thousands of dollars spent in the hospital, so he spent his savings and then looked for relatives to borrow.
Whether it was for treatment or borrowing money to pay it back, he had no choice but to sell his house. And the move of stating that the soldiers sold their houses to treat their illness did make Li Hongying panic.
And here there is a problem, the wife would rather play cards, even during the illness of the soldier bought a bracelet worth ten thousand yuan, and bought a huge amount of insurance for the child, rather than taking money out to treat him.
Is what the state soldier said true?
Regarding this accusation, Li Hongying did not refute it, that is to say, acquiesced?
It costs money to treat the disease, and the helpless soldier had to borrow money from his relatives and friends.
At this time, another problem arose, according to the creditor of the statement soldier, he and his wife were present when borrowing money, and knew about the loan, while at this time Li Hongying denied her husband's debt of more than 200,000 yuan, bluntly saying that he did not know. She also denied that it was also because if her husband left, the debt would have to be repaid, in which case the house would not be secured.
So, who's lying?
Speaking of emotional places, The statement soldier told reporters with tears: He understood what is the meaning of "husband and wife are originally the same forest bird, and the big disaster is about to fly separately", the wife is not willing to spend money on her illness, it is just that she does not care, she hides private money, but during the illness, she always beats herself. As a man, how could he bear it? At this time, he did not want to be disturbed by this grumpy wife, and hoped to walk quietly through the last scene of his life.
Facing the camera, Li Hongying did not restrain and directly quarreled with her in-laws. Obviously, the mother-in-law could not argue with her, and casually said: "You have lost your conscience, and you are not afraid of retribution." ”
When talking to reporters alone, Li Hongying explained: "The side of the gaffe just now is caused by the in-laws, after all, after her husband is ill, she has to take care of the family, but also take care of the store, but also take care of her husband, and her temper may be bigger." However, at this time, she still hopes that her husband can go home and accompany him through the last part of the journey. ”
Lying on the hospital bed, the narrator soldier did not want to talk to his wife more nonsense, so he took out an IOU, a total of 228,000, he said: "In addition to the 20,000 borrowed from his sister and brother-in-law, the remaining 208,000 are jointly handled by him and his wife." ”
When Li Hongying saw that her husband had taken out an IOU, she vigorously denied her husband's statement, saying that she did not know about the money her husband borrowed, so she did not recognize these debts.
At this time, Li Hongying raised questions again, she said: "This thing like the façade, (moving goods in the store) I am not there, I don't know how much money you have collected, where does this money go, I don't know yes." ”
The reporter could not listen to their one-sided words, so he interviewed the person who made the IOU by phone, and the creditor also made it clear that the husband and wife were present when the statement soldier borrowed the loan.
So, who should we listen to?
I believe that everyone still has their own judgment!
At this time, the child of the soldier appeared at the door, and the reporter asked her to greet her father, but she did not move, and the reporter said: "He is your father, and he is not someone else." ”
The child said, "He's not." ”
Reporter: "He's your dad." ”
The child did not speak again and was very resistant to leaving?
The child is not very old, that is, five or six years old, but I would like to say that the child does not recognize the father, the child is not wrong, the fault should be on the parents.
Because I would like to know, how did Li Hongying educate her daughter to be someone who did not recognize her father?
This is something that happened in 2015, but after watching this short life of the statement bing, to be honest, he has not forgotten to take on the debt of more than 200,000 before he died, and he is a real man!
And his wife wants to keep the house as much as possible, and even steals private money, it is estimated that it is for the future to make plans.
Sometimes, when a family faces such a serious illness, it is really difficult, especially when it is known that it is not cured, but also to spend a lot of money to treat the disease, and in the end it may really be empty of money. But if you don't treat it, it's something that many relatives don't want to see.
Who doesn't want to live well?
And to state the right and wrong of the soldier and his wife, which is right and wrong, let's judge for ourselves!
But let us not lose sight of the fact that a person who is leaving this world is still trying to take responsibility for himself and try his best to pay off his debts, while the living people are just the opposite, wanting to get rid of debts.
Also, apparently, he was already a vulnerable person after he fell ill, and he certainly wanted to live, and he didn't want to get sick or argue with his wife, but everything happened and no one could change it. As he told reporters: He didn't want to be disturbed by his wife anymore, he just wanted to finish the last period of time in peace and quiet at his parents' house.
If his wife had really taken care of him in the last period of time, I don't think he would have been so sad, and would definitely be more willing to spend the last part of his life with his wife and children.
And if Li Hongying did not want to get rid of the debt of more than 200,000 yuan, and the house would be recovered by the bank without a loan, maybe she would not bother the "husband", right?
It's been seven years since this story, and the narrator is no longer in this world. But I am full of emotions about what happened to him, maybe this is the real life of ordinary people!
Helpless and sad!
So, people, be healthy.
I wish all my friends who have read this article good health and all the best! (Xu Jiangbao)