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"In that distant little mountain village, little mountain village / My dear mother, has gray hair and sideburns / The past time is unforgettable, unforgettable / How many kisses my mother gave me / Kissed the tears on my face ..."
In the 1980s, the sweet and moving melody of "Mother's Kiss" resounded in the streets and alleys of the country, and also made the singer Zhu Xiaolin extremely popular.
In addition to "Mother's Kiss", Zhu Xiaolin's songs such as "Dream Jiangnan", "Smart Break", "Only Love Will Not Forget", "Moon Bending and Illuminating Kyushu" are also popular.
Since the 1990s, Zhu Xiaolin has faded from the public eye. Why she retired at the peak of her popularity became a major mystery in the music scene at that time. Why is Zhu Xiaolin, who is 53 years old this year, still unmarried and single?
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Zhu Xiaolin was born in Yangzhou, Jiangsu Province in 1969 to a teacher at a local cadre school and a mother who practiced gymnastics when she was young.
Zhu Xiaolin as a child
Zhu Xiaolin has a younger sister named Zhu Ailin, who was once a host of a British broadcasting company.
Zhu Xiaolin is born with a good voice, and many songs can be sung locally after listening to them several times. She also learned the violin as a child.
When Zhu Xiaolin was in elementary school, the cadre school where her father worked was dissolved and changed into a government guest house. Literary and art groups from other places come to Yangzhou to perform, and they all live in this guest house.
At that time, the other teachers were asked to move away, Zhu Xiaolin's father resolutely refused to move, and the family lived in a simple bungalow next door to the guest house. No matter how generous the conditions given by the relevant departments, he will not move.
Why did Father Zhu want to be a "nail household"? This stemmed from his fatherly love: his daughter liked to sing, and the guest house was often inhabited by famous singers from out of town, and he wanted her daughter to have contact with each other and listen to their teachings.
Middle-aged Li Guangxi and Shen Xiang
In 1981, when Zhu Xiaolin was 12 years old, the famous singer Li Guangxi came to Yangzhou to perform. Zhu Xiaolin sang at home, and Li Guangxi felt that the song was beautiful, so he followed the song to find Zhu Xiaolin's home.
Seeing that Zhu Xiaolin was still a little girl, Li Guangxi was very surprised. He asked Zhu Xiaolin, "You sang too well, who did you learn from?" Zhu Xiaolin said, "I learned from the radio." Li Guangxi praised her as a genius.
Zhu Xiaolin took out a small book and asked Li Guangxi to sign it. Li Guangxi wrote on it: "Children, you must protect your throat, you will definitely make great achievements in the future." ”
Li Guangxi's affirmation gave Zhu Xiaolin and her parents great confidence.
Zhu Xiaolin and Zhu Fengbo
Soon, Zhu Fengbo came to Yangzhou to perform, and also lived in the government guest house, and his father took Zhu Xiaolin to find Teacher Zhu.
After Zhu Fengbo listened to Zhu Xiaolin's singing, he affirmed that she had talent, but did not approve of Zhu Xiaolin singing at such a young age. She said to Zhu Xiaolin: "You should study well first, and if you still want to sing after graduating from college, come to me." ”
Zhu Xiaolin's parents agreed with Zhu Fengbo's opinion and asked her daughter to study wholeheartedly and consider singing after being admitted to college.
But Zhu Xiaolin was fascinated by singing, and there were more than 30 performance groups from other places living in the guest house.
Everyone was sure that Zhu Xiaolin sang well, and Zhu Xiaolin also hoped that they could take themselves away, but no literary and art group was willing to accept such a young child.
Early Years Zhu Xiaolin
In 1984, Zhu Xiaolin was 15 years old. Seeing that his daughter was so obsessed with singing, Father Zhu wrote a letter to the famous Pacific Audio-Visual Company in Guangzhou, saying that his daughter had a good voice and a talent for singing, and hoped that the company could help her daughter record songs. Zhu's father also attached a tape recorded by his daughter.
The company leaders listened to Zhu Xiaolin's songs and specially sent a recording engineer and a conductor to Yangzhou to investigate Zhu Xiaolin. Seeing two strangers coming from home, Zhu Xiaolin hid behind her mother and did not dare to see each other.
After a short period of restraint, Zhu Xiaolin sang two songs on the spot and was recognized by the other party.
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In July 1985, Zhu Xiaolin went south to Guangzhou to record the music album "Mother's Kiss". The album contains many songs such as "Smart Break", "Dream Jiangnan", "I Was 17 Years Old", "Mother's Kiss", "Love Can't Be Forgotten" and so on.
"Mother's Kiss" is not the title song of this album, the company's main promotion is "Smart One Rest", "Dream Jiangnan", "Love is Unforgettable" three songs, who knows "Mother's Kiss" but the biggest impact.
Zhu Xiaolin's early albums
After recording the album, Zhu Xiaolin went to Shanghai and found Teacher Zhu Fengbo with a few hints of ostentation and told her that she had taken out the cassette.
Zhu Fengbo was very happy, and it happened that she organized a performance at the Shanghai Gymnasium, so she asked Zhu Xiaolin to participate in the performance. To this end, Zhu Fengbo also specially ordered a red dress for Zhu Xiaolin.
Zhu Xiaolin sang three songs in a row and was widely welcomed.
In October of that year, Guangzhou Pacific Audio-Visual Company released the album "Mother's Kiss". Overnight, "Mother's Kiss" became one of the most classic songs of the 1980s.
"Love can not be forgotten", "Smart One Hugh", "Dream Jiangnan" is also very popular, of which "Smart One Hugh" has also become the theme song of the cartoon of the same name, accompanying children to grow up.
Zhu Xiaolin (left) and Cheng Lin
It is worth mentioning that the song "Mother's Kiss" was not sung directly to Zhu Xiaolin by songwriters Fu Lin and Gu Jianfen, but was found by Zhu Xiaolin herself.
When a female singer came to Yangzhou to perform, staying in the guest house, Zhu Xiaolin saw the song "Mother's Kiss" from her songbook, liked it very much, and copied it down.
Zhu Xiaolin only met Teacher Fu Lin when she was recording an album at Guangzhou Pacific Audio-Visual Company.
In the 1980s, Zhu Xiaolin was one of the most famous singers. Cheng Lin of the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe is also very popular, the two are similar in age, and the song world has the saying of "Southern ZhuBeiCheng" and is called "Erlin".
"Mother's Kiss" sold more than 2.4 million copies that year, setting a record for the highest sales of Chinese records at that time.
Early Years Zhu Xiaolin
After Zhu Xiaolin became popular, Zhu Fengbo began to take her around to perform, zhu Xiaolin not only gained fame at a young age, but also made the family's economic conditions change dramatically.
But Zhu Xiaolin's popularity has also brought her the pain of growth. Someone wrote an article on the Internet saying that there are a lot of "kiss" words in the song "Mother's Kiss", which is mental pollution.
Someone also sent the newspaper to Zhu Xiaolin's home.
Zhu Xiaolin took the microphone and sang while walking on the stage, and someone wrote an article in the newspaper criticizing her for being typhoony. Zhu Xiaolin endured all kinds of attacks from the outside world.
Moreover, Zhu Xiaolin and the people around her parents have all changed, and some colleagues suddenly ignore Zhu Xiaolin's parents out of jealousy. Colleagues who were originally well-connected are no longer in contact.
Zhu Xiaolin on the stage
Zhu Xiaolin performed at the Yangzhou Gymnasium, and her mother's former colleagues maintained order at the scene and did not allow the Zhu family's parents to enter.
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Zhu Xiaolin was also jealous at school, no one paid attention to her, and everyone isolated her. Classmates who had a good relationship in the past, as soon as they approached Zhu Xiaolin, some people accused each other of slapping their ass. Therefore, the classmates who were originally in a good relationship were also estranged from Zhu Xiaolin.
Zhu Xiaolin is very red in the eyes of outsiders, but her heart is lonely, and the more red she is, the lonelier she is.
Usually she was doing homework in the classroom, the window was crowded with the heads of other students, Zhu Xiaolin looked up, the other party immediately scattered, and dropped a sentence: "Hmm, what's so great?" ”
Zhu Xiaolin was in tears, she had done nothing wrong, why did everyone do this to her?
Zhu Xiaolin's early albums
Since becoming popular in 1985, Zhu Xiaolin has frequently gone out to perform, especially in the summer vacation, often going out to perform for two months. Because she became famous too early, Zhu Xiaolin gradually got tired of this kind of performance career of running around.
Later, when the music sounded and she wanted to perform on stage, her mood was very irritable, and she did not want to live this life more and more.
In 1990, Zhu Xiaolin retired from the singing scene at the peak of her popularity. She walked in a hurry, did not bid farewell to the performance, and at that time the information was not developed, and Zhu Xiaolin's sudden retirement became a major mystery in the music scene at that time.
Zhu Xiaolin likes to paint and plans to make fashion design her career, she wants to go to the United States to study fashion design, but her English is not good.
In 1990, Zhu Xiaolin's sister was a junior in the Department of English and American Languages and Literatures at Fudan University in Shanghai. She told her sister that the school had an English tuition class. So Zhu Xiaolin came to Fudan University to study English.
Zhu Xiaolin
In order to avoid outside interference, she changed her name to "Yang Shiyun" (Zhu Xiaolin's mother's surname is Yang), but on campus, she is often recognized by her classmates.
The student unions of Fudan University and Tongji University have all approached Zhu Xiaolin and wanted to invite her to perform at the school. Zhu Xiaolin said: "You have recognized the wrong person, I am not Zhu Xiaolin, but Yang Shiyun." ”
In 1991, Zhu Xiaolin graduated from the English cram school, and her sister also graduated from college. The sisters are preparing to study in the United States together.
Zhu Xiaolin's sister successfully obtained a visa, but she was refused a visa. The other party's reason is: Zhu Xiaolin is so beautiful, has no bachelor's degree, will marry an American, and has immigration tendencies.
As a result, Zhu Xiaolin founded a clothing design company, with a clothing store in Beijing and a clothing store in Shenyang. Zhu Xiaolin specially designs costumes for actors, but the costumes are not easy to sell, and the company is not very profitable.
Zhu Xiaolin and host Dai Jun
Once she went to Beijing Scitech's clothing store to talk about business, and met Zhang Shurong, the host of Beijing Music Radio.
Beijing Music Station wanted to co-organize a program with Scitech, "Meet Scitech", so it invited Zhu Xiaolin to be the host.
Zhu Xiaolin hosted "Meet Seth" for a year, because there was no publicity, no one knew that she was hosting the show.
A year later, this program was discontinued, and someone advised Zhu Xiaolin to make a comeback. The music scene has long been renewed, few comeback singers have succeeded, and Zhu Xiaolin does not have the courage to return to the song world.
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What troubled her even more was that in 1993, Zhu Xiaolin's clothing store in Shenyang was burned down due to a fire in the entire building, and all the investment and clothing were burned down, and she did not get a penny in compensation.
Zhu Xiaolin's "Thoughts" album
In 1999, Zhu Xiaolin released a new album "Thoughts", but it did not cause any repercussions. She knew that her own time was completely over.
This year, Zhu Xiaolin is 30 years old and is still unmarried and single. Parents began to urge marriage, Zhu Xiaolin was very picky about finding a boyfriend, requiring the other party to read a lot of books, have deep thoughts, and low-key, so that Zhu Xiaolin could discover the advantages of him.
Moreover, Zhu Xiaolin has a spiritual and life cleanliness habit, the man's eating voice can not be too loud, walking must be high-chested. She couldn't stand seeing that the man had one of his teeth yellowed or had dandruff. Such a perfect man is rare in the world.
In 2003, Zhu Xiaolin had a relationship, the other party ate and burped she could not stand, the man felt very tired with Zhu Xiaolin, the two broke up.
Zhu Xiaolin is single, which makes her parents very anxious, and her parents are crazy to get married. The mother told Zhu Xiaolin that she knew a young man, the conditions were good in all aspects, and her daughter would be very happy with him.
Zhu Xiaolin and her sister's two children
Zhu Xiaolin asked her mother: What is the standard of happiness you are talking about? Mom said: The economic conditions are good, you don't have to worry about your livelihood in the second half of your life, and you can improve your career.
Zhu Xiaolin replied: I don't value material things, I want to find the other side, I must make my heart full of love, and have expectations in my heart.
It is undeniable that Zhu Xiaolin is a bit picky about finding a partner, and people around her have advised her to lower the standard of mate selection. Zhu Xiaolin said: Even if I am 80 years old, I will not reduce the requirements for my other half.
After finishing graduate school in the United States, Zhu Xiaolin's sister joined a British broadcasting company as a host. Later, she went to Seattle, USA, to work in news reporting.
Zhu Xiaolin's sister was already married and had a son and a daughter. The two children are so cute, Zhu Xiaolin especially likes them.
Zhu Xiaolin
In 2012, Zhu Xiaolin closed her clothing store in China and went to live in Seattle. Her main purpose in going to the United States was to stay with her sister's two children.
Every year, she has four or five months to return to China to accompany her parents, and every time they meet, their parents urge marriage. Later, the parents were numb.
They want to open, as long as the daughter is happy and happy, no matter which lifestyle they choose, they will accept.
Over the years, there have been successive pursuits of Zhu Xiaolin by the opposite sex, and some are not right, and Zhu Xiaolin does not want to contact each other at all. In fact, not giving each other a chance is also not giving yourself a chance.
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In 2019, Zhu Xiaolin is 50 years old and still has no emotional home. She is well maintained, her face skin is delicate and smooth, her figure is slim, and she looks very young.
Zhu Xiaolin
In an interview, Zhu Xiaolin said that she did not have any maintenance secrets, she drank 3 cups of coffee a day, and drinking water was not particularly much. She eats two slices of bread and a glass of milk in the morning; cooks a packet of edamame for Lunch and dinner, sprinkles a little salt, and eats it.
Zhu Xiaolin's mother is very strict with her daughter's food control, and when Zhu Xiaolin returned home, her mother never made a good job for her, so as not to make her eat too much and gain weight.
For each meal, her mother prepared a plate for her individually, and the meal was rationed. Sometimes Zhu Xiaolin was so hungry at night that she went to the refrigerator to steal food.
When Zhu Xiaolin went out to see her friends, her parents wrapped fragrant dumplings at home and never left them for Zhu Xiaolin to eat.
When Zhu Xiaolin's sister returns to China, her parents will cook a lot of food, and zhu Xiaolin can eat more with her sister. Therefore, Zhu Xiaolin can maintain such a good figure in middle age, thanks to a strict and "cold" mother.
In 2019, as her parents grew older, Zhu Xiaolin chose to return to Yangzhou to live and do filial piety to her parents. She also opened a music restaurant in Yangzhou and had a fulfilling life.
Zhu Xiaolin and singer Shen Xiaocen
In April 2022, Zhu Xiaolin was 53 years old and still unmarried and single. The Zhu family's parents have entered their old age, for their daughters to be single, they are indifferent on the surface, in fact, in their bones, they still hope that Zhu Xiaolin will become a family, and it is best to have a baby.
Zhu Xiaolin is not rejecting love, because she is more critical of her other half, it is difficult to meet the right, and she longs for a man who meets her requirements.
Zhu Xiaolin said that if she found her other half, she would try to be a good wife.
"Taste celebrity" comments: Zhu Xiaolin has superior conditions, 53 years old is still unmarried and single, so that parents are anxious, but also let fans regret.
In an interview, Zhu Xiaolin stressed: Even if you live to the age of 80, you will not reduce the requirements for the opposite sex.
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This sounds a bit tragic, Zhu Xiaolin is supreme in love, not sloppy and sloppy about love, which is commendable.
But from another point of view, she is very picky about the requirements of the other half, requiring that the other party's spiritual and life level be in tune with herself, and the other party cannot have a little shortcoming. We are all ordinary people, we all eat grains, where is the perfect man in the world?
We ourselves are not perfect, and it is best not to ask each other to be perfect. Try to contact some of the opposite sex, maybe the fate is coming, and the rules and regulations set before do not exist.
Holding high standards and not touching the opposite sex, where does the marriage come from? Sincerely wish Zhu Xiaolin to harvest true love as soon as possible and have a happy and perfect emotional destination!
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