Introduction: Husband and wife get along, the most important thing is loyalty, but when one party betrays the family and has cheated, what does the other party do?
01
When I arrived at the door, several clerks were preparing to open the door, and everyone stared at the door with a few large vermilion lacquers. Those few words were extremely ugly, pointing directly at Xu Bin's scumbag and abandoning her and the child in her belly.
Although the clerks did not say anything, the surprise in their eyes was clear. In their impression, Xu Bin is a model husband, when we go out together, he always carries a bag and an umbrella for me, booing and asking for warmth, and surrounds me all the time. At that time, someone quipped that men all over the world were looking for Xiao San, and Xu Bin would be the one with the exception.
I used to think the same way, and it was precisely because I felt that I was married to the right person that I would follow him away from home despite my family's opposition and come to Qingdao to start a business.
In 2012, pet medical care was just emerging, Xu Bin, a graduate of agricultural school, saw this opportunity at a glance, at that time everyone thought that the dog and cat were not out of the way, but he pounced on it without hesitation, and I had to follow him.
Our first storefront was less than ten square meters, cold in winter and summer, occluded before and after, the fishy smell of dogs and cats mixed with the smell of sweat was stuffy inside, that summer I had a large piece of prickly heat, how can not get better, just applied to the prickly heat powder skin will be soaked with sweat for a while. Sometimes when I encounter an emergency room, a phone call comes in at one or two o'clock in the middle of the night, Xu Bin gets up, and I have to go with me.
After a year, I did not earn compensation, someone advised me to give up, I bought a ticket overnight and sat hard for two days to go home, knelt in front of my father for a night, asked for 100,000 yuan to change hands and gave it to Xu Bin.
I can see his efforts and I know he wants to give me a better life, so I am willing to throw money or contribute.
In 2015, Xu Bin's diagnosis and treatment technology gradually matured, the operation of the hospital was on the right track, we hired two employees, my workload was greatly reduced, only responsible for the accounts in the store.
At the end of that year, Xu Bin mysteriously pulled me to a Western restaurant for dinner, and we learned the way we looked on TV, not very skilled at cutting steaks with knives and forks. Halfway through, we laughed in unison, and Xu Bin said, "It's better to go home and eat goulash, just now when the waiter asked me how ripe I wanted, I almost said I wanted to be fully cooked." ”
02
It was almost noon, Xu Bin hurried to the store, as soon as he entered the door, he pulled me into the office, "Wife, you listen to me, I don't know who I have offended, they want to make me do this, don't you know me, I have all my mind on you, how can I go out to spend the day and drink." ”
I nodded and shook his hand, "Of course I know. ”
I thought that this matter was just like this, when the door was about to close in the afternoon, Xiao Li in the store handed the mysterious secret of the mobile phone and whispered to me: "Sister, I think this matter can not be hidden for a long time, hesitate again and again, I think it is better to tell you." ”
A Douyin account sent three videos in succession, in which Xu Bin wrapped his arms around other women and smiled sweetly. I don't know when they were filmed, Xu Bin often smiled at me like this, the same smile, but the woman on the other side was replaced by another.
The next two videos are the ultrasound image of the child and the chat history between them. It can be seen that the other party has broken the boat, and such a private dialogue can also be made public.
The account claims that it will continue to expose this beast that deceived her of being pregnant and abandoned her, and the video will be sent out one after another, and updated synchronously on major social networking sites, so that everyone can wait and see.
I took a deep breath and said to Xiao Li, "It's not early, let's go back first." ”
Xu Bin has been hiding in the office since he returned from the call, pushing away all the customers who came to him for consultation. As soon as the door was unlocked, I heard the sound of something smashing inside.
She's going to ruin me, this crazy woman!
I said, "Won't you explain it to me?" ”
Xu Bin can speak eloquently, but I don't believe a word, he nagged and explained to me, I was a little tired of listening, "Let's agree on divorce or go through the litigation process?" ”
Xu Bin was stunned, he knelt down for me, cried a handful of tears, and put the responsibility on the woman.
"I know it's wrong, I'm obsessed, I have absolutely no intention of being with her, the child is also she didn't take advantage of me, I am Babe's father after all, we have to give the child a complete home." 」
As soon as he finished speaking, I gave him a slap, "You still know a little about personnel, after the divorce, the children belong to me, you clean up and get out, don't want to take a penny from home." ”
He thought I was joking, after all the years of feelings there, he was the pillar of this shop, we had a fight before, no matter how fierce the quarrel, I would eventually compromise in his soft and hard bubble. But this time is different.
He coaxed me for a few days, and when he found that there was really no room for turning, he changed his face and began to pull up the marital property with me.
I applied for a lawsuit, pointing out that he was the wrong party in the marriage, and finally the child was awarded to me, but the pet hospital was jointly operated by us after marriage, which belonged to the common property and needed to be divided, but Xu Bin needed to compensate me to a certain extent.
When checking the account, Xu Bin was dumbfounded, "How can there be only such a little money." ”
I smiled and said, "When the child is older, he must have a house." ”
Xu Bin was incredulous: "You bought a house for Babe behind my back?" ”
I nodded, "Full, in the city center." ”
Xu Bin reacted to this and shouted out in a voice at the door of the court: "Did you already know?" ”
People came and went, and Xu Bin finally took off his mask, no longer the considerate and warm man. His cheeks were covered with blue-and-black stubble, his eyes were bloodshot, and he grabbed me by the collar, and if he wasn't still outside, he would probably have punched me twice.
"When did you start counting me?"
"Two years ago."
Xu Bin was stunned, two years ago when he had just met the woman.
03
That time I went back to my mother's parents, walked for more than a month, and when I came back, I found that the number of kilometers on the car was not correct. Ten kilometers back and forth from my house to the shop, counting the fact that he occasionally hangs out with fox drinkers, how can there be no more of this.
The car has been running for five years, and the change in a few numbers at the end of the kilometers is difficult to detect, but I happened to have just maintained the car before I left, and I have a general impression of the original kilometer number. I remembered that the clerk tried to persuade me to install a GPS positioning, and I nodded my head in agreement.
The location shows that during that time, he frequently traveled through most of the city and stayed in a small area south of the city.
Xu Bin's usual communication is not complicated, he sits in the store all day, and the most he sees is the customer. I quickly screened out several suspects from the medical records and stayed in the store every day to verify my suspicions.
Sometimes I have to admire a woman's intuition, and the moment I saw the woman step into Xu Bin's clinic with the cat, I was almost certain that the person I was looking for was her.
The glass of the clinic is transparent, and the situation inside can be clearly seen from the outside, and the two people have no half-point crossing, but the subtle feeling is difficult to describe in words.
I can't catch a little evidence, I can't start a seizure, I think about divorce, but although this shop is recorded in my name, the main operator is Xu Bin, and I don't understand many things in the industry.
After the divorce, he divided up the property and started a new stove, and I could only guard the empty shell of this shop and gradually exhaust the last bit of savings.
I didn't make a fuss, I didn't even mention this matter to Xu Bin, he was gentle and considerate on the surface, and I still accepted it all. I have consulted with a lawyer, I have also looked up a lot of information, I have drafted a divorce agreement, and I have secretly changed it many, many times.
I carefully guarded this stormy home, thinking that if Xu Bin wanted to understand that he had separated from her, I would act as if nothing had happened, and the days were the same, but I didn't expect him to be quite affectionate.
The moment I learned that the woman was pregnant, I knew the day of reckoning was approaching.
During that time, I purchased a lot of advanced instruments on the pretext of expanding my business, which led to a significant reduction in the liquidity we had on hand, and naturally there was less money left in Xu Bin's hands. The business money is personally settled by me every day, and Xu Bin can't touch it if he wants to.
Whenever he had the signs of filing for divorce, I would put my son in front of him, but he still had some conscience, and when he saw it, he shut up and did not mention it.
On the other hand, the child is about to be born, Xu Bin neither gives money nor fame, and the woman naturally does not do it.
I expected them to break up sooner or later, and the woman might call the door one day and tell me that they were true love, and let me let go.
What I didn't expect was that the woman's methods were so tragic, almost ending up with Xu Bin, such a scandal she even exposed the details clearly, and all the friends around her became watchers.
04
Xu Bin scolded me for leaving him for nothing, but when he scolded him, he lost his confidence.
Two years ago, I was probably what he said, when I was content to be my full-time wife, occasionally asking about the business of the store, going through the accounts for the month, and I didn't know anything about the technology.
From the moment I decided that I could no longer rely on Xu Bin, I took the exam to upgrade myself, passed the exam of practicing veterinary qualifications, and had been sitting in the shop for half a year, Xu Bin would follow every time I did surgery, and occasionally under his guidance, I would receive some minor surgeries.
He advised me at that time that I should be at ease with the Lord, and I said that I would share the burden for him, and that the people I would hire would have my own family. When he saw that I was on the high side, he didn't stop me anymore.
After he left, I can't guarantee that this small hospital will be the same, but at least it won't be able to run without him.
He suddenly realized, "It turns out that you have already figured everything out." ”
"I wish I had never been able to do this, I tried to save the marriage, but in the end I found out that the only thing I could save was myself." 」
I pushed Xu Bin away and walked down the steps of the courtroom, and I heard him shouting my name behind his back, cursing that I would regret it, but I was sure I had never made such a correct decision.
The breeze is gentle, waiting for the flowers to bloom, and may my future life be the same.
End。
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