Boys and girls have different tempers, and their lives in the future are completely different, and parents must learn to treat them differently, otherwise it is difficult for their children to have a job.
When a boy grows up, he assumes a male role and society will also put forward many requirements for him, such as he should be brave, responsible, self-motivated, and so on. However, parents should reflect on whether they often make such a request to boys: you don't always... You have to learn to be quiet, not to lose your temper... One mom said she found a strange phenomenon that the child always liked to stick to her until she was 3 years old, but after 3 years old, she liked his father more. This is because as the child grows up, he has a perception of his gender, and he has more of the temperament that a boy should have. Therefore, mothers should learn to give way in the education of boys, let the child's father take more children, give the boy more space, let him learn to be independent and decisive, and be a responsible man in the future.
Girls are born with soft hearts and delicate hearts, which is different from the parents of boys when educating girls, they should give her a little more patience and tolerance, and cannot beat and scold children at every turn. And girls grow up to unconsciously imitate their mothers for their lives, children and partners. Therefore, mothers should be closer to their daughters and establish an image that a woman should have for her daughters. In this way, she will be more easily accepted by the people around her when she grows up, especially when girls grow up, they may encounter problems that some women will encounter like their mothers. The mother's words and deeds play a crucial role in the development of the girl. Raising a boy should pay attention to cultivating his character Raising a girl should pay attention to cultivating her cultivation.