Hehe fell from the stroller because of his mother-in-law's negligence, stirring up a contradiction in the home where the sea was calm and the seabed was already choppy, and it was also the first small quarrel
After knowing that Hehe was in an accident
Fang's mother blamed Xiao's mother for the first time and felt sorry for her granddaughter
Xiao Mu was the first time to explain and apologize, and kept repeating the situation at that time, "Don't be lazy yourself, the car will go down like this"
Yinuo's first time is to take care of the child, put the child first, comfort the child, and take the child to the hospital
Xiao Lu was first to appease people's hearts, starting from his wife Yinuo, to the she-wolf and finally to his own mother, both sides were appeased
It turns out that most of everyone thinks about problems from their own point of view
Xiao Lu, because he knew that Fang Mu thought that Xiao Mu was "unfaithful a hundred times at a time", thought that Xiao Mu ignored her granddaughter in order to play mahjong.
His wife Yinuo also thought that she did not need the care of her mother-in-law, so she deliberately wanted to borrow Xiao Xu's lack of people to cook for him and let Xiao Xu go home.
However, Xiao Xu was resentful because he saw that Xiao Mu was so "instigated" in Xiao Lu's house, and only obeyed the words of Fang Mu and Yi Nuo in everything, and even the smoking addiction of most of his life was determined to change, and Fang Mu did not let Xiao Mu touch the child and used her as a nanny.
Xiao Xu was very upset to see Xiao Mu being commanded by Fang Mu and Yi Nuo because he was not accustomed to seeing Xiao Mu become the Fang family's nanny.
Fang Mu thought that Xiao Xu was uneducated, and that the mother-in-law was all the way, and looked down on them from the bottom of her heart.
Thinking that Xiao Mu was sloppy in doing things, Fang Mu deliberately excluded Xiao Mu because she wanted to drive Xiao Mu away, did not let Xiao Mu touch the child Hehe, and also deliberately let Xiao Mu take care of all the housework and cooking.
Xiao Xu's arrival became the fuse that began a family quarrel
"A cigarette" tore through the ugly cloth of the home
Xiao Xu smoked at home, which once again caused a quarrel.
When Xiao Mu was educating her child Xiao Xu, she was taught by Fang Mu to say that "this child is not learning well"
The two opposites began to complain their own, pouring out the resentment in their stomachs in one breath
Xiao Xu helped Xiao Mu blame Fang Mu, "You suppress my mother everywhere, don't let her touch Hehe, and use her as a nanny?" ”
Fang Mu angrily scolded Xiao Xu, "There is no tutor"; Xiao Mu retorted, "I will take care of my own children." ”
Xiao Xu was disrespectful to Xiao Mu again, and he bit back with a promise, "Xiao Xu, how to talk, I see that you have not been happy for a long time."
A mother and daughter quarrel with a mother and son who are not related by blood, and everyone protects the calves and everyone helps their own family to speak
Blood ties became the reason they were on the same line
I remember that before Yinuo also helped Xiao Xu speak, and said to Fang Mu, "He is like that, people are not bad, they don't get in the way." ”
Xiao Mu also said, "The family and everything are for Hehe, for your brother, and for this family." ”
Never say it so early, people are still defeated in the face of their own interests
Probably human nature is like this, never think from the perspective of others, and pay more attention to their own interests
As the male protagonist who linked the two families unrelated by blood, Xiao Lu returned
Seeing the chickens and dogs jumping at home, the four people fought to be red-faced
His first time was" "Have you ever thought about me, you have not cared about my feelings, I am not easy."
Probably everyone thinks that Xiao Lu is evading responsibility, but in fact, more importantly, they only think of themselves
I know the hard work of my wife with my children, I know the little thing between my mother-in-law and my mother, and I know that everyone in the family is very hard
But he still took himself as a starting point and said his bitter water: "When I come back from work, I still have to coax the small ones, coax the old ones, and only sleep on the sofa every night."
They all know their own difficulties
Xiao Lu knew that it was difficult for the women of the whole family to take care of Hehe and deal with the trivial affairs in the family
Yinuo knows that her husband works hard every day to make money, just for her and Hehe
Fang Mu also knew that Yinuo needed someone to take care of her, and she also knew that Xiao Mu did not take good care of her, so she specially came to help Yinuo
Xiao Mu put "home and everything" on her lips, she can do anything, just let her see her granddaughter
Xiao Xu just couldn't get used to Xiao Mu's nest and let others bully him
But really when the "contradiction" comes, everyone abandons reason and follows the truest thoughts in their hearts
It seems that many people will only measure others from their own point of view, and thinking from the perspective of others has become "non-existent"
Man himself is selfish, no one can be absolutely cruel to himself, and all considerations are done without conflicting interests
It is impossible for each of us to be completely kind, there will always be selfishness
There will still be suspicion, doubt, questioning, and anger towards the people around you
Yinuo went from being jealous of his sister-in-law to not trusting his mother-in-law, but only trusting his mother
When Fang Mu saw Xiao Xu's "rotten life", she let Xiao Xu compare herself with her daughter Yinuo and looked down on the Xiao family's gang
Although Xiao Mu liked her daughter-in-law Yinuo, she often had her son's name on her mouth
Xiao Lu coaxed and deceived the emotions of people on both sides, from small to old, just so that he could sleep peacefully
As the old saying goes, "your own children hurt themselves" Whether it is Xiao Mu or Fang Mu, it is for their own children
When they encounter problems, they always help their own families to speak, and in their hearts, everyone else is an outsider
It's not that protecting calves is a bad thing, it's just a natural instinct of people
People are like that, always most of the time is the first time to think about their own interests from their own point of view,
A home needs a bunch of harmony, but the most terrible thing is that you don't want to put yourself in the shoes of others, and you only see your own efforts
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