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Narrator: Sun Yulian, 52 years old
"I hate him all my life, not only me, so many people hate him, even if he is dead now, I still will not forgive him." 」
I heard two days ago that he died, and I heard that he died of cancer. Listen to the villagers, he found his cancer two years ago, when he first found it was the middle of lung cancer, the cancer spread behind, the late stage, and finally the treatment for half a year, the family's money was almost spent, I heard that I still owed hundreds of thousands of debts, and finally it was not cured.
Why say he? Because he used to hurt our family a lot. And recently because of his death, everyone is talking about him, not about his death, but more about the sins he has done in the homes of those of us.
He and we are from the same village, just different surnames. Although the deceased was great, the sins he had created were too inhumane, and these days everyone was talking about the bad things he had done before, and some villagers were talking about tears coming down.
At that time, when family planning was very strictly grasped, the township often came down to check the work of family planning, originally they were all from the same village, and the other village cadres were able to help everyone intercede, and they could tell everyone to hide, after all, this was a matter of saving people and saving lives, but he was holding a position in the township, in fact, it was the township and the village that sent letters, as if he had a salary, just because he had a little right in his hand, and as a result, this dog's leg would hurt everyone so badly.
I was a son born in the 1990s, and the policy at that time was that the rural hukou could only have one son, and if the first child was a daughter, a second child could be born, but it had to be born every five years before the second child could be born.
After I gave birth to my eldest daughter, I gave birth to the second eldest son of our family in the third year, which was a son, and according to the policy at that time, it belonged to the supernatural birth. I was born in November of the first year, and it was the New Year a few days after I finished my confinement, because it was the New Year, and the leaders of family planning in the township came to the house, but I did not do anything excessive, just saying that my second son belonged to the supernatural birth. This situation is very much in our rural areas, and the two children are basically one or two years apart, so the family planning examination did not say anything.
At the end of the year, that is, around the third month of the lunar calendar, this dog leg brought several township family planning practitioners to our house.
When I first came, I was more polite, because when he was a child, he and my uncle were classmates, and his family conditions were poor, and my mother-in-law often gave him food from home. He was received by my mother-in-law, and he did not do anything excessive after seeing my mother-in-law, but he also told us that we must go to the township to pay the fine. The leaders of the township who were engaged in family planning also said that they would pay fines, but where we could get the fines of several thousand yuan, the families were all working in the family farms, and there were still very few migrant workers at that time.
The leader of the township who was engaged in family planning also said a few words, and then this dog-legged man said that if he could not pay the fine, he would have to take away the things in the family. My husband said that things could not be moved, so he said that if he did not move things, he would move the pigs and cattle in the family, and then he also said: I know where your pigs and cattle are locked.
You say this kind of person is hateful and hateful?
We were all honest people, and at that time, no matter who we were, we all thought we were high officials. One of their words, we don't even dare to stand up to the atmosphere. Or the mother-in-law pleaded, and the talents from the township said that they could not pay it today, and they had to find a way to pay it next time.
Finally we said a lot of good things, they left, originally left, did not expect this dog leg to turn around and say viciously: A week is not ready to fine, I will take your pig and cow away.
This sentence can frighten our whole family a lot, because they have done such things before. Two years ago, a cousin of my family had a second child, and the township snatched her pigs and cattle away. At that time, the pig was the treasure of the whole family, and the cost of the family depended on the pig of the New Year, the cow was used for ploughing the land, there was no cow, and eating was a problem.
The fourth day, I distinctly remember, was the fourth day, not the week he said. This dog-legged man brought four young people to the house, these young people were not the people who came from the village last time, but the thugs he brought.
As soon as we arrived at the house, we asked on our toes if we had any money ready. Where do we have so much money, the whole family all year round is to sell pigs and tea leaves at home to sell some money, a total of no more than two thousand yuan, but also to spend a family of seven or eight people, where to put together so much money.
We said no, a few more days of grace.
He asked how much money we had now, and we had to pay it today.
We replied that last time didn't we say a week, how come we came today to hand it over.
He said that the leaders above said that if they want to pay the fine in advance, they must pay it today, and if they can't pay it, they will use the things at home to pay it.
His tone is very bad and his attitude is also very tough. The mother-in-law called his nickname, talked about the previous things, and wanted him to help with his soft heart, but he did not put the previous kindness in his eyes at all, and directly came to a sentence: Today you are also going to pay for it, and if you can't hand it over, you can either take the things at home or arrest your husband to sit in the classroom.
We were all scared, and we were going to be beaten up in the classroom.
I held the child and cried all the time, and my mother-in-law and husband pulled them to prevent them from moving things. There's really nothing, just a table and a wardrobe.
The dog's leg pulled the mother-in-law apart, after all, he was not so bold to beat the old man, only to pull my mother-in-law apart. My husband went to stop them from moving things, and he slapped my husband in the face. Even if my husband was beaten, he wouldn't let them move. They saw that things were not worth anything, and my husband was so desperate to protect them, knowing that he could not move away, he directly smashed the table, cabinet, mirror and window glass on the table with a flat shoulder.
My husband can't beat them, and he can't protect things, so he has to go to the yard and shout and beat people, wanting to find neighbors to help, but where do you dare to come out, this group of wolf-like dog legs, do everything out, who dares to provoke.
Seeing that there was nothing of much value in the room, they ran straight to my pig pen and bullpen. The cattle in the cattle pen had already been put on the top of the mountain, and only the pigs had no place to hide, and they were still in the pig pen, so the group snatched away the pigs that had been caught in the family for a long time.
When they snatched the pigs, my husband went directly to the village chief, and by the time the village chief came over, they had already carried the pigs (the pig cage they had brought first, as well as the rope for the pigs and the sticks for carrying the pigs) to the entrance of the village.
My mother-in-law and I stayed at home crying, what can I do, I can't beat them. The mother-in-law has been counting down that he is not human, and when he was a child, he was fed to the dog at home.
Later, my husband came back and said: The two of them chased all the way to the mouth of the village, and it took a long way out of the village to catch up with them, and the village chief also told him that it was not okay, and that you in a village would be ungrateful in doing so. He replied that it was not about the affairs of your village, you did not grasp the family planning and did not hold you responsible, now the meaning of the township, you do not care.
The husband saw that they carried the pigs away from the family, and refused to do anything, so he desperately tried to catch them back, and was kicked by him and the two people with him, and he threatened to arrest you and go back to the classroom if he moved again.
Hearing this, my husband didn't dare to move no matter how much he wanted to get something back.
When my husband and the village chief came back to tell us about this matter, the tears really couldn't stop flowing, and they cried while talking, but they didn't cry like we women, and the village chief couldn't help it, but could only sigh and say that he was really not a person.
My mother-in-law and I just cried, and when the child saw me crying, he also cried loudly, and when the village chief saw this situation, he just comforted us and said: In a few days, I will go to the township to reflect.
In this way, the newly made furniture of my house was smashed by them, the room was full of smashed mirrors and stools, the doors of the table and wardrobe were smashed, and the two windows were also smashed. The family's pigs were also snatched.
This is what the man who just died had done to my family, not only my family, but several families in the village who had been smashed by him in those years, and did not pay a fine, but watched as they snatched the pigs and cattle from the family.
The most tragic thing was that a man in the village, in order to snatch back the cattle they had stolen, was beaten by them from behind with a flat shoulder, and the pain caused people to lie on the ground and scream. The back of the family lay in bed for a month, asked several doctors to cure, and now when the weather changes, the waist is still painful, that is, the flat burden.
Now that he's dead, I can't say he died well, but for someone like this, it's better not to stay in the world for that long. To outsiders, he is very good, you can't see it at all, but for the people you know, you say that they are all from a village, doing so many bad things, are you really not afraid of retribution?
Later, he moved out of the village, and his life was not good, and the son-in-law was an alcoholic, who did not care about the family at all, and beat his daughter. His son also hanged Er Lang Dang, and the family was almost a scourge, and then he himself got cancer, as if he borrowed hundreds of thousands of dollars, and he was not cured for two years. He also asked everyone to raise money, but there were very few people who donated money, after all, he had done too many sins, and no one would be pitiful to such a person.
I don't believe in fate, but I believe in blessings, more virtue, good for myself, good for future generations, don't you say?
The narrator, Sun Yulian, was a rural woman who spoke calmly, but the tears never stopped in her eyes.
The humiliation and injustice of the fate that has been suffered will slowly fade with time, but it will not fade, and sometimes, when looking back on these unbearable past events, the pain of tearing the heart and lungs will be even worse than when it was first experienced.
That kind of struggle against fate and the helplessness of reality have made countless people choose silence, but some people will occasionally mention it, and some people will bury these deeply, but burying it does not mean that it has not happened. Sometimes, these dirt buried deep in the heart will become inflamed, decayed, and swollen in the heart, until it corrodes the person to a thousand holes and is painful.
The ideal is very full, the reality is very bone, I am willing to use this pen in my hand to tell everyone about the variety of life, are you willing to be the person who pours out?
If you wish, please send me a private message.