In 2013, Liu Mintao proposed a divorce to her rich husband, who laughed and said, "If you are joking, quickly take back the words, you really divorced you can't even eat." ”
The cause of Liu Mintao's divorce from her husband was actually because of an ice cream.
In 1976, Liu Mintao was born into an ordinary family in Yantai.
In this family, the elders are quite traditional in their thinking, believing that girls should take a smooth and stable path.
"Study well, grow up and get a stable job, then get married, have children, and teach your husband and children at home."
Liu Mintao has been an obedient child since childhood, and her parents' planning for the girl's life has invisibly become her own life blueprint.
The only accident may be that Liu Mintao listened to his aunt's advice and went to the Chinese opera.
Unexpectedly, I embarked on the profession of actor, which looks unstable.
Even this "accident" is from the suggestions of others.
After entering the entertainment circle, Liu Mintao participated in many plays, but they were tepid.
And she herself is also a person who advocates going with the flow, so she did not bother to hype...
In 2006, 30-year-old Liu Mintao met a rich man under the arrangement of his parents.
The two soon entered the marriage hall, and a good marriage must require someone to sacrifice.
After marriage, Liu Mintao gave up her career and became a housewife.
After giving birth to her daughter, she felt more and more distant from her husband.
Because there are fewer and more, the husband does not care about his daughter at all, and every time he asks for money, he must look at his husband's face.
In the 7-year marriage, everything was done by Liu Mintao alone.
Like a "widowed marriage," the husband becomes a decoration.
In 2013, Liu Mintao and her rich husband traveled to Japan when she saw an ice cream shop while shopping.
So she begged her husband, "Can you buy me an ice cream?"
But I didn't expect to be glared at by my husband, and said impatiently: "I still eat ice cream when I am too old, and I am not ashamed to lose people."
After saying that, her husband left, leaving Liu Mintao alone in the same place.
Liu Mintao carried a large bag of brand names bought for her husband, but her husband was not even willing to buy ice cream.
Liu Mintao thought about it or held back his anger, and finally didn't say anything.
Three years later, Liu Mintao, who was alone, revisited his hometown and deliberately found the ice cream shop that he had missed.
I went in and bought a matcha-flavored ice cream, which tasted no different from usual ice cream.
But for her, it was a new birth, a freedom, a farewell to the past.
At this moment, she was extremely grateful for the decision she had made that year, pulling her out of the abyss of the giants and ending the "widowed marriage".
As Liu Mintao herself said, she has been living a "textbook" female life for the first half of her life, step by step, without waves.
Liu Mintao completely got rid of the role of a pleaser, and she began to explore the meaning of life.
At the same time, she also relied on her previous connections and friendships to re-work hard.
Although she is also considered an "old man" in the entertainment industry now, she has been shadowing for many years, and she knows the gap between her current strength and her peers.
She set her mind right and competed with a group of young people.
Finally, she has passed the stand and once again turned popular with a series of popular dramas such as "Langya List" and "The Pretender".
Now she is more dazzling than when she was younger, more mature and stable, and more confident.
In addition, Liu Mintao no longer "goes with the flow", but takes the initiative to try diversified development.
She can be seen in "Immersive" and "The Birth of an Actor".
A self-releasing "red high heels" pushed her to the hot search.
She has changed from the little woman who took the "husband and godson" as the first, but even ate an ice cream to see her husband's face, to an independent modern woman with a career, money, and ability to make up her own mind.
Later, Liu Mintao also went to Japan and ate an ice cream in that restaurant.
She said it was the taste of freedom, independence.
Later, Liu Mintao told the story of his "matcha ice cream" in a speech at People magazine.
Encourage women in torment to live out their own lives.
She married a tycoon at the age of 30, experienced 7 years of painful marriage, and now she lives a brazen and self-ego.
Remember her saying: "The bright smile on the wedding photo is not all the expressions after that, since the rule-based, follow-the-flow life has not brought me the expected happiness!" 」
"On the contrary, let me live a humble and pale life in the good years that should be full of energy, so it is better to be myself, to let go of myself, to achieve myself, to take risks in life as I want, to see where my limits are!" 」
Women with careers are the most beautiful, and no matter what family conditions, women should not give up their careers.
Without a career, there is no social networking, and the opportunity to enrich yourself is lost.
In this era of seeking equality between men and women, women are still vulnerable.
At every turn, he will persuade you to go home to your husband and teach your son, and when you become an old mother, you will be abandoned again.
Not giving up your career and pursuit is the key, shuttling between high-rise buildings and competing in an environment full of talents can you always stay sober.
In a woman's life, in addition to marriage, family and children, what must not be given up is to cultivate herself and focus on her career.
Because there are countless facts that prove that if you rely solely on your husband, you can only make the road narrower and narrower, and women will eventually have to live for themselves.
