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"The person in front of the concubine is no longer the person at that time, and the two look at each other, but they are disappointed..."
In "The Biography of Ruyi", This line of Ruyi is full of disappointment in Hongli and regret for feelings.
It has touched countless audiences.
After all this, she was already extremely disappointed in Hongli, and finally, even if the door of Yikun Palace was open to Hongli at any time.
However, the calm and disappointment in her eyes was a silent force that shut Hongli away.
In fact, a woman's disappointment in a person is not a hysterical roar, nor is it the despair of blacking out.
Rather, mourning is greater than death.
She is no longer willing to put in any more effort, nor will she have any more emotional fluctuations.
Ming ming is standing opposite you, but it is as far away as the Milky Way.
There was no temperature in the eyes, only disappointment, and a terrible calm.
No, physical contact with you again.
They also became very polite, as if they were strangers who had only just met each other a few days ago.
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No more physical contact
Between lovers, there will often be some intimate physical contact, holding hands, hugging...
This touch of temperature, sharing the heartbeat, is the happiness of the time of love.
It is said that a woman's love is both dedicated and desperate.
When you love someone, you want to see each other every day and want to hold each other's hands.
Even if you press the road and take a walk, it is happiness.
But if you don't love it, if you are disappointed, you don't want to have any more touches, not even eye contact.
She obviously didn't break the connection, you can still see her, and you are still sitting at that table eating.
However, there was no longer any intimacy.
She's not like before, she let you peel shrimp for her, and then playfully stretched her face to ask you to feed her.
Instead, I concentrated on eating the rice in my bowl and did not have any contact or communication with you.
Because after the disappointment, there will be some gaps in the heart.
The two may still be together, maintaining the status of a couple or a couple, but she feels that it is difficult to go back to the past.
In "Mr. Love", Song Ningyu did something sorry for Gu Yao, and more than once.
Gu Yao was disappointed in her husband Song Ningyu again and again.
Later, Gu Yao collapsed and fell, and Song Ningyu went to help, but she directly threw her away.
She couldn't get through the barrier in her heart, and she always felt aggrieved and disappointed, so she couldn't even pretend to pretend, and she didn't want to pretend again.
At the moment, her own value is far greater than yours.
Because I was disappointed, I wouldn't give any more, and I didn't want to be hurt twice and repeat the same mistakes.
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Become rational and polite
Think about what it would be like for the person we met for the first time. Is it both polite and polite?
Because everyone is not familiar with it, it will be so.
However, when we are familiar, we become talkative, and we can talk about anything.
After a woman is disappointed in you, in fact, she will return to this stage and be both rational and polite to you.
In "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun was hurt by her husband.
Disappointed, in the period after the divorce, Luo Zijun did not break the connection, but generously met with him.
When he made a request for a house and money distribution, Luo Zijun rationally put forward his own request.
No crying, no pestering.
And in the beginning, she cried and cried, complained endlessly, and begged him every day.
After the disappointment, forgiveness really becomes a luxury.
Break the connection, make a fuss and not let go, quarrel every day;
In fact, she is not really disappointed, or want to use this way in exchange for a good result.
But when the truth is powerless to change, the disappointment is in front of her, and she hurts again and again.
She wouldn't be resentful and she wouldn't hold out any more hope.
On the contrary, he is rational to indifferent, holding the idea of "let him go", polite to the point of being a stranger.
It's as if you're just a passer-by in her life, a general friend.
She wants to forget you and rediscover that passionate self for love, rather than being frustrated and sad countless times with you.
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There are no mood swings
Once watched a video like this where the girl received a text message.
The content is probably her ex-boyfriend, because he misses her, so he is depressed and stuffs himself in the room and does not come out.
As a roommate, I want her to remember the old feelings she once had together, come to the house to persuade him, and cherish his body.
The girl went and politely brought fruit to the door.
Then, it's gone.
She didn't have any mood swings, just a simple feeling that out of courtesy she should go and see.
I think she has, must have experienced, an unknown past.
He also once stuffed himself in the room, longing for his boyfriend to comfort him, but it ended in disappointment.
There is no love for no reason, and there is no disappointment without reason.
Perhaps, some of the things you think are just small things, but when they are piled together, they become a bend that cannot be bypassed.
A woman's love is a plus point system and will speak for you in her heart.
However, when it was added to a certain extent that it was no longer able to convince itself, the camel was crushed.
But it wasn't just about one thing, it wasn't just about that straw.
Her joys and sorrows are no more.
Seeing and hearing your news, it will not stay in the mind, just like hearing the side of the road.
Disconnection, not a sign of disappointment, turning a blind eye, being polite and rational, and not having any contact with you is.
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