A person's life needs to make countless decisions, each decision will affect the direction of things, but also affect the final development results. The same is true of the emotional thing, everyone's decision affects the final result of the relationship, and this result is sometimes tragic, and some are entangled. Some people are very desperate in front of their feelings, especially when they no longer love, do you know why?
First, their own personality problems
Many people in the face of feelings, are very calm, no matter what the other party does, no matter what kind of efforts the other party has made, always unmoved, feel as if the whole world is centered on themselves, so often give people the feeling of being very cold, it feels like seeing through the red dust. In fact, many people feel this way when they don't know them, but their real appearance is not like this. The reason why they behave so calmly is because their personality is like this, they will not waste their time for unnecessary feelings, nor will they waste their tears for those unnecessary feelings.
Therefore, combined with their own personality, they will feel very cold-blooded. No matter how sweet it was to be together, and no matter what kind of sea oath mountain alliance they once were together, those were already rain and clouds. They already know what they want, so they don't want to care about people who have no relationship anymore.
Second, for mutual consideration
Why many people have become desperate, most of them are the work of the other party, so that he has to do this. If you don't do this, it is impossible to break up successfully no matter what, and the final result may become entangled, the loss may be more, and the painful time will be infinitely extended. Therefore, it is better to simply despair, so that the other party can quickly get out of the grief, and you can also let yourself quickly sort out the emotions and live again.
Therefore, when you don't love, or when you have proposed to break up, you should be desperate, and on the basis of not violating the principle, you should turn a blind eye and listen to it, so that it is good for everyone for a long time. After all, long pain is not as good as short pain, and it is good for everyone to get out of the world of grief in time.
Third, I am afraid that I will not be willing to do it
When some people break up, they will act very desperate, not because they don't love, not because they don't feel pain, but because if they show weakness, they may be reluctant to separate, and they will be reluctant to break up. After all, how much can be together, how much have been deeply in love with each other, and have paid their own youth for it, it is impossible to say that they have broken their love, and they can really do absolute love.
Therefore, whenever they feel reluctant, they will psychologically hint that they should be desperate, so that it is good for everyone, and after a long time, the feelings can naturally be healed.
Fourth, when the fate is exhausted, it is necessary to gather and disperse
People's desperation often has one reason, that patience is worn out, love is worn out, and lowly humility is worn out. There will always be a reason for things to happen, and you can use the exhaustion of fate as an excuse, but the real reason may be that there is a contradiction between two people, and this contradiction is accumulated day and night, not a sudden outbreak. When proposing a breakup, if you can find the problem in time and make changes in time, it may be salvageable, but if you can not find the problem in time and save it in time, then you may only be doomed to do your best.
When your fate is exhausted, you should also be prepared to get together and disperse, after all, love is not easy, not to mention that two people can spend so much time together. Since you have decided to separate, why can't you separate well and make a good impression on each other, instead of being entangled and dragging mud and water, in vain to increase the pain of time.
Therefore, no matter whether the fate is exhausted or how, we should cherish each other well, after all, no one can predict tomorrow and accidents who will come first, and do not leave regrets for each other's youth, which is the best proof of giving each other love.
Love is never a word, a slap does not sound, if there is no joint effort of two people, even if one person does more, it will always be meaningless to this relationship. After all, love always needs to be mutual, a person's love is always like an island, there is no response and no way to alleviate loneliness, it is not as easy and comfortable as a person. Therefore, if you don't love, you will be desperate, separate well, and let this relationship have a good ending. Do not drag mud and water, this will not only affect each other's life, but also delay the youth of others.