I found that there are many elderly people in the countryside who are lonely and lonely, and many children say very well in filial piety to the elderly, pretend to be very similar, in fact, they are very general. There are four possible reasons for this:
First, some children are in the environment of the environment. Many people in the countryside are not very good to the elderly, they only want to get by with face, while others rarely ask questions, and their attitude towards the elderly is not good. This phenomenon may subtly affect other people, everyone "compares" with each other, no one says anyone, and they all pretend to be deaf and dumb with their conscience.
Second, some children have no money in their hands. Some people may not have any ability, nor can they earn any money, afraid that their wives are afraid of the severity, have more than enough heart and insufficient strength, can not give the old man a little money, and do not buy some good food for the old man. But there are still some people who also have money, but they are unwilling to spend on the elderly, they are very stingy with the elderly, and they are responsive to their children, and such people are very hateful.
Third, some children are busy every day. In order to support their families, some people may be really busy, often not at home, and there is no time to care for the elderly. But there are still some people who just don't have anything to do, and they don't want to look at the elderly, accompany the elderly, and often "go through the door three times and don't enter."
Fourth, some have the influence of children's culture and education. Some people may not have any education, have low academic qualifications, have a big grin, and are not very good at filial piety to the elderly. But there are also some people who understand everything, that is, they do not know how to be good to the elderly, they may be prejudiced against the elderly, or they may be deliberate.
2022.4.16